W.M. asks from Murfreesboro, TN on February 04, 2012
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Hi moms! I will make my story short by saying that I was raised by my mother and my adoptive father. My mother divorced my birth father when I was a baby then remarried. They felt it best at the time to have my mother's new husband adopt me. Much more to the story but...my question is this: My birth father has found me. I am 42 years old and he wants to reconnect with me and meet my family. We are going to meet him in March and I would like to bring a gift. Just a 'hostess' type gift, nothing mushy or fancy. I was thinking along the lines of a game (I know they like to play games), a bottle of wine, a dessert, a picture framed of my family, and what else? I don't know much about he and his wife but I would like to have a nice gift for them when they welcome us into their home. They are very excited that they have grandchildren now and a son in law. Very exciting....would love to hear your suggestions. Thank you in advance!
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Ladies, I love, love, love your suggestions! I think I am going to do the wine, game, dessert, and a framed pic of my family and then on Father's Day I will give the album of pics from my childhood. That seems an appropriate time to give something like that. Thanks so much!!
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M.B. answers from Austin on February 04, 2012
Could you give him an album of copies of photos of you growing up? I'm sure there is a lot he is wondering about on what he missed while you were young... I think that would mean a lot.
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❤.M. answers from Los Angeles on February 04, 2012
I think wat you have is perfect!
A basket of wine, dessert, framed picture of your family.
If you absolutely want to add something else, you could, in fact, do a "timeline of your life" with pictures of when you were a child growing up.
For example, you could put in a picture of your first day of school, or when you lost your first tooth or whatever you have.
They have sites like, Shutterbly.com where you can make a little book.
I received a few of these for Christmas from friends & they got theirs at
Costco & Hallmark (connections).
So happy to hear you found your birth father. Here's to a fabulous visit!
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P.G. answers from Des Moines on February 04, 2012
A nice album of your childhood, wedding, children, and etc. .....everything he has missed.
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☆.A. answers from Pittsburgh on February 05, 2012
For the first meeting I would stick to the game, wine, dessert, or framed photo. Down the road, as your relationship grows, I think, is the time for childhood photos, etc. Good luck! How nice that he found you!
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S.L. answers from Lexington on February 07, 2012
Don't know what your stock of pictures is, but if you could put together a photo album/scrapbook of your own growing up, I imagine that would be a terrific gift. A way of sharing and it could become a "pride book" that he will cherish.
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