I agree with the other Mama's that you should find a specialist. I'd also add, from personal experience, that you'll want to find one willing to let you try natural remedies as well... like wild yam for progestins and/or soy for estrogen.
I know that my hormones were wacko for a year+ after I had my son. Even after I stopped nursing it took months to have a regular period, even on the mini-pill!
I hear commercials for Stark Pharmacy, right here in Shawnee Mission, all the time on the radio. They do a lot with hormone therapy, from custom blends and testing, to clinical trials and info seminars... you might check them out too.
And, hang in there. I'm sure that God has a plan for good in all this! (Rom. 8:28) And I'll say a little prayer for you, your marriage, and your family (current and future)!