S.H. asks from Chicago, IL on October 19, 2006
Looking for Alternative to Infant Formula
Hello. I am the parent of a baby that was 3 months premature. She is just over two months old (adjusted age) and is about 5 months old chronologically. She was in the hospital for 4 months and my milk dried up while she was there. I have tried relactating without success. I have heard that there are other options to store brand formulas out there (i.e. homemade), but would like to know if anyone has actually tried them. The ones I've seen call for unpasteurized milk which makes me a bit nervous since she is very suceptible to infection / illness. Please let me know if you know of and or have tried any natural formula recipies. Also, I am considering adding some pharmaceutical grade fish oil to her standard formula - has anyone done this with their baby?
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Thanks everyone. I am going to talk with my pediatrician regarding some of these ideas (milk banks, other formula options, etc).
Here's a little more of the story if you are interested regarding my experience nursing (it seemed some people were curious). I was able to nurse Isabella (by pumping milk) for a while (she was only feeding through a tube at the time), but my milk supply was always low and, with being back at work, it dried up. We tried fenugreek and reglan to increase my milk supply. Unfortunately, the fenugreek didn't work and reglan made me feel awful. After she came home, I tried pumping again and taking the reglan to relactate. Once again I had a bad experience with reglan (I wasn't able to sleep at all).
While I am unhappy that I won't be able to breastfeed, I realized from some of these responses that I am still feeling guilty about not being able to carry my baby to term and give her everything I intended. Thanks for helping me to see that - it is something I need to work on for myself and for my daughter.
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A.O. answers from Chicago on October 20, 2006
Several people mentioned lactation consultants. I have used Janet Talmadge in Naperville. www.lactationinnovation.com
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C.G. answers from Chicago on October 19, 2006
There are some recipes for goats milk formulas out there. I haven't tried them personally, but from my research, goat's milk is closer to human milk than cow's milk and has a better balance of nutrients. I know there is a recipe at www.drsears.com . Whole foods has Goat's Milk for not too bad of a price, and cheaper than formula:) It would be a good way to avoid all the chemicals in formula. Good luck!
**Just wanted to edit to add that formula is "full of chemicals" is not what I said. I assumed may want to avoid the chemicals in formula, which is reasonable. The first ingredient in formula is modified corn syrup. As with all vitamin supplements and fortified things it far better to get it from a natural source than an engineered one. The body absorbs things more efficiently when they are in an unprocessed state. As I mentioned, goat's milk is nutritionally closer to human milk than cow's milk- in fact in many other countries young children drink goat's milk for that reason.
I think it's wonderful that you were able to breastfeed your daughter for any amount of time in the NICU, that is tough! Keeping supply up while pumping and nursing a preemie is hard for even the most dedicated mom, sounds like you did your very best. And trying to relactate on top of that! You should feed your baby whatever you feel comfortable with and not feel any guilt.
By the way, the formula recipe I suggested is made from *pasteurized* goat's milk. Also, in case there is any doubt in my motives, both of my children have been mostly (store-bought) formula fed. My son is allergic to cow's milk and soy so I have had to look for some creative solutions to meet his needs. Good luck!
J.G. answers from Chicago on October 19, 2006
Have you inquired to your pediatrican and found out what is available for your baby.
I dont know about the unpasterized and all the new things out there but the Pediatrican would be the one that I would talk to first on this issue.
J.
A.S. answers from Chicago on October 20, 2006
Suzanne,
I would not experiment with homemade formula for a baby who was premature and still is so young. It is not safe.
Do you know about Earth's Best Baby food? They make 2 organic infant formulas--dairy based and soy based. www.earthsbest.com. It probably contains the fish oil compounds already, too. Goat milk will be ok later. Now, your baby needs the special ingredients in the formulas for healthy development. Good luck.
Amy
N.R. answers from Chicago on October 19, 2006
Hi Suzanne- Why do you want an alternative to the store brand? Do you feel it is not good for your daughter? I am sorry your milk dried up and you could not re-lactate. I ended up not breastfeeding my daughter after she was born b/c she was in the NICU for a few days and we got off to a rocky start breastfeeding. I do know that there is organic baby formula as well as milk banks where you can buy breast milk. However, with the second option you really do not know what the lactating mother is ingesting.
If you feel guilty in some way about formula feeding your daughter don't. There is a terrible amount of preassure out there to breastfeed and it is not always possible.
S.S. answers from Chicago on October 19, 2006
It must feel so good to have your Daughter home with you, I remember how great it was when I got to bring my premies home. (One born at 30 weeks and was in the NICU for 3 months and 1 day, One born at 35 weeks and home in a few days, With both leaving without them was so hard.) Let us know how things are going. I don't know if your daughter has any long term things going on but if so Let me know and I will help you with resourse.
~S.
R. answers from Chicago on October 19, 2006
Are you worried about commercial formulas? I guess the only thing I could say is that we used them and felt really good about our choices.
If you are REALLY amibitious (which it sounds like you are!) then making your own formula should be done under the guidance of a medical professional. Quite honestly, I would worry about experimenting in my own kitchen!
Good luck to you and your precious baby!
A. answers from Chicago on October 20, 2006
I have heard great things about goat's milk as well. Worth checking out if you are looking for alternatives. Check out the book "Nourishing Traditions" by Sally O'Fallon as well. I believe she has a section on feeding babies.
All the best to you and congrats on a healthy baby girl!
Warmly-
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A.A. answers from Chicago on October 20, 2006
Hi S.,
I'm also a mom of a 28 weeker and just wanted to lend my support. I can tell from your question that you know breast milk is best especially for preemies. I'm curious as to what you tried to relactate? And how long ago your milk "dried up" - were you pumping/trying to nurse in the NICU? I had GREAT success building milk supply with herbs such as fenugreek and "dry" pumping. Some OB's also advocate the use of Reglan (which is a reflux med, you're babe may have actually been on this in the NICU) it's an off label use but it cause milk production - I've read of adoptive mom's using this so that they can nurse their adopted babe. I'd also suggest contacting your local La Leche League for support and more info. I heard some suggest using donated/banked milk which is also an excellent idea. You should have no problem getting a presciption due to prematurity.
I don't know the first thing about formula, but if you have to use I'd be sure to use organic especially if you're using a cow's milk based formula- I've heard that Earth's Best Organic is good.
Good luck and I hope you and your baby continue to do well!
A.
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