Hi! My husband is the pastor at Abiding Peace Lutheran on the corner of Randall & College Green (across from Meijer) in Elgin. We're small but the members are friendly. We have several families with kids around your son's age. While we don't have specific kid's programs during services, we love having kids in the service with us and have children's sermons every other week. We have Sunday school for the kids at 9:15 while the adults have Bible class, too. We also have a Mornings with Mom program on Thursday mornings for kids and parents to come and play. It may not be what you're looking for, but I wanted to let you know we're here and invite you to come and check us out.