Since I'm not Catholic I don't have a specific church recommendation but do either of your families belong to a church? If so, perhaps that would be an option. My husband and I lived 5 hours away from family when our kids were born. I had joined a church when I was pregnant with our first child, but we really wanted the baptism to be held closer to our families so they could easily attend. My grandmother's pastor was wonderful and didn't hesitate to help us out.