J.H. asks from Eau Claire, WI on March 13, 2007
Learning to Sleep in Toddler Bed
I have a 22 month old son named Alex. I currently have him in a crib still due to the fact that he throws a fit when you put him to bed. I am wondering when I will know it's time to put him in a real bed.
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Alex is doing great in his bbig boy bed. We also moved Shane into his own room in his crib yesterday. He did really well also. Me not so well I feel like I am losing my babies.
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M.C. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
I didn't know with mine. I was expecting a baby and 3 months or so before the baby was due I put her mattress on the floor to sleep. She was having issues staying in her room so I put her back in her crib and she climbed out. When they climb out that is a good indicator or if maybe the crib has a weight limit or something. My daughter was about 21 months when she converted out of the crib. If you need more information on what we did, how the transition went, how we finally got her in her toddler bed etc. ask me. Good luck:)
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T.S. answers from Milwaukee on March 14, 2007
Hi J.! My daughter is 22 months old and we have been in a "big girl bed" for about 2 months now. What we did was my husband and I bought a railing (one of those that folds under the matress) to replace the one side of the crib. When we felt like she could go without the railing we took it down and now we put a gate up at the doorway for her. Yes she did throw fits at first when it was time to go to bed (and still does sometimes) but you have to stick with it! If you stick with a schedule the kids will adapt to it and learn. Remember your the parent, not them. Hope this helps.
A.V. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
usually when it becomes dangerous for him to sleep in the crib example crawling/climbing out. when that happens you could try taking just the side railing off to start with so he is more comfortable sleeping in his crib but also like a big boy in a bed.
A.H. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
I think you will just know when he is ready. Some people think that potty training and big beds should coinside but it totally depends on your child. We have a friend whose son was crawling out of the crib at 11 months, and he went into a big bed and did great. We put our daughter into a big bed right before her 2nd birthday, so about 22-23 months. We talked it up alot before, let her help pick out her new bed, new sheets, etc. And she was put in a new room at the same time so it was alot of change but she did just great with it. Now she is 2 1/2 and has no problem. Yes she gets out and plays sometimes at nap time but can also get up and go potty in the morning (we put a potty chair in her room) and has toys in there for her. So if your son is screaming, he isn't quite ready yet, at least that's what I would think. He needs to be excited and ready for it.
K.H. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
Leave him in the crib until be can climb out. We moved our daughter into a toddler bed too early and had to put her back in the crib. Then when she did start to climb out we had to move her for safety reasons and she has been a horrible sleeper ever since. She leaves her room and tries to sleep with us among many other things that makes all of us sleep deprived. She is 3 1/2 now and we still have major sleep issues.
B.H. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
I would keep him in the crib as long as possible but if he starts to climb or making the crib a hazzard then put him in a bed.
J.F. answers from St. Cloud on March 16, 2007
I never bought a toddler bed for either of my kids. Both my daughter and my son were in twin beds by the time they were about 15 or 16 months old. Best decision I ever made. They loved it and slept so much better at night. I found from many parents that their kids hated toddler beds so I skipped even buying one and went right to a twin bed. Of course I put a side guard on it but it was so worth it especially doing it that young. They adjusted so much faster and better than others I've seen ( I was a nanny for 2 families for 6 and a half years).
M.C. answers from Minneapolis on March 14, 2007
I didn't know with mine. I was expecting a baby and 3 months or so before the baby was due I put her mattress on the floor to sleep. She was having issues staying in her room so I put her back in her crib and she climbed out. When they climb out that is a good indicator or if maybe the crib has a weight limit or something. My daughter was about 21 months when she converted out of the crib. If you need more information on what we did, how the transition went, how we finally got her in her toddler bed etc. ask me. Good luck:)
C.L. answers from Duluth on March 14, 2007
we tried to move Sophia to a toddler bed at 2 yrs, but she couldn't STAND it! I was so disappointed because I bought this beautiful crib, and splurged a little more than I would have because it converted. Well, we went through 3 months of hell with NONE of us sleeping until we finally put her in a full sized bed. We've all slept great since.
I would have kept her in the crib longer but she was scaling it and hopping out and that became dangerous.
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