A.B. asks from Canyon, TX on March 28, 2008
Kissing Lab Mix
My kids love our dog! Our dog loves the kids! One problem...Joey loves to "kiss" the kids any chance he gets! The kids, of course, love it and laugh and play with Joey, but even if Joey is inside most of the day, I don't know that I like him kissing the kids...Any suggestions on how to stop this?
So What Happened?™
Thank you all for your opinions! After reading some, I realized some things. I think my kids have pretty much taken care of themselves...I know it would be a tough job to get Joey to stop kissing, but my babies instinctively turn their faces away. So Joey ends up kissing the sides of their heads instead! I think I'll just be more firm in the no kissing faces for Joey. Again thank you all!
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B.C. answers from Wichita Falls on March 31, 2008
I think this has been mentioned, but really, the dog's mouth is cleaner than a human's. They even proved this on "Mythbusters." We have two VERY affectionate Cavaliers, and one very affectionate son. We try to limit the kissing, but I've decided not to overly freak out over it. We have taught the dogs "no licking," and they obey when it's me or my husband. But it is harder for them to resist a one-year-old who eagerly kisses right back. My theory is that as long as he's not still doing it in his teens, we'll be ok... :)
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L.C. answers from Dallas on March 29, 2008
A dogs mouth is inherently cleaner than any humans mouth. I received kisses from all my dogs all my life, so have all of my children. We have all survived. Just my humble opinion.
B.C. answers from Wichita Falls on March 31, 2008
I think this has been mentioned, but really, the dog's mouth is cleaner than a human's. They even proved this on "Mythbusters." We have two VERY affectionate Cavaliers, and one very affectionate son. We try to limit the kissing, but I've decided not to overly freak out over it. We have taught the dogs "no licking," and they obey when it's me or my husband. But it is harder for them to resist a one-year-old who eagerly kisses right back. My theory is that as long as he's not still doing it in his teens, we'll be ok... :)
K.S. answers from Dallas on March 29, 2008
Our 3 1/2 year old granddaughter loves to give and get kisses from one of our dogs in particular who is willing to oblige. She hasn't gotten ill from it yet. We also have given up trying.
She loves to play cat or dog. I think she's finally about outgrown sharing the pet's foods and playing in their water. Another habit that I think has been broken is going outside to do her business like the dogs.
I does help with the kissing issue if the child does not have something yummy smeared all over their face, but Labs are schmoozers. They love to love. They lean on you. They snuggle up. They dance around your feet. They live by their noses.
K.K. answers from Dallas on March 29, 2008
Consistantly tell the dog an and children no. Only use postive reinforcements.
B.T. answers from Wichita Falls on March 30, 2008
I saw a special on the news a few months ago about the benefits of having a dog. They talked about that in today's world we are so germ phobic that we are actually doing harm to our children. They are not getting enough contact with harmless germs that help build their immune systems. Dogs are a great way for children to have contact with such germs. Children who have dogs are more likely to have stronger immune systems and fewer allergies, asthma, etc. If you don't want the dog kissing on your kids I think that positive reinforcement for the dog and the kids is the best. Explain to your kids why you don't want the dog kissing them and be consistent. Good Luck!
J.G. answers from Dallas on March 28, 2008
I decided that there were much worse things that my son would put in his mouth, so I stopped dwelling on it. He's 4 1/2 now and still loves to kiss the dogs! On the up side, he doesn't have any dog allergies!
A.J. answers from Dallas on March 29, 2008
I grew up with a ton of dogs and they kissed me ALL the time... I think I turned out OK. I kiss my ShitZu now and no problems!!!
Let them watch Charlie brown with Lucy and Snoopy giving her "DOG KISSES" a few times and maybe that will help!
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P.M. answers from Dallas on March 29, 2008
I think that I have always told my son that doggie kisses are ick and to turn his head away. I explained that it's okay to kiss - just not on the mouth. That's not going to be easy to explain to kids that are 2 and 9 months, but just make a big example of always turning your head away and also not letting the doggie kiss your hands.
Unfortunately, you probably won't be able to teach the dog to stop. Kissing is it's own reward as we laugh and giggle and of course most kids taste like yummies to doggies.
Good luck! :-)
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