J.C. asks from Pittston, PA on November 14, 2011
Kindergarten - Pittston,PA
Hi Mamas!
I would like to ask all of you about your children as they entered Kindergarten. I am curious, what skills exactly did they all have going into it?
I have a son, going to be 5 in April and I am already nervous. What does he need to know to be ahead when he gets there? Multiplication? Reading chapter books? (kidding) But I really am curious what everyones experiences have been. I want to get him ready the best way he needs to be, but am not exactly sure how much is too much, or how little is too little. I have him in PreK, but want to be certain they are giving him what he needs.
Thank you all very much!
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R.Y. answers from New York on November 14, 2011
My son is in K now. He isn't reading yet but is very close (he can sound out some words and knows his letter sounds). Some but not all his classmates can read.
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A.S. answers from Dallas on November 14, 2011
The school district my daughter goes to sent a list to us before school started. It is as follows:
Can feed and toilet independently
Can operate buttons, zippers, and snaps on clothes
Can tie his/her shoes independently or wear ones with velcro
Can sit and listen to a complete story
Can recite simple nursery rhymes or songs
Can stay awake during school hours and does not need a nap (they do all day kindergarten here)
Can work and play well with other children
Can separate from parents easily when left in care of others
Can write first name using upper and lower case letters
Can count to 20
Can read and write all upper and lower case letters of the alphabet
Can follow simple 2-3 step directions.
This is a general list of things. If he is in Pre-K he will be fine. I found that for the most part a lot of the things they are learning at first in Kindergarten are taught in order to get everyone on the same page since you will have a significant number of kids entering kindergarten with little to no preschool/Pre K experience.
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D.B. answers from Charlotte on November 14, 2011
Added - reading Carol's post is eye-popping. Not every school district expects this of children coming into kindergarten. And I would be very upset if my kid's school expected this. Go talk to your elementary school and find out what they look for. It is RIDICULOUS for a school to expect children to be able to read coming into kindergarten.
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J., what you child needs to do in kindergarten is be able to follow the teacher's rules and transition from activity to activity. Kinders learn HOW to be in school. It is wonderful for your child to know his ABC's, numbers, and easy addition. Colors, shapes, drawing and coloring, working with manipulatives so that it is easier for him to learn to write. (Picking up small beads, things like that, to help develop strength and dexterity in his fingers to prepare him for writing.)
You don't want to have him "go to school" too early. What I mean is that you don't want to give him work sheets and act like he is supposed to sit down and "work" while he is in preschool. You want him to learn by playing. You can do math anywhere you are - in the store, outside in the park. You can point out ABC's and introduce him to sounds that the letters make while you are looking at billboards. Take him to the library and sit in the cushions or couch and read to him. If there's a Saturday morning reading program there, take him and let him sit in the circle and listen to a story. Circle time is very important and children need to have the maturity to be able to do that.
Sometimes children AREN'T ready for kindergarten if they can't sit still, listen to a story, transition from activity to activity well. Sometimes they need to wait a year and go when they are older. Your pre-school teachers and the guidance counselor at the elementary school can give you assessments of your child's readiness. I had to do that with my own son. I have never regretted waiting until he was mature enough to go.
So - no multiplication tables and chapter books, okay? (LOL!) Teach him life overall. The reading, writing and arithmetic will come!!
D.
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T.S. answers from San Francisco on November 14, 2011
Hmm, we are in one of the top (public) school districts in California. Many kids come in "advanced" and others, not so much. There are no academic requirements. Yes, they evaluate them to see how well they know their letters, numbers, days of the week, writing skills, etc. but it's just a starting point. It's also about making sure the classes are well balanced and identifying any early learning problems.
Being ready for kindergarten is pretty much the same as it has been for years: a child should be able to use the toilet, get in and out of their jackets/shoes on their own, sit and listen to a story, follow simple directions, have basic manners with other children and adults (waiting, taking turns, not hitting etc.)
If you want to prepare your child at home, have him do lots of drawing, cutting, gluing, coloring, anything that improves fine motor (pre writing) skills. Do lots of counting and sorting (how many pancakes do we need? how many of each type of fruit is in your fruit salad? do you have more red tee shirts than blue?) And of course read to him every day! Reading is all about comprehension and following a story, even if he isn't reading on his own it's still important to be able to recall a story that was read aloud :)
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L.A. answers from Austin on November 14, 2011
Be be to sit quietly and listen to a story.
Can follow multi task instructions without help or reminders. "We are getting ready to go to the store. Please go and pick out a snack and get me one too. Put the snacks in my purse. Get your jacket and put it on."
Knows how to spell his name.
Maybe can write his name.
Totally Potty trained.
Can draw a face with the features in the proper places.. (not perfect)
Can count to 30.
Knows the alphabet.
Can write some of the letters and some of the numbers.
Can recognize some letters and some numbers.
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☆.A. answers from Pittsburgh on November 14, 2011
My son's class was reading by Christmas. Simple addition, self help skills--bathroom, dressing, etc, Some kids are ahead, some are behind--but all tend to level out throughout the year. At his "evaluation", my son had to count (they stopped him at over 100. Spell his name, cut out a simple shape with scissors, color a picture of a butterfly...
Here's a website with a "Kindergarten readiness checklist":
http://school.familyeducation.com/kindergarten/school-rea...
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K.S. answers from Minneapolis on November 14, 2011
Mamazita's answer sums it up very well. I would just add not to worry about prepping a bunch of academics. Make learning a part of the world he experiences every day. Read to him a lot, encourage a love of books, give him opportunities to explore and make new friends. Fine motor skills are often one of the hardest parts for boys so give him opportunities to color, use a white board, find objects in playdough or putty, make stuff with play dough, scissors, etc. Kumon has some great little project books with fun cutting projects that are designed for his age group (I think Target carries some of them).
My son was a very young K (turned 5 2 weeks before cutoff date). We were worried about social stuff, but he did amazingly well. Fine motor was the biggest challenge. Everything else just fell into place bit by bit. K teachers are amazing, they are able to deal with such a wide range of skills when kids start. DS's K class had kids you didn't know a single letter to kids reading advanced (and I mean high school level) dinosaur books and were able to pronounce every word. The teacher will get to know your child and match the material to him. But he will feel more confident if he can sing the alphabet song, recognize some letters and their sounds, count to 10, and write his name. His PreK teacher can also let you know if they see any issues.
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C.W. answers from Washington DC on November 14, 2011
There will be a wide range of abilities when he starts. My daughter was almost 6, so she was reading and writing some words and could identify all letters and print her name. My son had just turned 5. He could get his first name down and that was about it. And they said that was perfectly acceptable. They are now going over all the letters. He comes home excited and can write some words and read some words. By the end of kindergarten there are about 50 sight words they expect them to know. Our school had a back to school night in spring for prospective parents to tell them what to help their kids with over the summer, and during kindergarten round up they gave us a list of things to know. If your son is in preschool his teacher can also let you know. As for too much, those that are ahead are pulled out for "enrichment" and they are given some extra things to keep them interested.
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on November 14, 2011
Every school's curriculum, is different.
Don't worry.
My son, turned 5, after starting Kinder this past August.
Prior, he went to Preschool part time.
While in preschool, he had NO interest in academics or learning all that stuff.
I never pushed it.
His Kinder Teacher said, don't worry. He'll be fine.
And he is.
He is now a great student, can count way past 200, knows all his ABC's, letters and is reading now. And he knows some math too.
Every child, is at a different level. Some kids never went to preschool and some do. I never stressed about my son. Everything clicked... once he started Kinder. And he learned, quickly and loves it and it is fun for him.
My daughter on the other hand, already knew all that stuff, prior to entering Kinder. From 2 years old. She loved doing workbooks and learning. My son likes learning too... but he is just a different personality.
I never, worried.
And per my son, he was socially and emotionally ready and mature... and is good about focusing and listening to direction and cooperation etc.
So, both my kids, had different "skills" upon entering Kindergarten. But they both did well.
Both my kids, entered Kinder at 4. And because they are late born, they turned 5 years old a couple of months after entering Kinder.
Most of their class, was the same age. Only a few, were older. Not the majority.
In Kinder, my son even has computer class, Japanese language class, Hawaiian language class and Mandarin language class, PE, art, social studies, science, and the basics such as reading and numbers and math etc. But they learn, in a fun way. Not drilling. And of course, they play too and have recess.
Don't, worry.
Every Kindergarten and every Preschool, is different.
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