JFF...How Often Do You Spice It up in the BR?

I send naughty text s and/or picture to him via his phone.

Put a naughty DVD in the player

Let him catch me naked when he is about to leave, etc. He LOVES that.

Leave notes where he will find them when he is on the road.

I'd better get quiet now before I am judged too harshly, LOL

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With a baby and a toddler, just bothering to take my nursing bra off during love making counts as spicing things up around here.

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Very recently i implemented a new game. My husband works far away for almost a month every time he leaves. I told him this time to stop by a naughty store on the way home and pick up something that i could wear/watch/play- or use. To make it a surprise and then id would HAVE to do it.

Next time its my turn to pick.

I think im going to have naughty professional pics made. I recently lost 25 lbs and seriously toned my legs, i should show it off.

he was curious, but elated and he brought home some very interesting things. So far they were really fun and it was nothing super scary.,,,lol(although one of them was pretty intense and unexpected)

Im looking forward to my pick next.

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I always start early like when I get up in the morning. I do a little touchy touchy and then a nice long kiss before leaving for work. I always leave him wanting more so when bedtime comes it is a no brainer. :)

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We got into the habit of "doggie-style" when I was pregnant and couldn't have him on top.
It has actually become our favorite position.
But we try to switch it up, more foreplay, oral sex, other positions, using our hands more, things like that.

We also both quite like BDSM. But spanking is noisy and doing things like playing dominant and submissive or using bondage is time consuming,
so that is the stuff we do when we have a sitter for our daughter and can get more... involved.

We switch off quite often on which one of is the Dominant one and which of us is the submissive.

I try to have certain things that are just always done for him, that he enjoys, (so do I) like I keep myself hair free.

I also know he loves when I wear my dark black, thick eyeliner and platformed shoes, so I try to put that stuff on for him on occasion.

I used to send him emails telling how horney I was and stuff, but now his work at his new job monitors his emails. But we are getting new phones this week and I can start sending him messages :)

I think that is about it. :)

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I used to do so many cute things in that room...

You can be dressed super sexy when he comes home from work. That one always works! I used to do that every so often... heels, little dress or bustiere, makeup. We would sometimes tie each others hands up and do whatever we want. THAT is fun =)

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Just a funny thought. I abbreviate breakfast room BR, so I giggled at your post. I was like- what , they are messing around in the breakfast room? ;)

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much less often these days than before the kids.

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8kidsdad mentioned the book 101 Nights of Great Sex and they also make a game with the same title and its fun. It has these cards that some you use immediately and some you save for later.....its full of fun ideas.

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not at all lately, since my son.. no energy.. dont feel pretty enough just yet to be prancing around in a french maid outfit.... ugh...

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I don't anymore. I haven't been intimate for about 3-4 weeks. Just too damn tired with a 5 month old, 5, and 8 year old. Plus, baby is in our bedroom....so no loud monkey sex to be had right now. Sigh.

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If you have a dollar and I have a dollar and we trade dollars we are still just as poor. If you have an idea and I have an idea and we trade ideas we are both richer by one idea.

The book, "101 Nights of Great Sex" has at least 101 new ideas.

Once per week to once per month depending on work or vacation schedule.

Thanks for asking. Good luck to you and yours.

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My husband and I are very active and so I will wear new things or do something special for him every couple of weeks. Intimacy is really important to both of us for our marriage and it keeps our love and relationship---HOT, HOT, HOT! :)

I had to laugh that this posting only got 13 responses...does that tell you anything, lol?!