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JFF What Do You Pay Your Babysitter?

My husband and I are looking for a new backup sitter. I asked someone I know that is currently a part time nanny. I asked her if she wanted to fill in 1-4 times a month when my regular sitter isn't available and she said sure but wanted $15per hour!!! Wow...guess I'm spoiled cause I pay my current sitter $15 for the first hour and $5/hr after that to make sure her gas is covered. Little background....my son is almost 2, my regular sitter just got bumped up from the back up when my cousin recently moved an hour away. My cousin was the regular sitter and we paid both of them the same. We mostly use a sitter for evening (about 4hrs) and sats (about 8hrs). I don't even make $15 per hour...so it would cost me more than I'm making to pay the sitter...CRAZY!!

But it got me thinking...what do other moms pay for one toddler? Am I really that spoiled, or was that a lot to ask for??

What can I do next?

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I have a 4 and 5 yr old. They are at the sitters house 8:15 to 5:15 m-f. We pay her $30 a day for every day she watches them. That is way below the norm here. Average in a daycare is about 150 a kid per week. But she's a stay at home gramma already watching her own grandkids, so, I get out pretty cheap. The problem you are having is asking anyone that thinks of themselves as a nanny. You need a good old fashioned babysitter.

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Um... we have a full time daycare provider (group daycare) and we pay $210 per week. When we have a date-night sitter we pay $10 an hour. She's a college student who drives to our home to babysit and she has NEVER asked us for $20 per hour. That's ridiculous!

Find someone else. If you live near a college, email the student services department and ask if they have a babysitting list. When I was in college, our "student center" maintained a list of students interested in babysitting (including availability) and parents called all the time looking for someone! I know that I made a ton of $$ sitting in college.

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When I was living in Minneapolis, MN they did a news story on this topic. They said pay range for babysitters that can drive and have a flexible schedule expect between $9-15 per hour. The higher end went to those who lived closer into the big city (I at the time was paying $10 and lived about 30 minutes outside of Minneapolis). However, if it's a neighbor girl who can not drive (you may need to get her and drop her back home) and is still in a regular school schedule the pay rate drops to $6-8 per hour. However, every parent on the news segment stated that if the babysitter is coming after hours to just sit while your kids are sleeping, then $5 is totally appropriate as all they are doing is sitting and most likely playing on their phone.

Nanny prices were completely different though as they spend more hours at your home through out the week/month.

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I have two sitters that I use regularly for date nights. One just graduated and is heading off to college and the other is already in college (graduated high school a year early). I have two kids ages 3 and 5 and I pay them $10 per hour to watch both kids. In fact, since it's summer and my kids aren't in school, I have one of the sitters coming one day per week for a few hours so that I can get a break. Today is that day! Yay!

A nanny will likely ask for more money than a "babysitter" because it is their livelihood and they may do some laundry or cleaning along with watching the kids. I would suggest trying to find someone that is qualified, but not using the babysitting for their only means of employment. I would think you could find a college student home for the summer to help you out for around $8-10 per hour depending on where you live. Best of luck to you!

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Well, I'm not sure why that surprises you- it's her job. Watching kids is her job. Shouldn't she get hourly compensation that is at least somewhat similar to what she would make if she got any other job? That's JMO.

The pay range should really depend on lots of things- how old your kids are, what the hours are, does she watch only your kids or other kids, is it at her home or yours, etc, etc.

Our babysitter watches our two girls (4 & 7) part time right now at her home and she also watches other kids. She watches our two girls roughly 4 hours per day, 4 days per week, and we pay her $125 weekly. That amounts to almost $9/hour. If she got a job at wal-mart, that's about what she would be making. Seems MUCH more than fair to me that she's caring for my most prized possessions on wal-mart pay.

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My MIL recommended a babysitter that she was paying $15 an hour for 2 very independent kids. I called her and asked if she would take $10 an hour for 3 younger kids... and she agreed. I made sure she didn't have to do anything but put the kids to bed (I fed them, bathed them, gave them their vitamins and medicine, and had them brush their teeth before she came)... so all she had to do was play for an hour, put them to bed, then play on my computer and watch tv the rest of the time. I think that made up for the extra $5 ;)

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In my area normal for:

Intermittent Care
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babysitters is $10-$15 p/hour + tip +$5 per extra child per hour

Single day group care / camps for toddlers & elementary kids (like parent teacher conferences, holidays, etc.) $50 per half day, $100 for full days... per child

Regular Care
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Nannies make $20-$35 p/hour when it's on an hourly basis, or $50-$100 per day when it's regular. (but subtract 1/3 of normal for each child of their own that they bring along with)

Au Pairs make $150-250 per week, room and board covered, plus yearly 4k bonus

Group daycare (toddlers, potty trained at 40 hours) is about 1k per month ($6.25)

Group daycare (infant & diapered toddlers at 40 hours a week) is about $1600 per month
($10)

Afterschool care (older kids) at the Y (10 hours a week) is $500 a month
($10)

You were very lucky in the past. Avg in my previous area (Tampa Bay) for a sitter was $10-12/hr but a lot were asking $15. I only used two girls that I knew well (friends of family). I got them on the lower side ($10) but they did nothing but play with/feed/change my son. They would not even rinse out a cup, for example. I am not sure of going rates in my new area - I don't know anyone well enough yet to try a sitter.

I charge $6/hour (for one child) for evening sitting (or other times with only a few hours involved). I think most people in my area charge closer to 8/hr on average.

For a full day I usually have a daily rate. $25/day which mind you is quite low when you think about it.

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