A.G. asks from Gloucester, MA on June 12, 2009
Itchy Skin
My son is 3 and always complains about his skin itching. I don't know if it's just dry skin or some type of allergy. I use Dove for sensitive skin when I bathe him, and he doesn't take bubble baths. He hates to have lotion put on him and always has, so if it is dry skin, I don't know what to do to alleviate the itching. I have given him Benadryl at night a few times when it has been really bad, and that seemed to help, but I really don't want to give him that too often. I told my pediatrician that I think he has allergies, but he did not recommend the shots. He said that at this age the results are inconclusive. Any suggestions???
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D.B. answers from Boston on June 13, 2009
If it's constant, it's probably not "just dry skin" so I'd guess it's an allergy. You could try washing clothes in a dye-free, fragrance-free detergent, but if the itch is in places that the clothes don't touch, that's probably not it. Soap is drying anyway so try to limit bath time and don't use soap at all if he's not that dirty.
I'm going to guess that it's eczema which is usually due to a nutritional imbalance. Don't feel badly that you're doing something wrong - it is SO hard to eat "right" when so much food is processed and even produce/health foods are grown in depleted soils with fertilizers and contaminants. I have a bunch of friends whose kids got rid of allergies by using a nutritional supplement called Kids Now. You can buy it thru distributors who give you great help on an ongoing basis. It's patented (so no one else makes it, and what it says on the label is actually in the product!), safe for infants and pregnant moms, and made here in the US. One friend's 9 year old also takes a pinch of the fiber product from the same company and that seems to control the eczema. The mom had really bad eczema on her hands (they would bleed so much she couldn't even tie her kids' shoes). That has cleared up completely for her by using the adult product. She'd be happy to talk with you, and so would another friend whose kid had 50 allergies and they are all gone now. I'd be happy to give you more info and connect you to them.
I don't blame you for not wanting to give Benadryl a lot, and I agree that shots are a terrible idea in a little one. Besides, those things and even the topical creams are just treating the symptoms and not addressing the cause. You want to get to the bottom of this. You can spend a lot on doctors and tests, or you can try a supplement for a few months and see what happens. You've got nothing to lose!
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J.C. answers from Providence on June 15, 2009
I had this problem with myself and tried everything (soaps, lotions, detergents, including going to the dr and being tested for everything possible, etc). A few months ago, I decided to start taking omega-3 gel caps and it stopped IMMEDIATELY. So weird...
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L.P. answers from Barnstable on June 13, 2009
My son is very similar! He has dry sensitive skin & possible allergies. His ped. says he has mild eczema(you need to ask if this is the case for your son)but he doesn't need a prescription. My child hates lotions especially sunscreen and would rather itch than have the hydro cortisone ointment on really itchy spots. They suggested 1%hydro cortisone ointment for super itchy red and dry spots(because it is more moisturizing than lotions or cream), zyertec(when we spend a lot of time outside), dye free/frag. free laundry soap, and no soap baths. Anyway we have noticed that his skin is easily sensitive to dryness, bumps and itchiness with many lotions, soaps, and sunscreens. I have wasted so much money on things that just don't work for us! Here are some things we have found to be helpful for his skin issues, all the products can be bought from local stores. We don't wash his hair everyday just when needed with Johnson and Johnson(yellow) or Aveeno (clear)baby wash. Instead of soap or body cleansers on his body we wash with just water, at the end of his bath I use Aveeno's In-shower & Bath Oil the "dry skin relief" moisture oil(I tell him it is soap, "wash" all over and then rinse off) since I can't get lotion on him after baths anymore. It works well with no irritations, just be careful it's slippery stuff. "All" free and clear laundry detergent seems to clean and smell better than Arm & Hammer's free but both are good bets, watch out for detergents with fabric softeners they could be a problem. 1% hydro cortisone ointment (preferably with out the added aloe)for behind knees, in elbows and for the eczema spots. I put it on when he is sleeping or he will rub it off which makes everything worse. You may not have sensitivity issues with sunscreen but we do, Aveeno's faces sunscreens and Eucerin Sensitive Skin Everyday Protection face lotion with 30spf sunscreen work nice but you have to reapply often and I'm still looking for a better waterproof option for the beach. If I can get some lotion on his body I use Eucerin's Dry Therapy Calming Creme Daily Moisturizer or the Calming Itch-Relief Treatment. Also I read that yogurt is helpful for dry skin and eczema so I encourage it for snacks, but not the super sweet ones. It seems that to many oranges or citrus can give him eczema flare ups so I limit those things. I try to buy soft cotton clothing too. I know this is long but maybe it can save you some time, frustration, and money.
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S.C. answers from Bangor on June 12, 2009
We use a great toxin-free product in our home called Renew. It uses the natural healing power of tea tree oil or melaleuca oil to help with itchy, irritated skin. There is also a bath oil that works well with this lotion. It's also much less expensive than other lotions on the market.
If you'd like to know more, please feel free to contact me. I'd also be happy to get you a sample size to see if it works for you. Good luck & hope this helps!
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D.B. answers from Boston on June 13, 2009
If it's constant, it's probably not "just dry skin" so I'd guess it's an allergy. You could try washing clothes in a dye-free, fragrance-free detergent, but if the itch is in places that the clothes don't touch, that's probably not it. Soap is drying anyway so try to limit bath time and don't use soap at all if he's not that dirty.
I'm going to guess that it's eczema which is usually due to a nutritional imbalance. Don't feel badly that you're doing something wrong - it is SO hard to eat "right" when so much food is processed and even produce/health foods are grown in depleted soils with fertilizers and contaminants. I have a bunch of friends whose kids got rid of allergies by using a nutritional supplement called Kids Now. You can buy it thru distributors who give you great help on an ongoing basis. It's patented (so no one else makes it, and what it says on the label is actually in the product!), safe for infants and pregnant moms, and made here in the US. One friend's 9 year old also takes a pinch of the fiber product from the same company and that seems to control the eczema. The mom had really bad eczema on her hands (they would bleed so much she couldn't even tie her kids' shoes). That has cleared up completely for her by using the adult product. She'd be happy to talk with you, and so would another friend whose kid had 50 allergies and they are all gone now. I'd be happy to give you more info and connect you to them.
I don't blame you for not wanting to give Benadryl a lot, and I agree that shots are a terrible idea in a little one. Besides, those things and even the topical creams are just treating the symptoms and not addressing the cause. You want to get to the bottom of this. You can spend a lot on doctors and tests, or you can try a supplement for a few months and see what happens. You've got nothing to lose!
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K.N. answers from Springfield on June 13, 2009
My pediatrician told me to try putting fish oil- or some other oil, but for a boy avoid Flax seed oil- in his food. The skin is the body's cleanser so he might just be reacting to something and he might well outgrow it.
Check what laundry detergent you use. My son always reacts to everything. I use ALL free and clear and that seems ok. I also avoid putting anything next to his skin that isn't a natural fiber. When I put a shirt on him that has polyester in it, he tends to get itchy. So I stick to 100% cotton next to his skin.
Also just make sure that the Dove soap is free of fragrance. For some reason even some hypoallergenic stuff still has fragrance. That always irritates my son's skin.
Lastly, in order to get my kids to use lotion, I tell them they are "having a massage." They get to put lotion on me too and give me a "massage." I use Eucerin cream on my son's skin. It is that thicker stuff that comes in a tub. My daughter got to choose her lotion from a variety we had in the house, but I am more conservative with my son because his skin is so much more sensitive.
Good Luck!
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C.B. answers from Boston on June 13, 2009
Hi A., Have you looked to your laundry detergent? Have you tried the "free" versions, that don't contain fragrances or dyes? Even if you use those, be sure to try an "extra" rinse to be sure there's no detergent left on his clothes..........it could be something as simple as this! You never know until you try! Also, if his skin is dry, does he drink enough liquids each day?? Good luck..............
K.B. answers from Boston on June 15, 2009
Hi there,
Itchy skin is so tough. If he scratches too much and breaks skin, you have to worry about infection (we know this all too well). My daughter has allergy induced excema, and between the allergist, dermatologist, and pediatrician, we've got things under control. We use the most basic allergen free stuff to help her...
Cetaphyl skin cleanser is awesome.
Give him a bath every day, and as soon as he comes out, layer on Vaseline as though he just sat in a tub of it. It REALLY helps.
Also-ALL free and clear for laundry.
We use steroid cream and benadryl when she has a flare, but if you can manage it with these other things, hopefully he'll be more comfortable. It works for our daughter anyway.
Good luck.
L.S. answers from Providence on June 13, 2009
Ditto Sheila C.!! Renew is an awesome product and has worked wonders with my itchy dry skin aka eczema! No more steriod creams for me!!
D.N. answers from Boston on June 13, 2009
My daughter was the same way...try changing your laundry degtergent to Dreft. Rewash ALL of his clothes & bed linens, stuff animals etc. I still use it and she is 6.
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