S.L. asks from Pleasanton, CA on September 25, 2011
Is This Even Legal??? (Warning, May Be Upsetting to Some)
Well I know I value your advice, ladies, when I turn to you BEFORE calling my mom! Any input is appreciated.
Last night my husband and I were having dinner at our favorite pizza place in San Francisco. We have been going there since it opened and it's a great place. My husband comes out of the bathroom and says, "You won't believe it. There's a picture of a swastika in there." WTH??? There are two bathrooms in this place and we have only ever visited the other one...so after a minute I get up to take a look.
Sure enough, in the other bathroom there is a large, vintage type photo of a woman adjusting her boot and looking down at the floor where there is a swastika inlaid in the tile. It is very clearly the focal point of this photo.
I don't even know where to begin with this. First of all, my husband's grandfather was in the camps before escaping (we are Catholic but he was a member of the Belgian army). Second, I have many Jewish friends and I can't believe in this day and age people would still display this symbol.
Is it even legal? Am I overreacting? I literally feel sick to my stomach and so does my husband. Nothing ever fazes him and it was the first thing he brought up this morning...
BTW I was so shocked I didn't take a picture of it with my phone because if I did I would post it on Yelp...
ADDED: for those who have been asking, yes it is definitely a European photo, and it is the Nazi insignia. Thanks so much for your input so far...
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So What Happened?™
Hi everyone,
Thanks for your responses. I did email the owner but have not received a response. He is a very busy guy and traveling a lot, so I am going to assume he's busy and email his general manager next. She knows me from seeing me in there and I'm sure I will at least get an answer from her.
I think at this point it's better if I do not name the restaurant, because I really don't know if they've been given an opportunity to correct this until I at least get a response. I have decided though not to eat there because I just don't feel the same about it anymore. It makes me sad because 1. my family is from the same part of Italy as this guy is and 2. getting Italian food like that here in California is a huge deal, but what can you do???
Lastly, on the issue of free speech (and I don't want to start a major fight here), I have been struggling to determine where free speech ends and the abuse/marginalization of others begins. This is a subject that has always interested me. Although the use of the symbol "predates" the Nazis, and it was "a symbol of peace," and etc. etc., we all know what it means to us NOW and what it represented during the Holocaust. Also, there are many many other Prohibition-era photos which may be selected for a restaurant bathroom, none of which feature a swastika.
When I was in my teens I saw a public broadcasting documentary called "Shoah." It was about Holocaust survivors and they were filmed describing their experiences in the camps. We are (mostly) all mothers on this site and I can tell you the atrocities that were suffered by those poor children have definitely made me re-examine my notion of what free speech is all about. I don't think a person of Jewish descent should ever have to see this image displayed, anywhere.
I do appreciate the diversity of opinions on this site and thank you all for helping me come to terms with this one. You are a great group of women, and I feel lucky to have found this site. And thanks Amy, for finding the photo, because my husband and I looked and looked and still couldn't...
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T.N. answers from Albany on September 25, 2011
"Art" comes in many colors. It is rarely careful to not upset any given group of people.
So, yeah, it wouldn't phase me.
If there were a swastika on the MENU, well, that'd be a different thing!
:)
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S.S. answers from Cincinnati on September 25, 2011
The swatiska is actually a greek good luck symbol. Hitler saw it on a building and decided to make it his. sad. and yes it is legal. Its freedom of speech. but you also have the freedom not to eat there anymore
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B.F. answers from San Francisco on September 26, 2011
It's legal, even if unsavory.
Even if it was a piece from before Hitler, with a different intended meaning, it doesn't change how MOST folks interpret the symbol. I think you've been a customer long enough to ask about it and describe how it made you feel. It's just being honest. And, not to compare swasticas to pizza, but you would probably say something if the pizza began to suddenly dissapoint you. And if no improvements were made, you would probably stop patronizing the business.
On the bright side, the owner might have an interesting story behind it. Maybe even a story of good, not bad. Maybe that's why he's got it up there, hoping people will ask.
Let us know!
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L.L. answers from Rochester on September 25, 2011
Of course it's legal. You can display anything you want. We live in America. Is it tasteless? Tactless? Perhaps...I'd have to see it. The swastika is not just a symbol of the Nazi regime...but that's what we associate it with mostly. The owners of the pizza place might be white supremacists, skinheads, etc...
That's about the same as asking if people can hang the rebel flag. Yes, they can.
I certainly don't approve, but you know what? If you take that away, then you'd also have to take away my right to put a cross in front of my house at Christmas, and I don't want that.
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T.N. answers from Albany on September 25, 2011
"Art" comes in many colors. It is rarely careful to not upset any given group of people.
So, yeah, it wouldn't phase me.
If there were a swastika on the MENU, well, that'd be a different thing!
:)
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R.J. answers from Seattle on September 25, 2011
It's definitely legal... but I REALLY wonder at the meaning (allegience w/ the nazi party/neonazi party, propoganda -either side-, pinup, victory, photojournalism, staged art? ) . And the placement (only deserving to be hung in the sh!#house?). That picture wasn't hung randomly. There is SOME kind of meaning to it.
Rather ironically, the people I know with the most nazi stuff in their homes and businesses used to be those who had fought in Europe & Africa, or who had been war correspondents. Now, it tends to be their adult kids who have been handed down wartime souvenirs that are also mementos of their parents.
My HOPE is that when you ask about it, you are surprised as to the meaning (My father looted that when his unit took the Eagles nest, or my grandfather was a wartime photographer, or It's to remind us what happens when we start blaming a religion... like how many people in the US feel about muslims, many people in germany felt about jews), and not that you're at Skinhead Pizza.
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D.B. answers from Charlotte on September 25, 2011
Is the picture old? Can you see if it is set in Asia? Is she Asian? The reason is that before Hitler got ahold of the swastika, it was considered a symbol of peace.
I see swastikas in Asia all the time - they are old and in temples and shrines, etc. They don't have any negative connotations.
I would go talk to the owner. Ask point blank what his reasoning for having this in the bathroom is. If he says it means peace, ask him how anyone else is going to know this. He may ignore you, he may listen to you.
I would not ever eat there again if this was NOT representative of the Asian peace symbol, and I would tell everyone I know why.
D.
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C.O. answers from Washington DC on September 25, 2011
It is legal...you still have the right to freedom of speech...
It IS tacky and totally unacceptable (in my opinion).
No, you are NOT over reacting...while it may "just be a picture" it conjures much hate and bad memories...
My FIL is a Dachau survivor. I think he would come out of the bathroom shell-shocked if he saw anything like that - when you see them up close and personal when it was active...
I would ask the restaurant owner the reason behind the picture...is it HIS view? If it is - I would definitely stop patronizing the place...
GOOD LUCK!!!
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A.D. answers from Norfolk on September 25, 2011
It is completely legal, just like it's legal to have a cross or an american flag in public spaces. There are several different meaning for the swaztica symbol--not just supporting Nazism. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swastika
maybe just ask the owner/manager what they intended the picture to represent. In putting up such a controversial piece of art work, they know people will ask questions and are probably welcoming the conversation from customers
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S.L. answers from San Diego on September 25, 2011
This is soo sad...Hitler really changed this symbol...for years this was a symbol of peace and good will - believe it or not!!! And in the 1930's Hitler forever changed the stigma with this symbol....
Yes, it is legal.
I would ask the restaurant owner what the meaning or purpose of the picture is...I would take a serious look around the restaurant - do they employee only white people?
I would LIKE to think this was a symbol pre-1930...however you won't know until you ask...
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A.S. answers from Philadelphia on September 26, 2011
IF my google skills have not failed me... this is a 1920's era prohibition picture taken in the good ol' USA , the woman is hiding her flask... The signifcance of the swastika in this photo is apparently not know... (there was apparenty a brand of whiskey in early 1900's called swastika though..)
now ... given it took a few minutes of googling to figure this all out... not sure if it is smart of hang in public place..
here is the pic I found
http://www.imageenvision.com/historic/7423-stock-image-of...
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