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Is This a Crazy Idea?

I really would like to see what you, mothers, grandmothers and in general women think about this.

A friend of mine asked me to organize the birthday party for her turning 7 year old boy. I did, I behaved like it was the party for my own son and did something "normal, regular or simple" it was party at one of the bounce places, as a lot of people does.

I took care of the cake, ordering the food and drinks, goody bags, made an evite with the information my friend gave me, called to the people that did not have an email or regularly do not check emails, designed and printed invitations (there was not time for more since I had only two weeks notice) for the kids at school that were going to be invited.

My friend only had to give me the information (phone numbers and/or emails) and then we talked about how much that was going to cost and today, the day of the party, she was the one paying at the end. That was it.

I never intended to charge her since she is a close and good frien, but when she reimbursed me the expenses of goody bags and cakes she gave me a "little" (not that little) EXTRA for me.... I can not be more happy since I always have loved planning parties and is something that do not stress me as happens to other persons.

I am not a professional, I only have experience because I do a lot of parties at my house and when I used to work I planned big parties, but I do not have any "licenses or acreditaions"

Your input goes here, will it be realistic of me to think that I could do this more often? Would any or maybe how many would be soooo busy that would consider hiring someone to help in a simple party. How much will you be willing to pay for this type of help?

Am I just dreaming?

I have to let you know that in the past I tried to get into the art institute to study for event planning but I simple can not afford it. Still thinking I could go to the community college but for now I can not do it since I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old baby that go to mother's day out only twice a week.

I will really appreciate your thoughts, I am in a cloud right now. Please if you are going to bring me down my cloud be gentle.

A very sincere THANK YOU for taking the time to answer and give me your thoughs.

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What can I do next?

So What Happened?™

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR RESPONSES!
It was really empowering and blissful to have received so positive and encouraging words from everybody!
Here is what is next for me.
December I alway give a big party where Santa Claus comes and delivers in person a gift to the kids in the party, so I am starting to plan that, between that party and Christmas presents I should be busy. Then of course there is Christmas and New Year.
The same friend that started this dream that I can actually make some money planning parties asked me to organize his second son's Baptism and she wants it in January, so I am already thinking and looking and planning... So Excited!!!
One of you gave a great tip, to visit SCORE, I saw the website and think is a great place to start getting information if I try to make it more formal than just a mom that got an extra money coming in, so as soon as I have a chance I'll be taking a seminar in starting a business....
Only time will tell, I hope this is just the beginning and to stay in the path, I really like it ;)
THANK YOU ALL, SO MUCH!

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If I were you, I would call a professional party planner and ask them what is required to get started. (probably not much, just a DBA from city hall). Before my MIL started her buisiness, she went to work for someone who was doing what she was interested in to see what all was involved. When she was knew what it took, she quit and started her own business.

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This is a great idea and you should go for it!
There are other children's party planners out there...I hired one to help coordinate a little tea party for my daughter's 3rd birthday. She brought the tables, the tea sets, and assisted with the party. She also coordinated the balloons and the fairy who came. I ordered my own flowers, cupcakes, and food. This was a while ago, but she charged me around $300.00 including invitations and place cards.

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Go for it! There are lots of people that feel just as you said- completely stressed out over party planning.

As far as credentials go- look for something online that you can do at night after the kids go to bed.

Good Luck!

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It isn't a crazy idea at all...a good event planner doesn't need a degree (though I am sure it includes design basics and some contract training which can be helpful). You need to be organized, punctual, have an eye for detail, and be able to find the idea when your client isn't even sure what they want. You also have to KNOW what your time is worth and be able to charge a price without being apologetic.

If you would start to plan more elaborate affairs, you also need to have a good amount of working capital. Deposits can really add up and you may need to pay them before collecting from your client.

I am a single, working mother and as much as I love to do the fun stuff myself...I just usually don't have the time or patience. I know a lot of people who just don't LIKE to do it.

However, you must be realistic that everyone is not as easy to work with or as generous as your friend was. I don't know if you've ever worked a retail job, but if you have, take a few minutes to remember the meanest customer you ever had.

My personal opinion? Avoid weddings. I worked in the floral industry for years and they are just more trouble than they are worth. There are more lucrative events to consider--corporate meetings, lunches, etc.

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M.--
i have a job that requires me to work ridiculously long, exhausting hours. it is totally worth it and i am well-rewarded. my husband works full-time as well. we have 2 fabulous children who are 4 & 6. every year for their birthdays i hire someone to help me plan at least one of their parties. often it is the same woman, out of austin, who comes to our house with a pre-planned party. there are different themes, like teddy bear tea party or princess party. she provides invitations/thank-you notes, a cake, and paper goods. i decorate the house or yard and buy the balloons, then get to sit back and enjoy the party too. she arranges all the games & activities and i don't have to do a thing.

i pay about $125-150 for the party, etc, and then whatever i tip her. it's usually at least $25, sometimes more. she is amazing and the kids always love these parties.

this year, my 4 yo wanted a kung fu panda party, so i did all the work for it and discovered that this woman is a much better party planner than i am!!

i don't know if others would be willing to pay more than $100 for a child's party planner, but if you can afford it, it is a wonderful service! i think you could do very well if you marketed yourself well. you should be sure to talk to a lawyer; if that sounds too expensive, google local legal aid places to see what kind of "new client" fee they would charge just to talk--it's often free or very cheap b/c they want your business. just off the top of my head, i would say you'd want to be bonded & insured.

good luck & enjoy!!

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Hi M.,
I think you have a great idea! I am a parent educator and am just finishing up taking a marketing class that helped alot. The most important thing I learned is that you talk about NOT what you do....but Who you help (and mention What these people value) and What you help them with. My marketing teacher is quite clear that unless you help someone with a problem or need they have then you do not have a business.

So for example in my business (instead of talking about parent coaching, parent classes and all the different parenting philosphies I am trained in) I say something like this when people ask me what I do: "I help overwhelmed, exhausted, or discouraged parents who want a harmonious, cooperative family find effective solutions for misbehavior or ongoing family conflict".

So you might say something like "I help busy parents who want their children to feel special plan and execute awesome birthday celebrations". If you make a brochure or create a business card you can say that you have 10 (or however many) years of experience planning parties and events. That is true....you do have that much experience!

Here is an article that give some more ideas:
http://www.heartofbusiness.com/avoiding-www/
Would love to see your business card when you have it.
Good Luck!
Blessings,
K.

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M.,
You may not want to invest a lot of time and effort until you know what you can get out of it. SCORE is an organization that is free and helps people starting small businesses. I know they have an office in Austin, Corpus and Harlingen. Dallas and Houston.
www.score.org can give you the rest of their locations. You make an appt, talk to a counselor and you know what your potholes and possibilities are. For FREE!
Good luck,
K.

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Go for it! I think it would b awesome. Pray about it and b patient. Through God all things r possible.

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M., There must be something about your name because all of the Michelles that I know are very talented and creative. The sky is the limit with party planning. You could do graduation parties, bridal showers, baby showers etc. You could definitely have your own home business and host parties and sell products.

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I don't think it's crazy. If there are no laws to consider, I say go for it.

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If you've got an interest and a smidgen of talent, why not try doing another event for a friend and see if the satisfaction remains. Take classes as your interest and needs arise, but really reading books on your own and experience is a pretty good education. If you want to be more creative in your party planning, consider shadowing someone who is good at it and having them mentor you while working for them...but really if you just want to keep it small (for the moment) you've got a good start with just what you've done to draw from. Keep records and photograph events to create a portfolio to show future clients :)

Too: Remember its easy to get sucked into activities when we are bored with what's going on at home. Even if the kid's are in mom's day out there is still so much on the homefront that (although it may be underappreciated...speaking from a stereotypical point of view) still needs to be balanced...

Good Luck!

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