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Is He Weaning Himself?

Hi! My almost 7 month old has started pulling off the breast at the beginning of feedings and usually not drinking much. I know there's milk there b/c I can manually express some when he pulls off. He does this even in a quiet room where he shouldn't be distracted. I had started supplementing with formula before bedtime and when it seemed that my supply was low and he drinks that well. Any idea what's going on?? Thanks!

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Thank you, thank you! He is teething and he is starting to try to crawl! I will keep it up!

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Hi, My son did pretty much the same thing. Finally, at 9 mths he stopped breastfeeding altogether. I was a little disappointed because my goal was to go for at least 1 year with breastfeeding. But I thought "9 mths in the womb, 9 mths on the breast"--seemed to make sense. Also, he got his first tooth within the next month so I was then a little relieved (escaped the nipple biting!)

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You can find out if he is content with a cup by expressing some breast milk and offering a cup. Two of my 7 were weaned at 7 and 8 months. NOT my choice - theirs. I expressed and put it in a cup and they nursed at naptime and bedtime. Both were fully weaned and on milk by 9 and 10 months. I know that drs don't like that now but things change every few years. He may just be getting mobil enough to get distracted easily also. Nursing in a quiet location is helpful. You could also start reading a book to him before nursing to sort of quiet him down slowly. Good luck.

Contrary to a lot of beliefs, babies almost never wean themselves before a year old.
My daughter did the same thing your son did between 6.5-7.5 months. It was very frustrating but I kept at it and one day she wanted the breast again. To keep up my supply, I had to pump several times a day so my supply wouldn't deplete.
She's now 9 months old and still doing great at breastfeeding.
Your body will only make as much as your baby eats so if you give him formula you're telling your body not to make milk at that time.

He might just be having a "nursing strike." I simply kpet offering the breast to my son and after a few days (maybe a week or so) he started nursing regularly again. A good online resource for breastfeeding issues is kellymom.com. : ) Good luck!

J.

Hi, My son did pretty much the same thing. Finally, at 9 mths he stopped breastfeeding altogether. I was a little disappointed because my goal was to go for at least 1 year with breastfeeding. But I thought "9 mths in the womb, 9 mths on the breast"--seemed to make sense. Also, he got his first tooth within the next month so I was then a little relieved (escaped the nipple biting!)

Hi S., when my first born was 7 months old he weaned himself. I didn't have a pump, so I had to just dry up. There is a possibilty of a nursing strike. I've heard of them and some of my friends children has had a few. I hope this advice was helpfull:) Good Luck!

i have a 7 month old daughter actually and she does teh same thing!! i tried the quiet room too...and still she is distracted. she comes and goes at the breast...but still is getting milk. (i know its there too because of expressing) when she is finished now she actually sits up. its seems like she didn't eat much...but if she was hungry she would stay and eat more. plus some babies become such efficient nursers. just continue to do what you are doing. he'll eat when he is hungry and will stop when he isn't. trust your baby's lead! he knows what he wants and doesn't want.
oh, and i've heard that wearing a "nursing necklace" could help keep a baby occupied while eating...that is some shiny object worn around your neck. try it?!

More than likely he is NOT weaning! Did he start crawling or hit any other major developmental milestone lately? He is more than likely just distracted by all the changes going on with himself and not wanting to take the time to nurse.

Just keep going mama! I would contact a local lactation consultant or an LLL leader, they will be able to give you much better advice than me!

Here are a couple of good links
http://www.kellymom.com/bf/weaning/babyselfwean.html
http://www.kellymom.com/babyconcerns/distractible-baby.html

How many teeth does he have? Maybe his mouth is hurting???
I would fare to say that if he is taking the formula fine at night, but not nursing, maybe there is some other cause-like teething...

Not sure, just what I have from my experience with my daughter. Most times she was getting a tooth, she wouldn't nurse that well. (then again, she got teeth at 5 months).

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