A.M. asks from Montgomery, AL on April 12, 2008
Irregular Cycle
This may sound strange, and I may be jumping the gun here, but I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this-(and I know your cycle can become irregular after having a baby) My daughter is 14 weeks old and I've had two normal periods but now it's time to start and I haven't yet. I'm breastfeeding and I'm TERRIFIED to take a pregnancy test, because I would just lose it if I were pregnant again this soon (P.S. I'm on birth control!!!). Before I freak out, I was just wondering if it's possible to have two normal periods and then your cycle start to get messed up. I could solve this now with a test, but I'm just not ready to do that yet in case I'm overreacting. Thanks!
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So What Happened?™
Okay, everything is cool! Apparently I was just stressed to the max in addition to my cycle being messed up. One negative pregnancy test and my cycle starting today ends speculation. Thanks to everyone for the advice!!!
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J.M. answers from Oklahoma City on April 13, 2008
Dont freak out to quickly a lot of women cycle will stop completely while breast feeding or they will skip months.
40 year old mother of 4
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K.F. answers from Huntsville on April 12, 2008
I'd go ahead and take a test, especially if you've not been using bc - just to get it out of the way. You can get one cheap at a dollar store- they work just as well, just check the expiration date before you buy (I once went in a store that had 20 expired ones on the shelves)
However, since you are bf, it is common for your cycles to be irregular. AF returned for me 2 weeks after my son slept through the night at 5 months, then didn't come back for 90 days, then 60 days, then 40 days, and didn't return to my regular cycle until he was completely weaned. It was also sometimes heavy, sometimes light. It took months to get things back to normal.
K.H. answers from Oklahoma City on April 13, 2008
Radiographer to radiographer- you know how important it is to find out as soon as possible if you are pregnant or not. Putting aside the posibilty of another pregnancy so soon, for the safety of your potential baby you need to know. Accedental exposure is a risk. If I were you I would know within the next hour!
B.W. answers from Baton Rouge on April 13, 2008
Actually your cycle can be affected by stress. So when you are relaxed (Ha...Ha) you may find your cycle is more regular. Having an infant can stress an even keeled adult, so it's very likely that your busy, fulfilling life is having an affect on your cycle Are you breast feeding? that can affect your cycle as well.... BUT.... Sounds like you have a good job, that's a blessing.
J.S. answers from New Orleans on April 14, 2008
My son is now 14 months old and I am still nursing him. I have only gotten two cycles in the past 14 months, besides the first one after I had him. The two I did get came when started to slack up on nursing and pumping. I think some people don't have a cycle while nursing. Also, I don't take birthcontrol I am not sure how safe it is. The Dr.s say it is ok now but I am not sure so I just don't take.
E.A. answers from Baton Rouge on April 13, 2008
It is because you are breast feeding. Don't worry. It will take a lot of time for it to become regular again. Good for you for breast feeding. it is such a wonderful gift to give your children!!!
C.S. answers from Biloxi on April 13, 2008
Hey A.~
I have to say that I had that happen for several months after my second child! And needless to say it has continued and she is almost 2. Most likely you will have irregular cycles also due to breastfeeding. The thing I would do is to call and talk to your doctors nurse to let her know what is going on!! Good Luck!!!!
J.M. answers from Oklahoma City on April 13, 2008
Dont freak out to quickly a lot of women cycle will stop completely while breast feeding or they will skip months.
40 year old mother of 4
R.D. answers from Oklahoma City on April 13, 2008
I wouldn't worry just yet. When you are breastfeeding your cycle can be completely off. It has been years since I was in your shoes but search around for some answers, I do remember not having a regular cycle for months while nursing.
With that said...it does happen. After my first, I was on the 'mini' pill and breastfeeding. I got pregnant with my second and I never had any type of cycle at all that I could tell.
I say don't panic at this point. If you want to take a preg test to ease your mind that might not be a bad idea. It would at least get rid of some sress. And give your doctor a call and let them know your concerns, they should also be able to let you know what is 'normal'.
Good luck,
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