H.P. asks from Fort Bragg, NC on August 16, 2007
Introducing Milk
I am not sure what the procedure is on introducing milk. The nutritionist my daughter saw wasn't specific and didn't tell me any signs of her not being able to handle it, so I was wondering what to do. I gave my daughter 2 oz of 2% milk and she started waking up in the middle of the night. I talked to my mother in law and she said that my husband had to be on soy until he was three years old. I bought some soy milk and gave her 2 oz of that and she woke up in the middle of the night again. She isn't puking from it or anything, but I just want to know if this is something I'm going to have to keep giving to her on a daily basis even though she is waking up in the middle of the night, or if that should be sign enough that I need to stop giving her milk and revisit it in a week or two.
Her pediatrician told me to start introducing milk earlier than 12 months.
So What Happened?™
with the advice of my mother i kept giving her soy milk in the mornings, and in an open cup instead of a sippy cup. she is no longer waking up at night. i am going to try giving her some whole milk when i get to the store.
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S.W. answers from Norfolk on August 18, 2007
Everyone says that to start with whole milk....but they didn't say that you should ween them off of formula...mix it with the formula 1/4 milk 3/4 formula for a few days....
1/2 milk 1/2 formula for another few....3/4 milk 1/4 formula then 100% milk...that way her stomach will get used to the milk and not in a full force blast....
hope this helps
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K.F. answers from Greenville on August 17, 2007
You start her on whole milk. They need all the fat and the vitamin D. Are you still giving her formula or breastmilk? Usually most people who are allergic to lactose are allergic to soy as well so giving her soy instead makes no sense to me. I worked with a pediactric specialist with all of my children b/c they has such bad reflux. I had to start them on whole milk at nine months as well as breastmilk until they were about 11 months. They I just started giving them whole milk. They have all gone from the breast to the straw sippy cup. Have you tried that? It might work out better. If you think she is waking in the night b/c she is hungry I would give her closer to 6 or 8 oz and if she still seems hungry then thicken it with oatmeal. That always worked for me. Hope this helps and good luck!
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R.K. answers from Raleigh on August 17, 2007
I found that my kids did the same thing and I always just chalked it up to the fact that milk was not as filling as formula and that I needed to make sure that they got something else to fill up their tummy's. Seemed to work cause they went right back to sleeping through the night.
I wouldn't stop the milk unless she develops some other sign that she is allergic or not tolerating it.
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P.F. answers from Raleigh on August 17, 2007
HI - Babies need the fat in whole milk so make sure that she gets that. I started by mixing it with formula and gradually increasing the amount of milk v. formula. Good Luck!
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K.A. answers from Richmond on August 17, 2007
if your daughter is not reacting to the milk, then she's okay with it. you need to give her more milk to sustain her appetite throughout the night.
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S.L. answers from Raleigh on August 19, 2007
Hello H.....this was an issue for us too, but only the tummy troubles. Infants and toddlers are simply going to wake up in the middle of the night, it's just their nature. Our son started off on milk based formula and it gave him the worst runniest diapers you have ever seen and horrible pootin' like an 80 year old man gas. That was my first clue, something was up. Our pediatrician said to try lactose free next, he still had it but the gas wasn't so bad. (The gas was also one of the reasons he was waking up at night so much, and may be factor for your little one.) Still had really bad diapers, so next in line was the soy. He was a completely different baby...not gassy anymore and his stools were much better. Your baby might have an allergy to the proteins in cow based milk. Our ped. suggested to keep him on the soy but keep dairy in his diet by giving him cheese and a little bit of yogurt. Even that though still has an affect on him in little amounts. Also, two ounces really isn't that much. Most one year olds will take anywhere from 6 to 10 ounces. I give my son about 8 oz of warm soy milk right before bed and he (no pun intended) sleeps like a baby! If you try to go soy, give her tummy about a week to adjust. Good luck!
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C. answers from Charlotte on August 17, 2007
Hey H.,
Ditto on the breastmilk or formula til 1 year. I found this on Dr. Sears (attachment parenting) website about soy in case your baby does need to be on soy at one year old.
"Soy contains substances called isoflavones (specifically genistein and daidzein) that are similar to the hormone called estrogen. These “phyto-estrogens” (meaning “plant-based estrogens”) are much weaker than the actual hormone – in fact, they have only about 0.1% the activity. Soy has been used for years as an alternative therapy for menopausal hot flashes – so there does seem to be a mild hormonal effect in people that already have an estrogen imbalance. But in babies taking soy, I rarely ever see any signs of hormonal imbalance. For older children and adults, I believe the health benefits (decreased risk of certain cancers, heart disease, etc.) of soy far outweigh the potential risks. I use soy myself and for my kids. Populations that eat a lot of soy seem to be healthier than Americans. The only time I don’t like to use soy is in young babies as their only source of protein, unless they have a documented milk allergy. Many babies are on soy formulas that probably don’t need to be."
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S.W. answers from Norfolk on August 18, 2007
Everyone says that to start with whole milk....but they didn't say that you should ween them off of formula...mix it with the formula 1/4 milk 3/4 formula for a few days....
1/2 milk 1/2 formula for another few....3/4 milk 1/4 formula then 100% milk...that way her stomach will get used to the milk and not in a full force blast....
hope this helps
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K.F. answers from Greenville on August 17, 2007
You start her on whole milk. They need all the fat and the vitamin D. Are you still giving her formula or breastmilk? Usually most people who are allergic to lactose are allergic to soy as well so giving her soy instead makes no sense to me. I worked with a pediactric specialist with all of my children b/c they has such bad reflux. I had to start them on whole milk at nine months as well as breastmilk until they were about 11 months. They I just started giving them whole milk. They have all gone from the breast to the straw sippy cup. Have you tried that? It might work out better. If you think she is waking in the night b/c she is hungry I would give her closer to 6 or 8 oz and if she still seems hungry then thicken it with oatmeal. That always worked for me. Hope this helps and good luck!
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E.S. answers from Raleigh on August 18, 2007
H.,
You might look for other signs of intolerance other than waking up in the middle of the night. At 11 months old, waking up in the middle of the night could be caused by a hundred different things, from teeth to learning a new skill like walking. You should consult your pediatrician, but I think one of the most significant signs of milk intolerance is diarrhea.
Good luck to you,
~E.
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