International Air Travel with One-year Old

Hi T., that is so ecxiting,your family will meet your daughter for the first time , right?:)
I do not have any advice(just ideas:)), as I will be going to Russia(hopefully)in the fall myself,with 3 and 1 year old.(it has been 9 years for me though). Due to the ticket prices we too will not be getting our 1 year old a seat(I'd rather deal with craziness for 20 hours than pay almost $2000) and we're hoping to get an overnight flight too.
Other moms gave you a great advice, but if you will not be able to get those seat where they have a fold out beds or something...
bring a baby carrier( I loved my ergo), you can put your daughter in the front, so she can still sleep on her tummy(well kindda:)) and you can sleep to.
If my husband would be coming I was thinking about getting a bed kindda like this http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/601-###-###-####-###...
and putting it on our lap,against the seats in the front,
even though it is for babies with leg side open small toddlers can fit in(and our son sleeps on his tummy with buttom up in the air).
Bring things that she likes to play with, if she will not want to sleep(our 16 months old can sit for hours in the high chair and play with plastic juice bottles(the ones with large tops that he can not fit in his mouth) and spoons...just openning,putting spoons in, closing):)
Your daughter just might surprise you with sleeping for the whole time and being an angel. And even though it will not go the best way, just remember that it's "only" 16 hours and it will all worth it at the end.(bring lots of ear pluggs to give out to crabby passengers:))
PS I hope you're bringing a car set to use in the cars in Poland(I do not know how it is there but in Russia there is still no car seats being used at all)

T.-
We did a trip from Ft. Lewis to Germany. We have 3 children and one is handicapped. We did something called Melatonin, it is an herbal sleep aide. It doesn't make your child sleepy, it regulates their sleep patterns by helping the pineal gland, it produces Melatonin anyway, bu some folks just need a little more to help them fall asleep. It's not additive or will cause any harm to your 1-1/2 year old. You can give up to 3 MG of it at one time. If you go to a pharmacy to get it, they will tell you not to give over 1 MG, but I heard from 2 doctors it is fine to give them up to 3MG. It will also help with the Jet Lag. Adults can take it as well. You can get it over the counter at any store that sells herbs or suppliments or even at a health food store. Here is a website that will explain everything about it. http://www.sltbr.org/melfaq.htm
I hope this helps and that you have a plesent trip. We are getting ready to fly from Germany to Ft. Campbell, I feel your pain on the international flying. Best of luck to you!

When you get to the airline ASK FOR THE BULKHEAD! They have a bassinet that you can put her in and it gives her a little more room to crawl around on the floor. Bring lots of toys, snacks, milk.
I even brought a DVD with baby videos (baby Einstein) with little earphones when we flew home from Hawaii.

Never give a Baby anything to make them sleep.
your heart rest between beats .Never take anything to slow it dowm or speed it up.
I will be afraid the child might not wake up.
You will be in deep trouble.
and have to live with that the rest of your life.
Take a chance.Pray let God take care of it .No Drugs.

My adventures with children on planes did not go well with Benadryl because they reacted the exact opposite-got hyper instead of drowsy. My sons ears hurt him terribly and he cried/screamed/begged for mercy the whole way. A stewardess suggested putting cups over his ears to help him out with pressure on on Also nuring seemed to help get his ears to pop. A portable DVD was a godsend when he actualy watched it and a baby sling so that he or his sister could rest there without having my arms get too tired. Of course having adequate snacks was good too. Good luck!

Hello!
We are military and we just got back from living in Germany. The trip over was AWFUL! I wished that I had known these tips. But the trip back was AWESOME! Also in in airplanes they should have bassinets at the bulkheads. I would call and ask if you can have the seats next to them. They are like the dinner trays in the way they fold down from the wall in front of you. I do not know how big of a baby you can put in there. And I TOTALLY gave my children benydril (children's version, ask your doctor on the correct dosage)

Here is a list that a friend in Germany always sent her guests when they traveled abroad. REALLY LISTEN TO THE ONE ABOUT STAYING AWAKE THE DAY YOU ARRIVE ALL DAY!!!! SO IMPORTANT!!!

For Jet Lag Novices (and Old Timers too)
Some of you have never traveled across the ocean and some
of you have done it a million times. We are going to give you some suggestions that we have found help for a quick transition.
1. In the days leading up to your flight make sure you get enough rest.
2. Beginning on Saturday before you fly begin drinking
lots of water- 2-3 liters a day
3. On the Monday you fly try avoid caffeine, especially on the flight.
It is VERY important to stay hydrated by drinking lots of
water. Amazingly this will help with your adjustment.
4. Wear support hose on the day you fly
5. Once you get on the plane set your watch to Polland time (9 hours ahead of CA time)
6. Try to get some sleep on the flight
7. Tuck some Benadryl in your suitcase you will probably
sleep fine the first night, but might need a little help the 2nd or 3rd
night. I have found that 1 Benadryl does the trick.
8. On Tuesday when you have arrived you will be asked to
stay awake until after dinner. THIS ONE IS VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you follow it should only take a few days for jet lag compared to weeks!

This will be VERY difficult, but for a quick transition it is necessary.

H. H.~military wife and mother of three small kids

I as told my a pediatrician to give my children Dimetapp to help prevent ear infection during flight. It knocked them out & they slept well. I had to wake them up when the food came.

You might express your concern to her pediatrician and see what they say.

Enjoy your trip & give yourself some rest time too. I know it's hard because you want to do & see everything while you're there, but you being rested will help deal with that precious little one much better.