A.W. asks from Grand Junction, CO on September 23, 2008
IMPATIENT Eater!
DS is 7 1/2 months now. He is an absolute JOY! He is rarely fussy- only when tired or hungry. He has been on solids for about 2 1/2 months now. When he eats solids it's like we can't shovel it in fast enough! He slaps the tray and grabs at the food and gets VERY upset if we have to scrape the bowl or open a new jar of food. As soon as the spoon is in his mouth, the crying stops immediately. I feel bad feeding him in public-- like people are going to think we starve him or something! I have never seen such an impatient eater. MIL makes comments about spoiling him by letting him do this...Does anyone else have this problem?!
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W.L. answers from Boise on September 26, 2008
My daughter was like this. She got to where she was so demanding that I would give her bite sized finger foods before I would even attempt babyfood. This way she could be feeding herself while waiting for me to spoon her food if I wasn't fast enough. This passed once she realized that the food wasn't going to suddenly just end and she would be able to get full off of solids everyday. Good Luck!
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W.L. answers from Boise on September 26, 2008
My daughter was like this. She got to where she was so demanding that I would give her bite sized finger foods before I would even attempt babyfood. This way she could be feeding herself while waiting for me to spoon her food if I wasn't fast enough. This passed once she realized that the food wasn't going to suddenly just end and she would be able to get full off of solids everyday. Good Luck!
S.G. answers from Missoula on September 24, 2008
I had this same issue with my first son. I decided boys just are not so great at communicating. The best book ever is the baby whisperer by a british gal, Tracy Hogg, I think. She explains how babies have little clues they give on when they are getting hungry. I realized eventually that sometimes my son would skip some of these cues and that I should not be waiting for him to be obviously hungry because in baby time by then they are starving! It may only be a difference of 5 min but I had to learn to anticipate early when my son was hungry and just how hungry because once he realized he was there was just no wait time it had to be now. No time to even warm a bottle or the mix the cereal. Don't worry though, he will grow out of it a little and later when you can toss him a few crackers to nibble on it gets easier.
J.O. answers from Boise on September 23, 2008
Have you tried giving him some finger foods while you are trying to feed him? He should be able to handle some banana's and avocados, diced up, if your real daring you can offer some cheerios, some parents are some aren't, but they disolve very quickly. Maybe he is hungry and bored. Just a thought!
S.L. answers from Salt Lake City on September 24, 2008
my baby twins do this as well. I take it as them saying, "hey we're not through here!" They can't communicate (even though I am trying to teach them sign lang.) So this is just the babies way of saying they are hungry. If they aren't hungry any more they don't cry when I put the bowl down.
T.F. answers from Boise on September 24, 2008
i have a 7 1/2 month baby girl that is the same way. i can't nurse her in public because she's so impatient that she gets so wound up and it makes it 100 times harder to even nurse her. my milk has a slow let down and it TICKS HER OFF! as for the solids, i just shovel it in as fast as i can... can't go faster than that!
yeah, i don't really know what to tell you... are they old enough for finger foods??? just know that there are others out there too with "starving, spoiled, whatever else" sweet babies.
S.W. answers from Pocatello on September 23, 2008
I have the same problem. Looking forward to hearing more responses on this topic. My son just acts like we never feed him and really freaks out if we don't feed him quickly enough. I haven't found anything he doesn't like. He is such a great eater if we feed him fast enough.
R.S. answers from Denver on September 25, 2008
You might try giving him his own baby spoon (the short kind with a loop for a handle or one of the 'dippers' by Gerber). So he has something of a distraction and he can dip into his own bowl of food (just get a bowl that suctions to the high chair).
L.B. answers from Provo on September 24, 2008
A.,
My sister was like that. She earned the name "hornet" because of her impatient eating habits. My son had similar, but slightly milder habits.
The best solution that we found - I don't know if you can even get these anymore. It has been more than a few years and times have changed - was to get a feeder that looked like a big hypodermic needle with a bottle nipple on one end. We put the food into the tube, put on the end, and she could just suck the food out of the nipple without having to wait for us to spoon it into her mouth. We could even successfully feed her in church with this device.
I hope these are still available. I don't know how we would have survived Jennifer's "table manners" otherwise.
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