S.Y. asks from Irvine, CA on September 01, 2009
Ideas for Entertaining Toddler in a Hospital
I am taking my 17 mo. daughter in for surgery in a couple of weeks to get a neck cyst removed. They will put her under general anesthesia and will need to stay at the hospital for 1-2 nights. Has anyone had any experience with an overnight hospital stay with such a young toddler? Any ideas about how to entertain them for 2 whole days in a hospital?
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S.S. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
My little one was in the hospital for several days when she was that age. It was really difficult to keep her from pulling on her IV and such but we brought bubbles in. She also could eat a little cheerios and her cup of water or maybe juice. She also could have some really small toys or a small doll, I think. I was in Picu so it may be different.
K.G. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
Sometime within the last few months, Parents magazine ran a story on this. I have not experienced this myself (my daughter is just 2+ weeks old), but I remember thinking how helpful the article would be for parents going through this. Good luck.
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J.C. answers from San Diego on September 02, 2009
I would say read to to her, maybe buy a special doll or toy that she is not familiar with. Best of luck to her and you.
K.T. answers from Los Angeles on September 03, 2009
Hi! I worked in Peds for 24 years and most hospitals have a Child Life Department. These are people who are educated to help with preparing kids for tests, IV's, they entertain kids, provide movies, toys, puppet shows, etc.
If your hospital does not have a large Pediatric area, they may not have this type of thing.
Your child may just want rest type activities--Bring favorite movies from home--kids love repeating what they know; favorite books, books that pop-up or have music...
Most hospitals will allow you to pull the child in a wagon, if they have them or have one parent walk holding the child and one push the IV pole if she even has one. Bring foods she likes, cups she is used to. Bring a pillow and wear comfy stuff --sweat suit is good--it gets cold in the hospital.
I have entertained my kids on a plane by wrapping up small items--even stuff she would recognize from home--and let her open them every once in awhile.
Plan on staying with her and alternate with dad if possible. It's tiring being in the hospital. The nurses will need to check on her during the night. If you have other kids at home, remember this is also a big deal for them to have their life interrupted and for sis to be gone. Spend extra time with them, too.
Good luck!
M.A. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
Hi S., I know all too well of hospital stays. Be very thankful its only 1-2 nights. I was at CHOC with my son for two months straight. Although he was older than your daughter.
If its a Childrens hospital, they know that kids need to be entertained. No worries about that, really. They have everything you can think of there for kids (even things you didnt think of). If it's at a regular hospital, you need to take what makes her comfy and what she is used to playing with at home. Its not that difficult, just a little scary for them. Good Luck and God Bless.
M.
T.A. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
Hi S.....my son spent two nights in the hospital about 3 years ago...since she'd probably be going to a children's hospital or be on the pediatric floor...they usually have a room that has all sorts of things to entertain kids...where you can go borrow some books, toys and videos.....her room should have a tv...so you might want to take some of her favorite movies....hope this helps
G.Y. answers from San Diego on September 02, 2009
OMGosh we had the same exact operation with my grandson at that age. Surgery went well, but the stay at Children's Hospital was horrible. We wish we would of taken him home right after. Make sure she gets her medications. They will be in pain !! My grandson suffered as the nursing staff did not do their job correctly. My kids left the next morning after surgery. They also said that they didn't allow both parents to stay, well both of my grandson's parents did stay. They took turns being up with him throughout the night. My grandson was in far too much pain to play with anything. After they got home and got him on his medications, all ran smoothly. He did want to take the bandage off of his neck, which we didn't allow. It healed nicely and you can't even tell he had surgery, he is 4 now. Bring a lot of pudding, and soft foods for her. Also bring milk and whatever else you can think to bring. My daughter would ask for different items, but no one ever brought her anything, not even diapers. She felt fortunate that she had packed so much in the diaper bag herself. We did write a letter to Children's Hospital on the very poor treatment we received. I hope yours goes a lot better. Just pack everything that you may need for the entire stay.
C.A. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
I have had dexperiences w/ CHOC. and If that is where you are, i wouldn't worry about it. to start off they have tv's in every room. and every floor has a play room. It isn't open all day-but you can take toys back to your room. Plus you can walk the halls. After surgery your daughter won't be as spunky-all she may just want to rest. You can call the hospital in advance and ask what services they have for kids.
S.S. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
My little one was in the hospital for several days when she was that age. It was really difficult to keep her from pulling on her IV and such but we brought bubbles in. She also could eat a little cheerios and her cup of water or maybe juice. She also could have some really small toys or a small doll, I think. I was in Picu so it may be different.
M.P. answers from Los Angeles on September 02, 2009
My first son was in and out of the hospital for the first 2-3 years of his life and I know what you mean. It can be a challenge to deal with this kind of challenging situation. Luckily in our situation, I also work at this hospital and we have play rooms for the patients. I did bring some of his favorite things so he could have them to play with and he was given some gifts too (small ones). Those were fun for him to look forward to as well. Where will your child be having her surgery? You can ask if there is a playroom there...on the 2nd day she might be feeling up to going to play or you can usually check some toys out and take them to her room...good luck!
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