A.H. asks from Lookeba, OK on April 23, 2008
I Need Some Advice on Pcos
I have Pcos Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. It is tiny cysts on your ovaries. Making it very hard to get pregnant. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over 2 years now. It is very frustrating at times. I have tried diets low fat) walking. I'm currently on multi vitamins and follic acid. Does any one have any suggestions on what else I could try to do to get pregnant.
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Wow! Thank You so much for all the support and advice! You ladie's have really helped me. My hubby and I are still trying to get pregnant,but also we are in the process of getting foster kids. We are very excited! Since being on a low carb diet I have already lost 4 pounds. It will be a bumpy road at times, because I love sugar!! I have come to a understanding with myself that there are other things I can sub for sugar. Splenda is a pretty good sugar subsitute.
Thanks again!! I will keep you all posted if we get pregnant or get foster kids.
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S.D. answers from Tulsa on April 24, 2008
Don't give up hope, but stop trying so hard. I know that sounds dumb, but that is what worked for me. I was diagnosed with PCOS on my husband's 21st birthday. We had been trying for a little while to no avail. That was 5 years ago. I now have a gorgeous 2 1/2 year old little girl and a very handsome 11 month old little boy. I took Chlomid and it didn't work. We had given up all hope. I finally got really sick one day and had been having other signs, so I thought just for laughs I would take a test. I cried when it came back positive. When I went to the doctor's office and he did an ultrasound, he said that there was just no way. He said he would have to wait for the test results, but it just couldn't be possible. There were just too many cysts. When the results came back he actually smacked his hand on his desk and said, "Well, I'll be damned. I didn't think there was any way!" What I'm trying to say is, even after having my daughter, they said there was no chance it would happen again. Low and behold, on my daughter's 1st birthday another home test came back positive. You just have to have faith that it will happen when it is meant to happen. They have told me for the 3rd time that it's impossible, so I guess we'll see. I hope this has been helpful. Just know that I understand what you're going through.
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K.T. answers from Florence on April 24, 2008
I have PCOS as well. My Gynecologist diagnosed me about a 1 1/2 ago. He placed me on Metformin. Even though this is a diabetic medication, it works for women who have PCOS. I have a beautiful 2 /12 year old daughter.
Before I had my daughter, I was irregular and struggled getting pregnant. I lost 70 pounds (this helps the PCOS symptoms). After I had my daughter, I struggled with my weight again and had missed menstrual cycles again. This is when the doctor put me on Metformin. I have not missed a cycle since. He also advised I would need to stay on it through out the first trimester if I did decide to have another child.
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D.D. answers from Birmingham on April 24, 2008
Hi, A.,
Just make sure your husband's sperm count has been tested also. Some men are very resistant to this. A friend went through this & was really feeling like she was defective & when her husband finally submitted to the test, it turns out his sperm had very little motility (slow swimming). You may have already done this, but others out there reading it may not have considered it. Especially if they know they have a "problem". In my friend's case after thousands of dollars spent on IVF and lots of anxiety for years - when they had finally become resigned to not being able to have their own child, they gave themselves 6 months to start beginning adoption proceedings. They now have a beautiful daughter who is now 5 and IS their natural daughter. It was in God's timing all along. I pray for the same success for you.
D.
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K.B. answers from Oklahoma City on April 24, 2008
I was diagnosed with PCOS 12 years ago. I was blessed with my son almost 2 years ago. It required clomid and then femara to get pregnant, but it was worth it. A reproductive endocrinologist can help with that. Eli Reshef in OKC is wonderful. I was able to lose weight so it helped with all of my symptoms and I was able to stop the metformin and blood pressure meds. Are you seeing a physician now? You need to make sure they are aware of PCOS and all of the latest treatments. If not, change physicians. It will be worth it in the end. I found a natural diet that has also helped with symptoms: www.ovarian-cysts-pcos.com. This book teaches what foods help women with PCOS get hormone levels corrected so that they can increase fertility. My doc liked it so much, she now has all her patients with PCOS read it. Also, my favorite online group is www.soulcysters.com.
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K.F. answers from Huntsville on April 23, 2008
See if your doctor will prescribe Glucophage (metformin) for you - one of the main theories regarding PCOS and conception has to do with insulin resistance - correct the insulin problem and you may start ovulating more frequently. I have insulin resistance and needed it to conceive my 2nd baby who is due in 3 weeks. I have several friends with pcos who have all conceived on their own (no fertility treatments) once they started taking metformin. Look into NFP methods to learn to recognize when you are going to ovulate to increase your chances of pregnancy.
Since you've been trying for 2 years, ask your OB/GYN to refer you to a fertility specialist if you aren't already seeing one - they can help in many ways before resorting to fertility drugs, IUI and IVF, although they may end up being your best chance if you're willing to try.
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L.R. answers from Little Rock on April 24, 2008
Hi, I have PCOS and was diagnosed 8 years ago . . .we personally went through Fertility treatments for 4 years and then magically and blessedly got pregnant (it was somewhat a rough preg) we have 3 children now. But to answer your question, some women use Metformin which is actually a type 2 diabetes med with clomid or exclusively . . .it actually helps control multiple PCOS symptoms including weight because of the way it controls your insulin/sugars. You may also look into the natural/herbal route; I have heard of using licorice root, Chasteberry, black cohosh, dong quai (ginseng, progesterone creams, and phytoestrogens (plant estrogens) and this site talks about some of these suggestions. Some of these have the added benefit of helping with PMS symptoms or regular PCOS symptoms.
http://www.vrp.com/articles.aspx?pag...ID=562&zType=2
I would love to talk to you personally about any symptoms you may need help with, or ?'s to ask different docs . . . are you seeing a PCOS specialist, endocrinologist, fertility endocrinologist, high risk ob, ect? You may also want to look into whether you are insulin resistant, many women with PCOS are and that may hinder the weight loss and exacerbate other symptoms including infertility.
This is a support site with hundreds of women like us . . . you might try it and see if some of them have suggestions too; Good luck and God bless!
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D.C. answers from Birmingham on April 23, 2008
I have PCOS too. I was told I would never get pregnant. I have one beautiful 4 year old daughter, and tommorow I will have my son. I got pregnant the first time on my own, this time I went on metformin. It worked for me.
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M.B. answers from Tuscaloosa on April 23, 2008
Don't give up. I had PCOS and have 2 wonderful children. My first I tried everything and am not sure what worked. I took clomid and was put in the hospital 2 different times because my ovaries swelled. My 2nd I had surgery. I had an ovarian wedge resectioning done. This is where they remove all the cyst and remove a section of the ovaries so they are normal size. If you would like more info just send me a mess. Good luck!
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K.S. answers from Fayetteville on April 23, 2008
PCOS can be a very trying condition. There are many communities of women online who are struggling with the same thing. There are also alot of alternative therapies that many have found helpful. Medically, are you seeing an endocrinolgist who is possibly prescribing Glucophage or recommending other therapies? A low carb diet is much better than low fat for PCOS. I've also read about a component in Robitussin cough syrup that helps many women conceive. There is alot of info out there, hang in there and research, research, research! Praying for your dreams to come true, and that you are holding a baby in your arms very soon!
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S.D. answers from Tulsa on April 24, 2008
Don't give up hope, but stop trying so hard. I know that sounds dumb, but that is what worked for me. I was diagnosed with PCOS on my husband's 21st birthday. We had been trying for a little while to no avail. That was 5 years ago. I now have a gorgeous 2 1/2 year old little girl and a very handsome 11 month old little boy. I took Chlomid and it didn't work. We had given up all hope. I finally got really sick one day and had been having other signs, so I thought just for laughs I would take a test. I cried when it came back positive. When I went to the doctor's office and he did an ultrasound, he said that there was just no way. He said he would have to wait for the test results, but it just couldn't be possible. There were just too many cysts. When the results came back he actually smacked his hand on his desk and said, "Well, I'll be damned. I didn't think there was any way!" What I'm trying to say is, even after having my daughter, they said there was no chance it would happen again. Low and behold, on my daughter's 1st birthday another home test came back positive. You just have to have faith that it will happen when it is meant to happen. They have told me for the 3rd time that it's impossible, so I guess we'll see. I hope this has been helpful. Just know that I understand what you're going through.
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