It IS NORMAL what you are going through.
We have gone through it many times... it seems like we are room mates. Some things that help are...
Reading a helpful marriage magazine together (We love Marriage - call 1-800-MARRIAGE to order)
Excersize together. I like watching him MOVE :)
Give him whatever he wants (sexually).. if you don't, he may find it elsewhere.
I agree with another response...The book "Love and Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerich is a great book and the ideas in it work!
Dates are a necessity - so are vacations at least once a year!
Reminisce! Look through photo albums if you need a jump start.
Cut back on things you do with others until you feel "in love" again.
Another great book is Five Love Languages... sometimes we love others the way "we want" to be loved and they aren't getting love the way they like it.
TALK - talk - talk - tell each other what you like and want.
Pray always... in all situations. Don't wait til nothing else works.
Oh another good book (we haven't finished it yet) Sex Begins in the Kitchen. It deals with helping each other so there is more time for other things. :)
God Bless your marriage... He hates divorce!
We are trying to change the statistics of divorce in our little corner of the world... we have decided to be COMMITTED to each other - no matter what - - - - In good times and in bad ---- in sickness and in health --- til death do us part... isn't that the way it was meant to be?