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I Don't "Look" Pregnant Anymore...

I am only about 10 weeks pregnant but starting "showing" last week. I was fine with that and put up many of my "tight" clothes this weekend. Well, Monday rolls around and I would swear my "bump" is almost gone - my tummy is a bit softer too. I have had lots of digestive issues but can't help but think the worst - I have had 2 miscarriages over the last year. Do I worry about this or do I chalk it up to not being quite as bloated as I once was?

What can I do next?

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I would say not to worry. I always got bloated and bigger belly for the first few months, then settled back down until 5 or 6 months. Good luck!

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I had similar happen around 8 weeks i couldnt button my pants or zip up the fly's on any jeans so i though i would soon be heading out to by maternity clothes, 3 days later everything fit agian and i didnt need new clothes till 4mo pregnant, i asked my gyn and he said some people just get really bloated as the body changes into being pregnant and then it goes away, if you have had misscarages though, always be on the look out for signs of that. and always call your ob/gyn with any conserns thats what they are there for!

I agree, talk to your doctor.... see what they say. But until you know one way or another try to remain calm and dont stress yourself out (although I understand that you want to).

Hi N.,
I am about 14 weeks pregnant with my first and I felt the same way. I was so happy when I started having a little bump that some days I would think "is it really there?". And it wouldn't look as big. Don't worry. I mean see when your next appointment is & if you can't wait until then, go in earlier but if your not bleeding or feeling anything try not to worry. Good luck.

Hi N.,
I can certainly relate. I have had three miscarriages, and it is so hard not to worry about every little thing when you get pregnant again. Most likely, it's nothing to worry about, but it wouldn't hurt to call your OB and ask if they can test your Hcg levels. Also, I'm not sure if your miscarriages were "just a fluke," like they said mine were, or if there was another reason given, but I do know that often they can be caused by a progesterone level that is too low, which can be remedied by being put on extra progesterone at a certain point in your pregnancy. At any rate, talking it over with your doctor could at least set your mind at ease. I'll be praying for you. I know how hard it is. Good luck.

Dear N.,
Go to the Dr. After having two miscarriages, he / she should understand your risks and your concerns. Ask for an ultrasound to make sure all is well. Could be normal however. Try not to panic until you find out for sure what's going on. I've been thee too, it's hard not to. Good luck and God bless. L. L.

This happened to me briefly as well! I was so constipated that it turned out my "Baby bump" was just bloating. I'm 20 weeks now and have a real one. So you're probably fine!

Hi N.,

I would definitely go and get checked. Chances are they would do an ultrasound and if you at least hear the heartbeat and see the baby you'll be able to put your mind at ease. I have 3 children and after having my first two I had a miscarriage. I know when I got pregnant with my 3rd child I was a nervous wreck from the day I found out. I was so worried that something would happen - it's hard not to worry. I also know the more kids you have for some reason the sooner you show. So, showing at 10 weeks is not at all uncommon and if you feel something isn't quite right, go with your instinct and call your doctor. Good luck!

I would definitely chalk it up to gas! :) :) But, if you're worried... you can always go see your OB. Most women don't really show until after 14wks. Good luck!

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