A.B. asks from San Antonio, TX on January 06, 2008
Husband Snores
Hello Ladies-
Over the last several months my husbands snoring has gotten louder and harder for me to sleep with. I have even had to ask him to go sleep on the couch a couple of times!! He has always snored a little - but nothing that was bothersome to me. But lately it takes me a good hour to actually fall asleep. He falls asleep in 3 minutes flat, literally - then the snoring begins.
I poke, push, and talk to him to wake him up and ask him to change positions, hoping this will help - but it does not. I have heard that sleeping on your back is the worst for snoring, but it seems like no matter what position he is in, he still snores! This does not affect his sleep at all, he does not even know he does it. Although it is bothersome to me - and I end up getting less sleep.
Now, I know there are about a hundred over the counter products you can buy, but I am very skeptical that any of that stuff works. My question to you is this:
Have you dealt with a snorer, if so what did you do about it (besides boot them out to the couch - I do not like doing this - I want my man in bed with me at night)?
Are there any over the counter things that really DO work?
If he goes to the Dr. (family practice) is there anything they can do to help?
Last is - my husband and I are young (in our 20's) so I know it's not an old age factor - he is also in good shape, so it's not because he is really over weight or anything - he does not have any medical conditions or take any medication for anything. I am stumped and could REALLY use your help.
I would appreciate any advice you all have! Thanks so much :-) Restful Sleeping!
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So What Happened?™
Thank you all for your helpful replies. I am SO silly to not have thought about allergies being the problem. Both of us have had an extra difficult time with allergies lately! I should have thought of that.
So, heres the plan of attack. We are going to see if we can get the allergies under control first, and see if that helps with the snoring any. Along with the breathing strips, only b/c its cheap and worth a shot.
Along with treating his allergies, we have decided to make an appt. with an ENT. It would be very helpful to have a good evaluation and make sure there is nothing else going on. We will then see if the ENT wants to refer him to have a sleep study is done.
I am very lucky that my husband is more than willing to do whatever is needed to make sure his health is taken care of. I will help him out by making the appointments :-)
Last but not least. I certainly will NOT be 'smacking' my husband - I have respect for him and this is not something he can help or is doing to annoy me. I also will not sleep in a different room or have different bedrooms all together. That may be necessary for some people, although if it came down to it, I would rather wear earplugs and turn on white noise to drown out the snoring. No way do I want to sleep in a different bed from my husband. I love him dearly and that is our time to cuddle and drift off to sleep and wake up in the morning to eachother. Anyhow, we will get this snoring thing figured out before long.
I will update you all again when we get some results. Again, thanks for the help!!
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J.A. answers from Denver on February 25, 2008
I know you posted this a while back, but wanted to give you another hint! Many times people snore more as they get older because the soft palate (the roof of the mouth in the back) has become weak. It is completely made of muscle. When it is weak it "collapses" so that when you breathe in and out while lying down it vibrates. So he needs to strengthen his soft palate. How do you do that? The best way is to gargle several times per day. Have him try that for 2-3 weeks and see if it makes a difference.
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N.R. answers from Redding on February 25, 2008
Hi A. & Hubby,
I have a problem with sleeping too. Mine though is breathing. I stop breathing. It's called sleep-apnea. A friend of mine recommended I try MaxGXL for my other health issues. Amazingly, as a side effect though, it helped my sleep! Now I sleep through the night and my husband doesn't panic. It did help with my other health issues too! The site were I get my MaxGXL now is www.maxgxl.com/maxmagic.
N. :o)
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J.S. answers from Harrisburg on February 25, 2008
Hi A.,
I am a Registered Nurse and Natural Health Professional who is married to a man who had suffered with chronic sinus problems since childhood, he snored so loudly that the house shook!!! Several years ago we discovered the 'Neti Pot'...a small spouted pot which is used to lavage the nasal cavity with warm normal saline. With daily use of the Neti Pot, allergens, dust, and other particles that accumulate in the nasal passages are washed out allowing the body to heal itself. Miracle of miracles, my husband no longer suffers with sinus problems and the snoring has stopped!!! You can find Neti Pots, in Health Food Stores. Directions for use are included in the package. Here is a hot link to more information: <http://www.healingdaily.com/exercise/neti-pot.htm>
Blessings,
Julianna
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D.P. answers from San Antonio on January 06, 2008
A. B,
Hello. I have just the product your husband needs. It's called aloe-vera juice. It worked for me! I snored and had sleep appnea(sp?). Both have been cleared since I started drinking aloe juice. It only takes 2ozs per day, it's 100% natural and inexpensive!
Go to www.foreverliving.com and check out the 4 different flavors. Please feel free to contact me with questions. Thank you A..
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M.A. answers from Charlotte on February 25, 2008
My husband's snoring was about to wreck our marriage. I was on the couch every night. He couldn't sleep either knowing he was keeping me up.(If it only happens during parts of the year, it could be allergies, but if it year round, it is probably sleep apnea). It isn't just fat people who have apnea.
He had a sleep study. He wears a cpap to bed and hasn't snored a lick since! We now have a newborn( a different reason for not sleeping). Obviously we are back in the same bed again!!! Horray! A neurologist is the Dr. to see.
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A.O. answers from Las Vegas on February 25, 2008
I just read your post, I do not know if you had tried this one or not but it will help even while using the strips. There is a product out there called a netti-pot. It is used with a saline solution, or the salt that comes with it. It is used to cleanse the nasal passages and it takes about 2-3 minutes. You may want to look into if your husband is willing to try it. It was also featured on the Oprah show and has lately been in Prevention magazine along with the Dr.Oz show on Discovery health. You may purchase them on-line or at a whole foods health market.. Good luck!!
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J.A. answers from Denver on February 25, 2008
I know you posted this a while back, but wanted to give you another hint! Many times people snore more as they get older because the soft palate (the roof of the mouth in the back) has become weak. It is completely made of muscle. When it is weak it "collapses" so that when you breathe in and out while lying down it vibrates. So he needs to strengthen his soft palate. How do you do that? The best way is to gargle several times per day. Have him try that for 2-3 weeks and see if it makes a difference.
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J.K. answers from Dallas on February 25, 2008
A.,
Something my husband has just discovered that has changed the quality of life for us both as it really helps his allergies and he hardley ever snores anymore!
It is a sinus rinse (or some people call it a netty pot).
You can get it at your localk drugstore and you shoot water & some packet you mix with it up your sinus cavities and it completely rinses it out and it helps sooo much w/ allergies! My husband doesn't even have to take allergy pills any longer anmd he rarely snores anymore. (he use to keep me up all night). Give it a try. Oprah has it on her show and it really works! (FYI: The bottle rinse is easier to use than the netty pot).
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D.J. answers from Boston on February 25, 2008
Hello A.,
Boy do I hear you!My husband also has a snoring problem.I, like you, have had to sleep in my 8-month-olds bedroom because of it.We live in an old house and the heat is constantly blowing out of the ducts.His snoring has gotten worse since we moved here.The air gets very dry in the winter time.So I went out and got him a cool mist humidifier.I bought the Honeywell Quiet Care.This seems to really have helped alot!The other remedies were breathe right strips and sleeping on his side.Also,there is a special pillow called the Sona pillow that you can buy. It claims to eliminate snoring problems.However, it is rather costly.It is through the Brookstone Store at www.brookstone.com.Short of having surgery, these are the only remedies I can think of.I know my husband does have allegies and this is what seems to cause the snoring.Anyway, I hope these suggestions help.Good Luck!
D.
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J.H. answers from St. Louis on February 25, 2008
You might have him speak with his dentist. He or she can make what is called a snore guard. It is a small appliance your husband can wear at night. I certainly would try this before talking of any surgery.
My husband is a dentist and when he was in practice made a number of these. They all seemed to work.
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