L.B. asks from Phoenixville, PA on February 14, 2007
How to Introduce New Baby to Dogs
I am expecting my 2nd child in April, after 15 years! During that time I have accumulated 3 dogs who I love very much. 2 are Shih Tzus and 1 is a Cockapoo. I would be interested in hearing your personal experiences or advice on how to deal with introducing our son to the dogs. One of the dogs in particular is seriously attached to me and I'm not sure how he is going to react.
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S.R. answers from Pittsburgh on February 15, 2007
Get someone to take a recieving blanket home from the hospital (before baby comes home) and let the dogs get use to the new baby through smell. That's what my sister did with her dog.
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S.R. answers from Pittsburgh on February 15, 2007
Get someone to take a recieving blanket home from the hospital (before baby comes home) and let the dogs get use to the new baby through smell. That's what my sister did with her dog.
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R.F. answers from Washington DC on February 16, 2007
L.,
I had my husband take a recieving blanket that our baby was wrapped in at the hospital home with him the first night while I was still in the hosiptal, and let the dogs sleep with it.That way when the baby comes home it's not a new smell to them. It's like they already met.Also let them sniff everything,carseat, craddle, swing, bouncy, toys before baby comes so it becomes part of their surroundings and they aren't bomboarded with a million new things all at once.I also snuggled with my baby and my dogs together (my dogs r little) so they didn't feel left out. They all get along now and love eachother!GoodLuck.Hope this helps.
J.B. answers from Pittsburgh on February 15, 2007
I have a dog who was my baby (and still is) when I had my son. When I went to the hospital, my husband brought stuff home that smelled like the baby. Then when I came home, I went in first and greeted her (she doesn't like when I'm gone for a long while), then I went out and brought my son in in the car seat. Now, my dog is a gentle giant, so I got him out of the car seat and sat down on the floor with him and let her inspect him. How you handle introducing them face to face will depend on your dog. My dog doesn't jump, growl, nip, or bark, so I didn't have to worry about her scaring or hurting him. Now the two of them have a wonderful relationship (they are inseperable). We were so pleased with how everything went, we got a puppy a few months later. Now we are a happy family of 5! Good luck!
A.N. answers from Philadelphia on February 17, 2007
Here's what worked for us: have the baby sleep in a receiving blanket in the hospital and have dad bring the blanket home for the dogs to keep. They will get used to the baby's smell. When you come home, have dad carry the baby, and you greet the dogs alone. Then, introduce the dogs to the baby and let them sniff and check him/her out. We have a giant, spoiled lab, and he was good with our babies with this approach and kept that receiving blanket in his bed for quite some time. Good luck!
R.C. answers from Philadelphia on February 16, 2007
I did this both times and it worked well, after you have the baby have your husband bring a blanket home from the hospital that the baby has used. The dogs will get to know the unfamiliar smell and get used to it. When you bring the baby home let the dogs sniff the baby and make sure to pay attention to the dogs when the baby is sleeping.
K.D. answers from Philadelphia on February 16, 2007
Hi L.,
When we were pregnant with our first child, we were having problems with our 3 boxers. We had a pet psychiatrist come over as we were at the end of our limit...anyway, while he was there we also talked about our upcoming addition and he recommened a few things:
1. Get a tape recording of baby noises - crying, laughing, etc... and play it for the dogs before the baby comes.
2. Get a baby doll that makes baby sounds and let the dogs get used to the size/sound.
3. When the baby comes...give one of the baby's blankets to the dogs as it'll have the baby's scent.
Hope these ideas help.
C.A. answers from Washington DC on February 16, 2007
When we had our son a friend told me to have my husband bring home a blanket from the hospital the baby was wrapped in. Most of the time the hospital will give you an extra so we just smuggled it out. He took it home on monday and Brian came home on tuesday. This gave the dogs time to smell it and get used to the scent. Then when we brought the baby home they were excited and they are now very protective of him. He is 3 now.
M.W. answers from Philadelphia on February 16, 2007
We have a dog and while we were in the hospital after giving birth,my husband would bring home a blanket that our daughter was wrapped up in, so that the dog could get familiar with her smell, even before she was born I had read to walk around with a doll baby wrapped in a blanket and have the dog get use to you giving your attention to someone else. When we brought her home we introduced them and kept an eye on them, never leave the dogs alone with them for quite awhile until you are sure how they react. Now after 2 years our dog is still around and gets a little jealous sometimes and eats all her toys and takes her stuffed animals (because he use to have stuffed animals before her and doesn't understand) but they love each other and she feeds him his breakfast and dinner everyday and he has gotten all her dropped food along the way, she does grab his paws though thats our dilema now but at the end of the day he listens to storytime every night with her and she is very protective of him and doesn't understand why he can't go to the store with us. Oh, also I just remembered how he would bark when she would cry as a baby to let us know and he is very protective of her, going on walks he wouldn't let anyone get near her stroller, also there was one time about 2 am where nothing would calm her down, my husband and I had no idea what to do, she was screaming and so upset, in walks our dog (after 30 min.) and he made her laugh! For that reason, I love my dog even more, he has been there to calm us all down during those times! Also, our dog is a real barker and I think, our daughter heard him bark while still in my belly because she got use to noise and he could be barking up a storm and won't wake her up. Having a dog is a valuable life lesson for us and her, it teaches her kindness, disipline, friendship, feelings, love and how to take care of things. Aww, I'm going to go hug my whole family now. Good luck! M.
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