K.M. asks from San Jose, CA on September 11, 2011
How to Help a Teenager Decide What Career to Choose?
Hello, I'm trying to help my teenage little nephew decide what career path to choose. He is 16 and has been raised by my aunt and uncle (instead of his own parents) and they didn't complete any higher education. They are great hard-working people and want him to get prepared. In our culture that is pretty much the inheritance that parents or caregivers give you. My aunt/ uncle are working super hard to help him go to college without having to get into too much debt.
He is in a charter school, his grades are very good, he is good at math and computers, but again his subjects overall are good grades, he is not inclined into anything specific so far
Now, he is not sure what to choose, we don't have a lot of people with careers in our family (one lawyer and an engineer) How do I help him? What resources can I provide him? I know that his school has a career orientation but I'm hoping I can supplement him with information? Books? websites? I did ended up choosing the wrong career and didn't figure it out until I was half way done so I sucked it up and finsihed it but I really don't want him to have the same experience.
Thanks for any ideas your are using choosing your own career or helping your own kids choose one.
K.
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Thank you everyone for the very useful ideas and feedback. I have actually made a copy of these posts for him to read. I'm not sure about couselor at school or if he has made an appointment yet. This information is very helpful so I really appreciate you taking the time to respond!
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P.G. answers from Dallas on September 12, 2011
Honestly, careers change a lot. My husband was pre-med, but became a computer animation specialist; he's now going back to school at 39 to become a doctor. The best thing to do is for him to find out what he loves and excels at, and see what careers fit that. Once he gets to college, his direction may change based on the reality of the classes, etc. School counselors should help, and taking advantage of the college counselors would be good. I wish I had, as I had no clue in college.
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S.W. answers from Minneapolis on September 11, 2011
I work as a career consultant. There are two assessments that I would recommend for a teenager to help them make college major and career decisions. The first is StrengthsQuest by Gallup: http://www.strengthsquest.com/content/143780/Students.aspx
This assessment will identify where his natural talents lie, and give suggestions as to how to use this information in college and in a career. You will need to buy the book sold on this site (do not buy one used, since the code included in the book can only be used once to take the online assessment). The online assessment takes only 20-30 minutes and then he will get detailed feedback about himself and his strengths. The feedback is easy to read and to understand.
The other is called the Strong Interest Inventory. This assessment has been used in career counseling for decades. It doesn't measure skills or strengths, so it doesn't tell him what he is good at, just where he would likely fit in best in the career world based on his personal traits.
Here is a site that offers the assessment free: http://discovery.skillsone.com/slp.asp?adid=801&langu...
I would recommend reviewing the sample report first to get an idea what you will see after taking the assessment.
PM me if you have questions about my suggestions.
The other side of a major/career choice is job opportunity. I have been researching career demand trends, and almost half of the top ten career areas that are predicted to have a high demand into the future are Information Technology (IT) related. If he has an interest and aptitude in computers/math, this field is an excellent choice and will continue to be for the forseeable (over 10 years) future.
Again, PM me if you have more questions!
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M.J. answers from Sacramento on September 12, 2011
Honestly, at 16 I thought I'd become a travel agent. It wasn't until I looked at a college catalog that I discovered the government major and thought every class sounded interesting to me. Then, I started college and took a journalism class for GE credit and loved it. Ended up changing my major and ultimately went into public relations.
At 16, it's going to be hard to narrow a career path. You might have him look online at a college course catalog and see if anything interests him. But otherwise, I wouldn't push it. He'll figure it out over time.
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P.G. answers from Dallas on September 12, 2011
Honestly, careers change a lot. My husband was pre-med, but became a computer animation specialist; he's now going back to school at 39 to become a doctor. The best thing to do is for him to find out what he loves and excels at, and see what careers fit that. Once he gets to college, his direction may change based on the reality of the classes, etc. School counselors should help, and taking advantage of the college counselors would be good. I wish I had, as I had no clue in college.
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V.T. answers from Dallas on September 12, 2011
He's 16, why does he have to choose a career path now? I would encourage him to keep doing well at school and to take some classes, if offered, in things he enjoys. Also, he doesn't need to pick his major the minute he enters college. Have him take his prerequisites and again take classes that interest him to see what he likes. I know at my school, I didn't have to declare a major until my junior year of college. I took all my prerequisites and some classes that I thought were interesting, and when I picked my majors (English and Justice Studies), I took those classes my last two years, and still graduated with 2 degrees, cum laude, in 4 years. Just let him know that you will support his decisions, and will be there for him if he needs you, that is the best help you can give.
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M.L. answers from Houston on September 11, 2011
What does he enjoy? Science, math? Engineering jobs, accountants... are high earners and in demand for the next several years. Is he more creative oriented? I would ask him to talk to a school counselor. For one thing, he can go to bls.gov to look at jobs, their growth rate, education requirements, salary medians, daily tasks here at bls.gov's outlook handbook.
He can also take a meyers briggs test to help him define his personality and strengths and what career wise, would be a good fit.
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L.A. answers from Austin on September 11, 2011
The good news is he does not have to declare his major until the end of his Sophomore Year or beginning of his junior year in College. It is not like when we went to college. This will allow him to take some different courses ad find out what his interest are.
There are also places that can give him a test to find out his preferences and his strengths.. This will then give him a guide as to things he might want to consider.
We are fortunate that here in Austin in the public schools, they give this test 2 times during a students studies.. Once in middle school and again in high school. Very interesting to see some of the careers that pop up.
Ask the Academic counselor at his Charter school if they will be giving this test or if they can recommend an organization that may give this test for free or for a low cost.
Good luck to him! It is an exciting time.
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D.S. answers from Houston on September 11, 2011
With my son he likes to build so he started in maintnance. without hvac most maintance jobs won't hire him so he is in hvac school now. What does he like to do. He doesn't necessarily go to college. a trade school is a very good possibily. Ex if he likes to work on cars a mechanic. If he likes to build construction or maitnance. If he likes animals a vet. If he loves math accounting. If he likes to argue a lawyer. Go with his natural personality and natural likes. Ask him what he likes to do and go from there.
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S.H. answers from St. Louis on September 11, 2011
he needs to work with his school counselor & they'll hook him up with the screening he needs to complete to find a good, strong career for him. That's all a part of their job.
& as a head's up, many kids today change gears midway....my niece changed her field from physical therapist....to opthamologist.....to a basic biology degree. Couldn't find a job for 6 months....so is now pursuing a Master's in Education. She is planning on teaching secondary sciences.
My son went to a technical college for the business end of engineering. Had to drop out after the 1st semester due to medical/disability issues. We're now 1 year since his hip replacement & he's completely moved into other fields: he thought about radiology tech.....but has decided to pursue air traffic control. Wow....diverse thoughts!
In the case of my son, he went thru extensive screenings to find his 1st choice. Air traffic control came about when our aunt sent us "insider info" (she worked for the federal govt). Start pooling your friends....something might pop up!
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