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T.M.
asks from
Placentia, CA
on
June 14, 2008
How to Get 7 Month Old to Drink Water - Won't Take Bottle, Sippy Cup, Straw...
Now that my 7 month old is eating "real" food she is becoming constipated and it is clear she needs to be intaking more water. She nurses A LOT but still needs water. Does anyone have a suggestion for a baby who will not take a bottle and only blows bubbles with a straw and chews on a trainer/sippy cup. My first daughter got very constipated when she started solids and I don't want to go through that again with my second daughter. It was so painful for my first, I really don't want to put another baby through that. Especially when I know it can be solved with water.
If anyone has a trick to get water down a baby, please share!! Thank you!
So What Happened?™
Thank you all for the great advice - I really appreciate all the responses. We've decided to try removing all grains from her diet (I've been making her cereal from rice, millet, and/or oatmeal.) Talking to my husband and remembering the constipation issues we had with our first daughter makes us wonder if it is the grains too early in the diet. When I took our first daughter off rice at 14 months within one week her constipation problems were gone. It seems clear now what the problem is, but we will see what happens this coming week!
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J.C.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
Try putting 1 teaspoon of dark karo syrup in 8oz. water and try giving it to the 7 month with a medicine droper or spoon. And 4oz. of apple juice and 4oz. pear nectar mixed together Is also good for constipation also and you can give it to her the same way. Marilyn C.
S.S.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
Add 2 TBl dark karo syrup and this should do it. Eventually, cut it back til she's drinking just the water.
I have 4 grown children and one granddaughter and this worked on all of them.
S. S
A.G.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
My 7 month old daughter first drank water from a water bottle... i was just trying to see what she would do and she actually took to it. Now she can drink water from a regular cup as long as i hold it. I hope that helps.
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T.T.
answers from
Las Vegas
on
June 14, 2008
We had the same problem..daughter now 9 still doesn't enjoy the taste of plain water so I obviously didn't find the key! Since she's still breastfeeding regularly - we did until 2 yrs - our pediatrician suggested adding fruits that would help with the constipation. We found ours enjoyed mangos. You might want to consult with your pediatrician to find out what they would suggest but I thought I'd throw in that one :)
M.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Give her water with a spoon.
H.S.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Actually the research says babies under 1 year should never drink straight water, it can cause seizures: http://www.hopkinschildrens.org/newsDetail.aspx?id=4844. If a baby is nursing, she does not need water. Avoid constipation by looking at which types of foods you fed her and which foods you feed with other foods, but not water.
M.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I had the same issue with my baby! You should try giving her diluted apple or prune juice! It works wonders!!!!
L.V.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I would check with your dr. about the constipation. If your baby still nurses a lot, she shouldn't need water--in fact I've been told by my dr. that babies shouldn't fill their tummies with water that early. And, baby food is so watery that between that and nursing, your baby shouldn't need water. It may be something else going on. . .
J.B.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 14, 2008
chewing on a sippy cup is how they learn to use it. maybe try a bottle instead till she gets used to the water. but until then maybe try some little tummies laxitive drops mixed in with her food or a pediactric suppository (to use that you have to cut it into 1/4s and only use one 1/4 of a whole one)
A.G.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
My 7 month old daughter first drank water from a water bottle... i was just trying to see what she would do and she actually took to it. Now she can drink water from a regular cup as long as i hold it. I hope that helps.
E.R.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Hi, T..
My friend gives her 10-month-old daughter water with a spoon because she won't drink it any other way.
My own daughter who's also 10-months-old has had constipation issues since she started solids at 5 months, but I have been fortunate she's taken to straws and sippy cups.
I understand how frustrating this can be, but if she won't drink water any other way, I say go with the spoon. It's most important to try and get her to drink some water than how its administered.
It will take maybe a half a day for you to see any improvement in her stools once she starts getting water down.
Good luck!
E.
D.K.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Hi T.,
My 7 month old son had the same problem. He also chews on the training/sippy cup. You should try feeding your baby water with a spoon after each meal. Give her several spoonful of water and if the weather is hot give her more water throughout the day. If you are feeding your daughter rice cereal, switch to oakmeal cereal instead. Basically, limit foods that will cause constipation such as applesauce and banana just to name a few. Try apple juice mix with oakmeal cereal and a bit of water or prune mix with oakmeal cereal. I hope that helps.
D.
J.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 14, 2008
If you are nursing I would say at least you don't have to be terribly worried. Give her fruits and foods with a lot of water in it like watermelon and the like. Keep offering her the sippy cup though. she'll get the hang of it.
J.
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W.D.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I use a shot glass. It doesn't hold very much and my 7 month old daughter can stick her tongue in it.
She loves it.
I am not scared that she will break the glass, because it is so think.
Good luck.
C.H.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
Hi T.
If your daughter needs more water in her diet, and won't drink it, then perhaps for now you should consider adding more water to her food? So if you are making vegetables yourself and mashing them down, add enough water to make a difference. If she is constipated, keep her on vegetables and fruit only for a day or two, and it should help.
I found with my second child, that if I offered her a 'real' adult cup, despite the spills, she enjoyed drinking like mummy drank...
Good luck
C. x
S.O.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
Have you tried using an orthodontic nipple on the bottle? My DD would only drink using the Gerber Nuk Ortho narrow mouth nipple. I guess it mimics the shape of the breast nipple when the baby suckles. There are several companies that make an ortho nipple, but the Gerber was the only one she would take to.
If nothing else works you can make homemade popsicles and just make it with diluted juice and have your DD sucks on it to get more fluids in her. I just bought some ice pop makers from Target for like $3.50 for a set of 4. It's made by Back to Basics. I bought 4 sets. I use organic juice and it tastes yummy!
We also will just put some water into a straw for my DD and let it drip into her mouth to get water in her.
Good luck!
S.V.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 18, 2008
Try using a real spoon and letting her sip it-my son loves to do that!
S.
W.G.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Hi ,If you daughter is constipated try half apple juice and half water!!!But I am sure your peditrician has some ideas! Also it is not a good idea to give to much water, some studies are saying not until one years old! Good luck!
M.B.
answers from
Reno
on
June 15, 2008
You've gotten great advice and I have to agree. She doesn't need water. Change the foods she's eating instead.
High iron generally is the culprit for constipation so take a look at her iron intake (rice cereal for example is really high in iron). Applejuice is also a natural laxative (not applesauce, applesauce as well as bananas are binding-hence the BRAT diet after a bout of diarrhea) so you can mix a little apple juice in her cereal to help unconstipate her.
Also, instead of giving her more water, you should drink more water yourself.
Also, I noticed the link one mom provided doesn't include the whole story on the dangers of too much water, so this one does.
http://www.newswise.com/articles/view/540773/
Is it really constipation though? Some good information to make sure and a way to handle it if it is>
http://www.drhull.com/EncyMaster/C/constipation_infant.html
J.C.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
Try putting 1 teaspoon of dark karo syrup in 8oz. water and try giving it to the 7 month with a medicine droper or spoon. And 4oz. of apple juice and 4oz. pear nectar mixed together Is also good for constipation also and you can give it to her the same way. Marilyn C.
E.N.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
My husband and I always have a cup of cold water nearby when we are at home. Our babies saw us drinking water all day and it didn't take too long before they were interested in taking a sip from our cup. My oldest was much more interested than my youngest. He was drinking water from a cup (with our help and a little spilling) somewhere around 7 months of age. Neither of them were interested in water from a bottle or sippy cup, it's something about the regular cup. They did eventually begin to drink water from a sippy cup, and it has to be cold (that's how we like it too), but they still prefer to drink it from a regular cup (they are now 3 and 2) even though we still use sippy cups for the youngest. A note on the sippy cups and straws, it took my babies a while to get the hang of those, too. I introduced the sippy cup around 6 mos and it took a few months for them to get the hang of it, especially to independently use it. And to get them drinking from a straw, a trick my sister told me was to put the straw in the cup then cover the top of the straw with your finger (trapping some liquid inside the straw) then put the straw in your baby's mouth and intermittently take your finger off the top allowing air in and the liquid to move into her mouth. She will eventually begin to suck on the straw, expecting to get some liquid. My sister's daughter took to it pretty quickly and she had her using straws by about 7/8 months, my boys took a little while to figure it out, and I didn't do this consistently with them, but they got it eventually. My boys love drinking water (they also drink milk and have juice as a treat) and I think it is because it's something they see Mommy and Daddy doing all the time and they want to do whatever we are doing. They also want to drink from our water bottles when we are out (that's a great way to get a lot of water down them, they will drink and drink until it is gone!), and my husband has a "Camelback" that he takes with him to work everyday (he's a Marine) and they always want to drink from that, too. In fact, we got the oldest a "Camelback" of his own for his 3rd birthday and he loves to have it with him whenever we go out. Hope this helps you!
E.P.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 19, 2008
food that is dry will be the most constipating so stick to raw blended purees and lightly simmered veggies, the greens are easiest to digest such as peas and zuchini.
they are hydrating and have lots of enzymes to digest themselves. I hadthe same situation with my daughter when she started solids. It will take a while for her body to adjust to everything. My daughter would only take 1 ounce of water or less in the begining. The raw blended pear, apple, peas & zucchini were the easiest for her to digest.
S.S.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
Add 2 TBl dark karo syrup and this should do it. Eventually, cut it back til she's drinking just the water.
I have 4 grown children and one granddaughter and this worked on all of them.
S. S
B.V.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
July 09, 2008
Use the liquid medicine dropper.
R.H.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
Honestly, if she's nursing still she really doesn't need extra water, she is getting hydration from the breast milk. Constipation can just be that her system is quite sensitive to solids. Ask her pediatrician for advice on solving it, you may need to give her some diluted apple juice or a bit of mineral oil. Try to ease up on any bananas or things that contain dairy as they are notorious constipation contributors.
C.R.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 16, 2008
I'm no expert but my 2 1.5 yr old has always loved copying my husband & me. We are always drinking bottled water w/ the nipple-typed openings that come on the bottle when you buy them. There are small-sized bottles of water available. Maybe if your daughter sees you & her big sister drinking water this way, she'll be encouraged to do the same. I, also, dilute my daughter's juice w/ 2/3 water to be certain that she's always drinking plenty. Although she's still so young, Walmart has some very cute, inexpensive canteens for kids. They make drinking water fun. Best of luck to you.
A.A.
answers from
Las Vegas
on
June 15, 2008
The La Leche league lady told me that the first part of your milk is thin (like water) and the second part is thick (like a cream).
What I did to stop that is went down to only one solid (or two-just bring down one or two meals) a day to give his little body time to adjust.
Also the idea below about serving prunes for dessert is awesome!
HTH,
A.
M.P.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
hi-
i have a 5 1/2 mo old who got really constipated after we just introduced rice cereal. he wouldn't drink water or the diluted apple prune juice (my dr. suggested)from a bottle either. so i got a medicine dropper and just squirted a few droppers of it in his mouth. not so sure it helped with his constipation, but at least it got it in him.
also, if you are ready to try new foods, maybe do a fruit next? good luck!! :)
M.C.
answers from
Honolulu
on
June 15, 2008
Whenever we took my baby to a restaurant, I would put my finger over the end of the straw in my water glass, put the "wet" end in her mouth and take my finger off, allowing the water to pour into her mouth. I don't know how much effort and time you want to spend doing this, but my daughter thought it was great fun!! (and it kept her quiet in the restaurant, too!)
B.R.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 14, 2008
She really doesn't need water- you should change what she eats instead. Try giving her more fruit (other than bananas) and switching cereal, especially if you use rice cereal. Switch to oatmeal instead. Also, when you make your babyfood, try mixing a little more water into it. Babies, especially those who are breastfed, don't need to drink any water until they are around one. So don't worry about the amount she is getting (and do the other things to try to un-constipate her). That said, keep trying with the sippy cup- all kids play and chew on it initially. If you use the ones with the valves (the little white things under the lid that keep them from leaking) take the valves off. That way the water will come out on it's own any time she tips the cup- it's much easier for them to learn that way (the valve makes them have to suck, and how is that any different than using a bottle?). And to teach her how to use a straw, trap some water in the straw by putting your finger on the end and then put the bottom in her mouth and let go- it will get her used to water coming out. That's how my daughter learned, but we had to do it a lot before she figured it out.
K.G.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I used an old school sippy cup. They did not have a anti-leak-stopper so the water just pours. Use during feedings.
M.E.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
There's a thinkg you can buy if you are not nusring but want to feel the closeness. It has straps that go over your shoulders and a small tube that you insert into the corner of your baby's mouth while nursing. Usually this is used for formula, but you can put water in it. Women who adopt and fathers who want to take part, use this. I do not know the name, but I hope this helps you find it online.
Z.T.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
try a clear glass. my son was solely nursed and didn't really want to take a sippy either. he liked drinking out of a clear glass. he got better at it with practice. he is now 12 months and finally got the sippy thing down. he had the sippy thing by 9 months with water but he is pro now.
if he refuses to drink wather and gets constipated, vons, the supermarket, has an organic name brand baby food. they have a 2nd stage fruit that is just prunes. that should do the trick.
R.I.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
My daughter will not take a bottle, only prefers nursing. When she started solids, same problem, she got really constipated. This is what worked for us: Diluting prune juice and freezing it into ice cube trays. You take the ice cube and crush it up a bit. Serve it with a spoon. She loved it. Watermelon is also really good for them. Just mash it up a bit or put it in the blender and feed with a spoon as well. There is plenty of water in the melon and it is a natural laxative. As soon as she got on yogurt at 8 months, her digestion became so much better!
K.H.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
How about trying to give her more fluids through a food? Perhaps mashed watermelon or plums, or some other food with a high water content that will also help with the constipation?
You might try a kid's plastic cup with a tiny bit of water in it. The novelty might be enough for some of the water to get into her mouth, even though most of it would get on her... hey, it's summer time, it will dry fast! :)
Breastfeeding should really be helping with this. Is she taking formula at all? That could cause constipation. Perhaps it's related to your diet as well - maybe you could adjust your diet and see if it affects things at all.
K.R.
answers from
Santa Barbara
on
June 15, 2008
Hi T., have you tried to take a straw, put it in the water and hold the upper end sealed with your finger, then pull it out and put it playfully into you little ones mouth? When you take your finger off the end, the water will flow into her mouth.
M.S.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
Hi!
If your baby is nursing a lot, she actualy doesn't need water as you'd probably think. None of my 3 babies wanted water either, so I would just turn it into a game - water in a sippy and pretend I wanted it and litle-by-little they eventually took it! You might wait a few months because she is still so young. My pediatrician suggested "not" to give anything but breast milk until they were older. If you replace a feeding with water then she'll lack the nutrients she needs. If you are worried about constipation, stick to feeding her vegetables. Gerber garden vegetables kept my little-ones very regular. Good luck!
S.A.
answers from
Santa Barbara
on
June 15, 2008
My son is now just finnally sucking from a sippy cup after one month of chewing on it. I got a NUBY brand cup it is BHP free (good plastic) and it has a semi soft nipple sipper. I just kept giving it to him over and over again. We played a game out of it too- I would pretend to drink from it then put it in his mouth. He thought that was fun. Persistance is key here. The website to purchase the cup is called thesoftlanding or softlanding.com. Good luck!
C.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I had the same concerns with my son, but my Doctor told me that as long as he was eating a balanced diet with tons of fruits and vegetables, no worries. Babies don't need extra water. I have a baby food website, www.weelicious.com
Try the apricot puree on top of yogurt. My babies poops like a champ and I attribute it to the delicious puree.
Best,
C.
V.A.
answers from
Santa Barbara
on
June 15, 2008
Hi T.,
I would consult a doctor but it may be that your baby's digestion is not ready for solid foods. If you're nursing a lot, your baby is getting plenty of liquid and should not need water as well. Try backing off on the solids for a while to give your baby's digestive system more time to develop.
V.
M.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
I made my baby food as well. First I didn't really start with a oatmeal or the grains. I went straight into fruits and veggies and maybe mixed a little bit of oatmeal in. She only at once a day from 8-9m or so, was on no solids until almost 8mo. I never had a problem with constipation this way. It was so little, maybe 2tbsp of food once a day that it didn't effect her. If they are breastfed I don't think they need much food from between 6-12m of age. My DD didn't even take a cup or anything until well after one and was only on breast milk for liquid.
J.D.
answers from
Reno
on
June 15, 2008
I would talk to your pediatrician about drinking water. I believe that at that age if you give too much water it can throw off a baby's eloctolyte balance. She should be getting plenty of water if you're breastfeeding or formula feeding. I would buy prunes (baby food, of course). Give her a little every day, and she should start to feel better. :)
M.G.
answers from
San Diego
on
June 15, 2008
I solved this by giving my son fruit, either pears or prunes, as "dessert" at every meal. He never had a problem when he ate fruit with his meal, but always got constipated when he didn't get his fruit. Also, my son doesn't eat cereals at all because they constipate him so badly. I threw out all the rice cereal and oatmeal after the last bout of trouble.
T.M.
answers from
Los Angeles
on
June 15, 2008
Have you tried to add a little flavor to the water, maybe watered down koolaid, so at least it has a sweet taste until she gets used to drinking it, I think the reason she wont drink water , it has no taste, boring, if all fails take a medicine syringe fill it with water and squirt it in her mouth , its only two teaspoons, will she takes sips from mommmys cup if you offer it to her. I am not sure what you mean by saying you are a co-sleeping attachment parenting family ??