March 05, 2010,
L.D. asks from Modesto, CA on March 03, 2010
How to Damage My Hair....
Odd question, I know! I am a natural blonde with very thin, smooth, straight hair. A few years back my hair was turning rather dishwatery color so I had it professionally highlighted. Not only was the color great, the process damaged my hair and made it much fuller and easier to style when I used hair products (mousse, hairspray). With the loss of my job and the recession, I turned to demi permanent home color (the kind that washes out). It left my hair just as smooth as before and I didn't care for the color (turns out demi permanent can'tlighten hair, only cover gray). ANyway my hair is getting so limp, stringy and mousy looking. Is there anything that can rough up my hair? I've shyed away from permanent home color because I'm afraid the color won't come out right and then I'll really be stuck with awful hair. I'm ok with the dishwater color hair now, but I just can't stand the stringy limpness. Anyone have any suggestions? By the way may hair is not long, it's shoulder length with long layers in it. I don't use any conditioner in my hair either. Thanks mamas!
S.S. answers from Santa Barbara on March 03, 2010
I used to have my color done professionally too, but am now relegated to the box. I just wanted to say that I've used L'Oreal permanent products with pretty good success. If you've got gray roots like me they'll be lighter in color, but the overall effect is pretty good. I did use a Garnier Nutrisse color and it turned my hair magenta and my roots were slightly purple. I washed my hair every day and the color faded to a beautiful shade that I was complimented on regularly. Too funny! Purple...
Maybe a volumizing conditioner would help with the limpness. Also, my hairdresser used a spray wax to give volume and for piecing.
Good luck, can't wait for the recession to be over.
M.F. answers from Salinas on March 05, 2010
well... from my experience go permanent, especially if damage is not a concern !! I used garnier and it really screwed up my hair, so try that :) Also the one thing that reminded me to be brave about color is if the color you put in is ugly, you can always dye over it, so go permanent, and the damage uh I mean body will follow! good luck
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B.R. answers from Sacramento on March 04, 2010
Your request is worded in a rather odd way... 'how to damage my hair'... but I think I'm understanding what you're asking. In my opinion, the only way to deal with unruly hair is a good shampoo and conditioner. You may need to try a few different ones before you find the one that works best for you. I can tell you what I'm using that has done my hair the most good. I get my shampoo and conditioner from the Melaleuca company (only available online). I'm past sixty and my hair tends to be thin, dry and flyaway. Since using the Melaleuca products I'm finding my hair shines and seems to have a lot more body. I even have received usolicited compliments on my 'beautiful hair' recently. That certainly made me feel good after so many years of feeling that I had impossible hair.
M.E. answers from San Francisco on March 04, 2010
Hi, I too have the thin blond hair. I recently went for the a-line cut with chunnky layers, it really works well for volume and styling. In the past I have used prell (original green) shampoo like how it gives that real clean feeling, another one that works well is head and shoulders (the one with yellow on the bottle, i think its lemon fresh or something like that). I also saw and tried the informercial for Wen products, I bought it off of amazon, it is like $30.00 dollars a bottle, but it really really works, you have to follow the directions to a T, soaking your hair in cool water for 2-3 mins, leaving it in for 5-10 minutes. I know if you order it and when your putting it in your hair you are going to say that woman on Mama source is crazy, this is junk but just wait till you rinse it out and dry your hair, you will be amazed. I have tried lots of informericals and have never had any with success but this one I have. One last suggestion for you also would be, try getting your hair done at a beauty school, I use the paul mitchell one in Pleasant Hill, If you don't live near by Im sure there are other schools near you, a hair cut there is 10.00 (cut and dry) and I get my hair highligted and low lighted for about 45.00, plus tip. They charge by length and product, so you might be a little more since your hair is longer.
Best of Luck
A.D. answers from Dallas on March 03, 2010
I've heard good things about those "beach" sprays. I think they're kind of a saltwater type spray.
J.R. answers from Phoenix on March 03, 2010
Do you eat enough protein? Like peanut butter? Here's the scoop in our family, the vegetarians all have thin, stringy hair. The omnivores all have gorgeous, thick, curly, blonde hair. Go figure....
Also, have you tried heating olive oil for a leave-in, overnight conditioner, then washing out? Then use volumizing conditioners.
L.S. answers from New London on March 03, 2010
the saltwater spray from bumble and bumble works pretty well. It thickens your hair a little and give it the beach look.
C.C. answers from Fresno on March 03, 2010
Ooh! Me too! I've got the limp, stringy, fine, blond hair. Or as my mother calls it, Ditchbank Okie hair. =) Although - lately I've been on Accutane (for adult-onset acne, how fun for me) and that has dried up ALL the oil. My hair has a crazy amount of volume and I'm loving it (not that I would recommend Accutane necessarily - it's hard core stuff).
But before that, I LOVED, LOVED, LOVED Fekkai volumizing shampoo and conditioner. You can get it at Sephora, and I think even Target these days? It's a little pricey, but much less pricey than salon highlights. =) I've never used a volumizing shampoo that was worth a darn, until I tried the Fekkai stuff. It really does work. I also second the Bumble + Bumble surf spray suggestion. That stuff is fantastic! Also I like Aveda Phomollient (it's a styling foam).