I am a speech pathologist and do get gifts from many of my clients. I agree that I would not feel right about getting gifts from a family for my own two boys. Maybe a gift card to a restaurant that her whole family can go but that is up to you. Honestly my favorite gifts are a photo of the child with a nice note in a card. I do home based Early Intervention so a Dunkin Donuts gift card or gas card is always great too.