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How Much Do You Spend on Your Kids for Christmas? - Olathe,KS

We have three girls ages 10, 5, and 4. I'm just curious what would be considered going overboard money wise for Christmas shopping. I am talking about Santa, stockings, and from mom and dad. What is a reasonable amount to spend on them for all of this?

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Wow! Thanks for the responses. We are now done with our shopping and it turns out we spent about $135 per girl. This includes Santa and stockings too. Is what we did this year, we got each girl a want, a need, a read, and a surprise. They each only get two things from Santa and I got all those items on Black Friday sales so I saved like $200! This has been the best year for shopping for me in a long time. I don't feel like we went crazy and we saved wherever we could!

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Wow. I am a little suprised by some of the responses. I generally spend about 100-200 total. For everyone in my family and for any family members that get a gift. We really tend to have a low key christmas that is focused on the real reason for the season and not the gift part. What I am trying to implement this year is get each child something they need, something they wear, something they want, and something they share with their sibling etc. Works great for us!

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I buy year round and Black Friday. We have two little girls. I've spent $60 (maybe less) for gifts from us, Santa, and stockings for each one. We also set a limit of how many gifts from Santa and us.

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I feel like such a Scrooge after reading these responses...

We set a limit of $50 per child, and then another $15 for stocking stuffers, so $65 each or $130 total.

BUT... they get SO spoiled from 4 sets of grandparents, babysitters who adore them, childless aunts and uncles. They are also young (3 1/2 and 2), so we know that more expensive years are ahead of us.

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Ok I think I need Christmas shopping rehab too........

I spend $500 to $600 a kid

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We have 4 kids and we (parents) always give them an ornament, pajamas, and a game or book, about $40 per child. Santa usually brings them 2-3 gifts and spends $60-80 per child.
We both have large families so we do adult and child draw names to cut down on costs for buying gifts for others. But that still leaves us buying for 8 nieces and nephews, 4 sisters and brothers, both sets of parents, 1 godchild, gifts for charity, plus other friends and coworkers. If we don't want to put ourselves in debt until next Christmas we need to be reasonable. Plus, even with us limiting what the kids get from us, they end up with WAY more than we need by the end of all the gift exchanges. And they are more than content with their "intake."
Personally, I am shocked by what others say they spend ($400-500!!!), that seems extreme to me. Even if I could I don't think I would spend that on my kids, I am trying to teach them the value of money and to appreciate what they have. They enjoy helping me buy gifts for needy families through our church, they are learning that getting money to buy for others is way more important than getting more stuff for themselves.

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This year WAY too much.

Normally about $400-$500 per kid.

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They get enough from Grandparents and Aunts so not much from us. We will be taking our girls (7 and 5) to the Nutcracker Ballet for their Christmas treat.
Besides that less than $20. It is only because they still believe in Santa.

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I feel like such a Scrooge after reading these responses...

We set a limit of $50 per child, and then another $15 for stocking stuffers, so $65 each or $130 total.

BUT... they get SO spoiled from 4 sets of grandparents, babysitters who adore them, childless aunts and uncles. They are also young (3 1/2 and 2), so we know that more expensive years are ahead of us.

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I buy year round and Black Friday. We have two little girls. I've spent $60 (maybe less) for gifts from us, Santa, and stockings for each one. We also set a limit of how many gifts from Santa and us.

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Yikes, way to much!! You don't want to know the number especially after the purse question :) I buy whatever is on their list, they deserve it they are great kids!

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$200 per child...I have two kids. It is getting harder the seven year old wants video games and electronics...those get really expensive!!

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