N.S. asks from Buffalo Grove, IL on October 23, 2010
How Much Did You Spend on Halloween Costume?
For the past 3 years my SD's mom has bought the Halloween costume. This year she's trick or treating with us so we bought the costume.
I just about DIED when I saw how much it all was! We spent upwards of $50!! First there was the packaged costume, which was $29.99. Then the darn thing didn't come with any of the pictured accessories so it was $7.99 for one accessory, $5.99 for face paint, $5.99 for another accessory, then there was the bag to carry the candy and to top it off she wanted a wig. I drew the line at the wig!
We could have MADE the costume for a lot less and it would have looked a lot nicer than that cheap material they make the packaged ones out of. We already had a lot of the accessories at home but she HAD to have a costume from a PACKAGE from a STORE and since it wasn't my money (and it wasn't my kid) I let daddy indulge his little princess. She didn't want any of the accessories from home, she wanted NEW ones.
Is that how much Halloween costumes cost and I'm just in the dark ages? Does everyone buy one from those Halloween Stores or do lots of people make a costume? I've never bought a costume from a store ever, I always make mine although I will buy accessories from the store.
Part of me feels bad for not having a lot of money. I remember being a kid and wanting all the same things other kids had. We had a friend who couldn't afford a Cabbage Patch Kid doll so her grandmother made her one and even though it probably was cuter than ours, it just wasn't the same. You want your kid to have the right stuff, but then you see the $50 price tag on a costume they'll wear once and you just want to faint...
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Thanks everyone for weighing in! I can see that Halloween means different things to different people and there are lots of traditions out there.
My SD is 9 and we've not had any chance to create any "Halloween Traditions." She is also not very creative in the sense of being able to imagine how something made could be as good as or better than a prepackaged costume that she can see what it looks like. A few years ago she had a princess party and she wanted me to go out and buy her a princess dress and of course only wanted to look at $100+ dresses in the store for weddings and such! She threw such a FIT that I was going to sew her a costume. We picked out the fabric and decorations together and I showed her sketches but she still had her heart set on buying a dress (with what money I don't know). When the dress was all made she LOVED it! She wore that thing for as long as it fit her, and until it was almost in shreds.
I see now that the tradition and the idea of making something is not part of her like it is with me. The fun of shopping for a Halloween costume in the store is part of her tradition with her mom AND dad (who would never make her anything) and I can see that it can be fun--the looking at all the costumes, the scary decorations, etc.
When she picked out the costume, all I saw was a cheaply-made dress that I could have made so much better and accessories that we already had at home (and looked almost exactly the same as what came in the bag). I saw something she would wear one time and probably never again. I'm frugal, and we shop secondhand and I hardly ever pay more than $10 for an item of clothing for her that she will wear regularly!
I also know I'm sensitive to this when it comes to her because she always wants the most expensive things. If we go shopping she tends toward the most expensive items. If we go out to eat she will order the most expensive thing on the menu. Everything on her birthday list was over $300 each (and I mean everything). I don't even know she does it on purpose because I don't think she looks at the prices. It just takes a lot money to make her happy.
Next year I think we will talk ahead of time about a budget. I think it's fair that we give her some money toward a costume and then if she wants to save her allowance for something more then she can do that. That way she can think for herself: does she want to spend all the money on a cheaply-made costume with no accessories? Does she want to spend her own money on accessories? Could she get a better costume another way?
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J.L. answers from San Diego on October 23, 2010
The most i have ever spent was 49.99 for a "Bell Of The Ball" dress for my daughter when she was in the third grade (Now 21) but it was so beautiful. it's cheaper to just get creative. J.
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E.C. answers from Minneapolis on October 23, 2010
Since my son is only 4 I can still get away with not spending to much, but he also knows that we don't spend a lot of money on things.... so happy that he learned that early. I bought his custume this year from Old Navy and I know that I didn't spend more than $10 and no accessories were needed! Last year he wanted to be a spider and I tried my hardest to find one (from Pottery Barn Kids) on Craigslist for $10 or less but just couldn't find it... so I made it! Look just like PBKs Spider custome... but better! I received so many compliments and only paid $4 for the fleece. I would have to think that this won't last forever, but since he already understands about spending money and that certain things are just a waste of money I am hoping that it will stick for a long time.
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M.P. answers from Provo on October 23, 2010
I agree with the $20 limit, but my son's cost $24 so I thought that was ok. I would have made his, but it would have to be made out of knit, which i LOATH sewing with so it was well worth the sacrifice. He had his one year party and it was a costume party and he looked awesome!!! He was Jack Jack from the Incredibles. No baby could have made a perfect Jack Jack!!
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S.D. answers from Washington DC on October 23, 2010
This year, not a penny. My daughter is wearing her ballet recital bumble bee costume. But in the previous years, we've spent about $100 dollars. The good thing is that she plays dress up with her costumes all year long. I don't think she cares about how expensive the costume is. She wanted to put a sheet over her head and be a ghost! Maybe next year we will make our own so that she learns that we don't always have to spend money to have fun!
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J.R. answers from Davenport on October 23, 2010
My kids are still very little, 2 and 4, so I made theirs - they are going to be Jessie the Cowgirl and Sheriff Woody from Toy Story - we bought the $5 foam cowboy hats, with neckercheif and sheriff star from Walmart, I painted one hat red with spray paint. I bought them a white shirt and a yellow shirt form Walmart, $5 each and painted the red plaid and the yellow yoke and red stitching on them with fabric paints I already had. I bought 3 cow-print handkerchiefs $3 total, to make Woody's vest and Jessie's chaps, sewed them myself. We're using their jeans and belts they already have. So about $25 for two costumes that will look twice as cute as the $ 30 a piece crappy polyesther jumpsuit ones they were selling in the package.
No, not everyone buys a package costume from a store, BUT if that is what her mom has always done, and Dad is willing to go along too, that is what she will be expecting. I am starting my kids early so they know it is more fun, and more authentic to make your own costume, and at the very least, buy one used at a thrift store, especially if you are only going to wear it once. I always made my own, but my mom made them for me when I was little, it was what I am used to. All goes along with how they started her out, and how it has continued.
If you are tight on money,though, you and hubby should have discussed it first ( before she was even at your house) and set a budget, and then discussed it with her. You are the parents together, as well as her mom, you have to work as a team!
Jessie
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A.P. answers from Chicago on October 23, 2010
Yep...that is about right for buying one at the stores. It depends on how many accessories you end up getting. That can obviously drive the cost up. I buy my kids costumes and maybe one accessory, and we just use the trick or treat bags instead of a bucket, so we save $ there, and they haven't been anything yet that requires a wig...
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S.B. answers from Wichita on October 23, 2010
we got our daughter one for 17, normally 20 but on sale. We also spent 20 on boots, but they're going to be her winter boots so we felt the price was justified there. I've made her costumes in the past, but this year he just had to be Jessie from Toy Story, and when we found the costume on sale, we went with it.
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K.O. answers from Columbus on October 23, 2010
My dd is only 21 months, so I refuse to spend too much on it. A few people had given me some baby clothes and I found that a ballerina outfit was in it. I also had bought a tinkerbell leotard at a thrift store last year. Just in case either don't fit, I bought a princess skirt from the dollar tree and was going to come up with something with that. My dd is notorious for wearing something once and being fine, and then ruining it on the second try. I want it to be new for trick or treat. She loves people and that is why I am actually going to take her and let her go. She will get a little of the candy, but she doesn't have much of a sweet tooth, thank goodness :-)
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M.R. answers from Rochester on October 23, 2010
I make our costumes. I never have the money to buy and it is so much more fun to make them. One year I dressed my toddler up as He-Man (he loves the cartoons) and the baby as Orko (I bought a white long-sleeve bodysuit, tights, flesh-tone dye, and some scraps of material to make the "clothes" right on the tights and body suit); last year the boys went as knights--I cut armor out of shiny metalic sticky-backed sheets from the Recycle Shop where I work, put it right on white long-sleeve t-shirts, let them wear gray sweats for bottoms, made cloaks, and made shields. They carried their play swords. This year my youngest is going as He-Man since the costume fits, and my older one wants to be a dragon. I will probably be able to make it for a bit of loose change plus a new green hoodie.
When we were kids we had a lot of dress-up clothes to sort through, but we were creative and my mom always helped us make our costumes. It is half the fun as far as I'm concerned. My favorite was going as Medusa in middle school--we dyed my hair green and braided rubber snakes into it all over and I wore a bedsheet toga. =)
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I.H. answers from Chicago on October 24, 2010
First of all, I'm sorry you have to waste your time reading comments like Christy's. I'm never this upfront about other posts, but come on! Clearly you stated you don't have a lot of money so why are wasting our time reading all about her kid's cute and pricey costume? This isn't Facebook ( where she can brag all she wants in a status update) but this site could use a dislike button. I saw no solutions on your behalf in that response, but anyway... I think the budget idea is a good one and maybe throughout the year give her some chores to do around the house which she can earn a dollar here and there. Also borrowing from friends and putting the costume together yourself is always an option, as well. Much luck!
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E.M. answers from Denver on October 23, 2010
Our 2.5 year old is going to be Strawberry Shortcake for $12. Bought it at TJ Maxx and the best part is the main part of the costume is pink srtiped cotton pants and a matching turtleneck. These will be great pjs or real clothes when Halloween is over. The rest is a fleece strawberry and beret that go over the leggings/shirt. Our 5 year old will be a mermaid for $20 (Costco). She will wear this as dress-up until it is in tatters (after Halloween) so I feel like we'll get our money's worth.
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