October 08, 2008,
R.C. asks from New York, NY on September 26, 2008
How Long to Hold Infant Upright After Feeding
Hi My 10 week old may have acid reflux and the doctor suggested holding him upright for 30mins after every feeding but I feel like thats 15 mins too much. I'm not being lazy I just feel like it's just a long time and he gets frustrated being held up right that long. Before I would be able to soothe him after a feeding but now that's gone because I have to hold him up right and getting him to nap has become challenging....Anybody have any suggestions or hold their baby upright in different ways... my arms really hurt!
V.M. answers from New York on September 27, 2008
In this case "upright" only means don't lay him down. You can put him in a bouncy seat or his car seat with toys or, if he's strong enough into one of those round "walker type" exersaucers with toys. You don't have to hold him the whole time.
K.S. answers from New York on September 27, 2008
My older daughter had acid reflux. I would suggest smaller and more frequent feedings. As far as sleeping goes wood blocks under one side of crib, swing or bouncer seat.
M.B. answers from Rochester on September 27, 2008
Try the car seat, you can rock him at the same time. That helped my little guy when he went through that. Of course, he out grew it at 4 months.
You can switch between upright cradle and over your shoulder.
Another option might be a swing. That's what we worked with at night until he outgrew that, too. :) He can play with toys too.
J.F. answers from New York on September 27, 2008
My daughter had severe acid reflux and the doctor said to keep her upright for about 30 min. She told me thought that I didnt have to hold her the whole time. I would hold her for about 10 min and then I would put her in her swing in the upright position and that worked. She didn't like to be held so if I had to hold her the whole time it never would have worked. Hope this helps and good luck to you.
H.G. answers from New York on September 27, 2008
I went through the same thing- constant spitting up! And my son hated the car seat, so he refused that option. We used our Bjorn (which he loved!) or the bouncy seat (without actual bouncing). It sometimes worked with him just laying next to me in bed, but propped up on a pillow or my arm.
I don't think I made it to the 30 minute mark very often. And even when I did, he'd barf everywhere all the time anyways. And to be honest, I'd often nurse him to sleep without incident despite the doctor's orders. If your son can fall asleep without spitting up, then keep doing that as long as you want to! It gets harder once they'e soothing themself to sleep, I know.
You're doing great, don't worry!
C.H. answers from New York on September 26, 2008
From what I understand and have been told, keeping them upright just means not laying them flat. I had to keep my oldest upright after feedings also, but I usually just held him for about 10 minutes until I got a good burp and then put him in his swing, bouncy seat or car seat and he went to sleep. Check with your doctor to see how upright they want you to keep him.
S.C. answers from New York on October 08, 2008
I know I'm late in responding but I just wanted to tell you that my son had reflux for the first year of his life and he spent a lot of time in his bouncy seat and baby swing. Those two seemed to serve the purpose of keeping him upright. They were at just the right angle to keep him comfortable and to minimize the vomiting. Plus it was very easy to take apart the bouncy seat and throw it in with his laundry for the times that he puked on it.
Reflux is rough, but hopefully he will outgrow it by his first birthday. Also, my doctor put him on medication. I wasn't thrilled about it, but it decreased the amount of acid in his stomach, therefore minimizing the pain he felt when everything came back up. Best of luck to you!
L.W. answers from Albany on September 27, 2008
Our younger son had acid reflux...During the day, I could "get away" with about fifteen or twenty minutes of having him upright. In the evening, though, he would need a good hour or more - not completely upright, but more upright than prone. DH used to lay back in the recliner and lay Eric on his chest - probably around a 45 degree angle - and there were nights this would occur for up to two hours (fortunately, DH is a night person...).
I would try two things - a recliner, if you have it, so he's not bolt upright, but rather at an angle, and try cutting back five minutes or so at a time a few days at a time.
A.T. answers from New York on September 27, 2008
Try either a front carrier that you strap to yourself or a bouncy seat. You don't have to hold the baby in your arms, straight up...just don't allow him to be totally horizontal!