R.J. asks from Burlington, VT on September 23, 2008
How Long After Cessation of Breastfeeding Should You Still Be Lactating?
Ladies,
I breastfed my baby for about 9 months, until she self-weaned. I pumped after that for a few months, until I could no longer get enough to really sustain her because she wouldn't nurse anymore. (She'd actually laugh at me if I offered her the breast & start playing with it instead. She'd take breastmilk from a bottle, but wouldn't nurse anymore.) I have not breastfed or pumped since last February. Here we are in September and if I (or my dear child, who likes to squeeze them and laugh sometimes does) squeeze them, it appears that there's still milk there. (And, we're talking drops too, not a spray like I used to be able to produce.) How normal is that, and, how long did it take for you other breastfeeding moms to completely dry up after breastfeeding? A friend told me I should ask my doctor, that it could be a sign of breast problems or cancer. Before I go running to the phone in a panic, I thought I'd ask you all for info first.
Any input would be greatly appreciated!!!! Thanks in advance,
R.
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From the responses thus far, it doesn't appear that there's anything to panic over. Seems more than normal, actually. Glad to know I'm not the only one. It's amazing it can be a prolonged thing too - like 12 years or a lifetime! What phenomenal little bodies we have here, huh?! I suppose I could take something to dry it up, as one suggested, but I'll just let things run their course and not worry. You've all put my mind at ease. Thanks much!
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J.W. answers from Boston on September 25, 2008
My daughter is 2 and a half and I can still express breast milk. I haven't breast fed since she was about 11 months. I think every one is different. Nothing right or wrong.
Good luck
J.
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D.O. answers from Providence on September 24, 2008
Hello
I breast fed all my children. From oldest at 29 to my youngest at 12. I had the same problem with my oldet who is 29 yrs. now and I went to the DR. and he told me to not have my husband handle my breast. It worked! He was stimulating me to keep producing milk. Hope this helps.
D.
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S. answers from Boston on September 24, 2008
What most women don't realize is this: Once a lactating woman, always a lactating woman. Some women dry up so they cannot express anything, but if given a breast pump and a few weeks they would express some milk. Your case, like many women, you may never "completely" dry up.
Fascinating fact about the human womans body! I think it is great! Then again, I have been pregnant or nursing for the past 7 years!
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S.C. answers from Boston on September 24, 2008
Hi R..
I don't know the medical response to your question, but I do know that my littl oen is 3 and I haven't breastfed since she was 8 months, yet I still produce milk. I have never worried about it since I know many women to whom it also happens. Hope this puts your mind at ease!
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J.R. answers from Boston on September 24, 2008
I had my first child 8 years ago and it never COMPLETELY dried up, there was always a little something there - not a lot - but any kind of pressure could cause a few drops to come out. I had my second child this past June and stopped breastfeeding a month ago and there's still quite a bit there, so I expect that it may not dry up for a LOOONG time to come. I think what you describe is completely normal. My doctor said it could take 2-3 years or not dry up at all as in my situation.
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L.B. answers from Boston on September 24, 2008
R.,
My mother went to have her mammogram when her youngest was 13 years old (she has 3 children all of whom she nursed for a year) and when the machine squeezed her boobs, some milk came out. The nurse asked if she just stopped nursing and my mother's like, "Yeah, 12 years ago.." and the nurse was a bit surprised, but said it can be normal. So I wouldn't worry about it too much. Some women dry up quickly, some never do it seems!
I quit nursing my daughter right after her 1st birthday this past June and I cannot express one drop, and I'm the daughter of my mother who could express milk 12 years after nursing! So just know everyone is different and every situation is normal.
If you're still worried about cancer, have it checked out, but I researched and couldn't find anything supporting that as a symptom. If your milk expression is bothering you, there are steps you can take to dry it up, but I wouldn't bother unless it was a problem. Let mother nature take it's course and you'll be fine!
L.
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R.S. answers from Boston on September 24, 2008
This happened to me as well. It takes a LONG time for some women to completely dry up their milk supply. Believe it or not, my child is 5, and if I am around a crying baby I can still get a drop. I stopped nursing 4 years ago. I asked my obgyn, and she said its normal, and most women don't notice, but stopping lactation takes a long time for some women. I would not worry or fret over cancer. I am sure you are fine...Just give it time. Avoid hot showers and such...
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K.J. answers from Boston on September 23, 2008
Hi R.,
I too stopped nursing our third child the beginning of Feb '08 and can still today express drops of milk. I'd say that on average a nursing mom would no longer need nursing pads after about two weeks of the cessation of nursing. However, to completely dry up can take months in my own experience. Each mom is different but I don't think there is cause for concern. I nursed for nearly two years and our bodies are preparing to produce milk throughout the pregnancy so it doesn't go away overnight. If speaking to your physician will put you at ease, by all means make the call. But as I've had a similar experience, it sounds pretty normal to me.
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D.O. answers from Providence on September 24, 2008
Hello
I breast fed all my children. From oldest at 29 to my youngest at 12. I had the same problem with my oldet who is 29 yrs. now and I went to the DR. and he told me to not have my husband handle my breast. It worked! He was stimulating me to keep producing milk. Hope this helps.
D.
www.donnascandlebiz.com
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A.P. answers from Portland on September 24, 2008
Can't speak from experience, but I've been told by several herbalists that sage tea will dry up your milk supply. That's the culinary sage, not the white sage used for smudging. Parsley will have the same effect.
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