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How Important Is a Car to You?

I was never brought up to put much stock into whatever car someone drove...my parents always drove beaters and put more money into their home. I tend to think the same way as an adult. I want a car that is safe and gets me to one point to another in relative comfort. So yes, in Florida air conditioning is a requirement. I drive a 2007 Dodge minivan. I hate the idea of driving a minivan, but it really is the best type of vehicle for getting small kids in and out. Electric sliding doors absolutely rock. I bought this car used in 2008 and it has been great...knock on wood.

I know people that really put a lot of emphasis on what they drive. Some people seem to have to have a new car every year or so. I have no idea how normal people do that without getting seriously upside down on their loans. I prefer something with pretty low payments so I can put my other money on something that means more to me. For me, that means funding the college plans for my kids and making sure they have swimming lessons. Is the status of a Lexus or a Mercedes really worth the extra cost?

What can I do next?

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We don't. We are practical. We buy quality cars that require no maintenance (Hondas).

I love my minivan. Minivan drivers are cool! Automatic doors totally rock.

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I have bought 2 new cars. The first one had no CD Player, No tape deck nothing, it was just a car. I drove it 12 years before I totaled it 1-1/2 years ago. I don't have anything fancy now. I do like a little fun in a car like my new one now has keyless entry and keyless start. to me thats fun. I'm the type that will drive the car into the ground. I don't need all the fancy gadgets.

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We buy new but we also drive them till the end. Then we buy new again. We drive out of state to visit family and we need something safe. We pay cash for everything and if we don't have cash then we don't get it. It's been a good plan the last 3 years. We paid cash for new couches last weekend and it felt good. DH is ready for a new car but we are trying to make his 2000 Mazda Protege last another year so we can finish paying off my suv. DH and I drive two different directions to work. I take the kids to and from school. I'm happy just having a car from A-B. I'm not materialistic so it doesn't bother me.

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All the people I know with new cars every year lease them. When a BMW is less than $200 a month, why not? Far less than the loan for buying a $50,000 car.

Personally I DO buy my cars... because I don't want to keep them showroom perfect, and I like paying ZERO a month after they're paid off. But, quite frankly, next time I may lease. Why? Because I've already paid out of pocket 10k in car repairs in the past 2 years on our 2 (paid off) cars. When I THINK of what I could have used that money on instead!!! Oy. If we leased, they would have fixed those problems for free, or they wouldn't have happened at ALL because they're NEW! I'm beginning to think "So what I'd have to spend $500 on getting it detailed before returning it???" And, quite frankly, the resale on our cars would be peanuts. Less than the repair costs, for sure.

You're not allowed to drive fast enough in this country to make buying a sports car something I would do unless I had EVERYTHING ELSE I could possibly want. Having a car that can go zoom zoom, when the speed limit is putter-putter would just be frustrating for me. The Jeep's fine.

BUT when it's time to get a new car... I'm SERIOUSLY thinking of leasing.
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Added: My dad bought himself a 75,000 car a couple years ago. Why? Because over the past 50 odd years of working, he'd done everything else. He'd raised a family on a shoestring. He'd made it to the top of his field (doesn't pay well though, the military), he'd "retired" and started working as a civillian making 4-8x what he made in the military. They bought their 'forever' house. They sent two of my siblings to school. He'd stacked away their retirement money. He'd done every responsible thing, his entire life. And at 65, he bought himself a REALLY nice car.

I think he's earned it.

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We don't. We are practical. We buy quality cars that require no maintenance (Hondas).

I love my minivan. Minivan drivers are cool! Automatic doors totally rock.

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I like my cars one one way: Paid Off!

We don't "do" car payments.

I require a reliable car. Couldn't care less what it "looks like" or what message it sends.

I have driven Fords, Mercuries, Chevys, Pontiacs and Cadillacs.
Guess what? they all get you from point A to point B.
The ones that are PAID FOR drive better! LOL

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I have bought 2 new cars. The first one had no CD Player, No tape deck nothing, it was just a car. I drove it 12 years before I totaled it 1-1/2 years ago. I don't have anything fancy now. I do like a little fun in a car like my new one now has keyless entry and keyless start. to me thats fun. I'm the type that will drive the car into the ground. I don't need all the fancy gadgets.

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I've never owned a new car till my son bought me one a few years ago.
Cars were not that important to me either. To many it's a status symbol, just like a huge house and pricey furnishings. I never wanted to be car or mortgage poor, life is too short. Investing in the college fund and spending money on other things that "enrich" your childs life and future is better spent money in my book as well. Raising a successful kid might just get you a new car one day like me :) Oh, and by the way, it's not a fancy car, it's a Honda, wouldnt have it any other way.

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I always choose for my needs...& not the namebrand. I try to buy gently-used & drive it until I am ready for something else.

My last vehicle was a minivan & we drove it past 200,000 miles. My current vehicle is 9 years old & is about to roll 150,000. After Jan 1st, we are turning it over to our son & selling his junker to pay the taxes on our replacement. A win-win situation!

Please, please pat yourself on the back! Kudos to you for not needing to keep up with the Joneses!

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Ever see people's garages?
There can be a Mercedes in their garage..... in a garage that is falling apart, attached to a puny rundown home with overgrown grass or weeds in the yard and a mail-box that is rusted or falling apart too.
But they have a Mercedes in their garage. Nice and shiny and new.
(I am speaking of what I see here... in many types of neighborhoods).

Who knows, maybe they value their car, more than their home. Or, they are just real frugal and rather spend money on their car... because it is transportation and portable 'image' symbols, at which they can show off. Versus they have a rundown falling apart home, that they either can't afford to fix or don't want to.

Me: I just want a vehicle that is safe and works and paid off.
And even if it is old, I will maintain it and detail it and keep it nice and washed.

Many people, lease their cars. Thus, that is why it appears that they have a new/different car, all the time.
They don't own it. They lease it. Many business people do that.
My late Dad, included.
It was not for the sake of image, but just what he preferred to do.

We don't do car payments. If you can't buy the car outright, we don't buy it. We don't live in debt either.

That said, we all 3 drive Mercedes at our house. For status? no although most would harp on me for that. They are very safe, reliable cars. We've never had trouble with them at all. I can't see ever driving anything else after driving these cars. We are low mileage drivers as well.

Before making the move to our 1st Mercedes 5 yrs ago, I drove a Chrysler Town and Country for 12 years and it was one of the best vehicles we ever owned!

When our daughter as 10 is when we opted to transition away from the van and we bought a Mercedes.

We would never be driving these cars if college and retirement were not funded, if our house was in disrepair, and if we were in debt.

We have a neighbor who puts all kinds of sizzle to the appearance of his house. We know when they are having a party. Last year he spent upwards of $50,000 for a back custom stone beautiful decking area. Hubby and I jsut shook our heads because... the heating and air units are rusting out at his house, he patches things instead of actually repairing and upgrading them, and last spring I was helping him in the kitchen...opened the door under the sink and the cabinet was rotted out!! Really...

People have their own priorities...... I would hope most prioritize no debt and taking care of their families and homes before splurging on a car.

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