A.M. asks from Jackson, NJ on December 03, 2011
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☆.A. answers from Pittsburgh on December 03, 2011
I cannot recommend Dave Ramsay enough! He has lots of budgeting info in either book: Financial Peace or Total Money Makeover.
The first thing you really need to do is become debt free.
Good luck!
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G.B. answers from Oklahoma City on December 03, 2011
First thing to do is track where you are spending your money. It helps if you can do a chart of some sort where each day you come in and write down what was spent during the day. Even a piece of gum out of a gumball machine counts.
When some people see in black and white where there money is actually going it is often easier to cut in some areas. For example:
You decide to pay cash for every purchase and use the receipts at the end of the day to see where your money is going.
You find that you spend $30 per week at the 7-11 on a large coffee. For $30 per week you can buy a machine that makes fancy coffee, the coffee, and a great travel mug for the car. You would save lots of money cutting that expense.
Also, you find that you are spending $50 every other week at the dry cleaners. If you have a dryer and buy some Dryel you could save the whole amount of your drycleaning bill. That would add up quickly.
You find that you don't use the full amount of minutes on your cell phone contract, never have used them in one month at all. You could cut down to the next lower contract the next time it is up for renewal.
When a person sees in black and white where the money is going they have a better idea of how to decide what amount of money to set for a certain area.
For example. You like in a place that is not really large enough to have coffee pots and lots of coffee sitting around. You really like this particular style of coffee that 7-11 has and you decide you really don't want to give it up. You decide to put $30 per week in the budget for coffee. It means you have to cut somewhere else so you have that money available. It is a weighing kind of thought process.
I would not give up chocolate or maybe some other kind of guilty pleasure but it would be easy to give up donuts at the 7-11 that always get picked up when buying the coffee. That would cut the $30 a bit.
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When I was the President of the Habitat for Humanity Board of Directors I learned a lot about nurturing a family. I had a very good nurture committee. The woman who took that and worked with the families said that she found that people didn't realize they should budget 30%-33% of their take home pay for their housing bill. That would include the payment, utilities, insurance, upkeep, repair account, etc...they need to understand it takes a lot of their money just to sit in that home with the utilities on. Then there is food, clothing, fun stuff, gifts, all kinds of things that are necessary parts of life.
I recommend you look for some simple budgeting books through a book store like Hastings or maybe even the library where you can take it, read it, study it, and see if it fits with your lifestyle. If it is not one that is easy for you to read and relate to it will not be something you pick up and study. It needs to be one that you like and that makes sense to you.
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R.J. answers from Seattle on December 03, 2011
Wrote down ALL of our bills.
Separated them out into 3 categories (necessary, useful, extra)
Lowered all the necessary ones that we could (rent, utilities, debt). Dropped all extras (magazines, newspapers, memberships), and altered most of the useful ones (like dropping cable and getting netflix & hulu... dropped all subscritptions, use "real world" exercise -like walking- instead of a treadmill the gym, etc.)
Figured out how much was left over.
Split the remainder. X for groceries. Y for transportation. Z for personal money (this covers ALL personal expenses; from haircuts to datenights to lunches out to clothes to hobbies... and they are *equal*).
Tried out the budget and tweaked it a few times the first few months.
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☆.A. answers from Pittsburgh on December 03, 2011
I cannot recommend Dave Ramsay enough! He has lots of budgeting info in either book: Financial Peace or Total Money Makeover.
The first thing you really need to do is become debt free.
Good luck!
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J.B. answers from Houston on December 03, 2011
we use www.youneedabudget.com
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C.O. answers from Washington DC on December 03, 2011
I know you want to buy a home - find out what you would be pre-approved for if you were to start searching today...(added sorry - I lost my train of thought!!) this will help you make your budget as well. Setting a goal.
Here's what I would do. Please keep in mind that EVERYONE has a different way of doing it. You can also go to the library and borrow Dave Ramsey or Suze Orman books on budgeting.
A journal, pen and an envelope.
For the first month - keep a journal of every penny you spend. Put the receipts in the envelope....This will help you establish what you spend - thereby creating a budget.
Bring all your bills - water, gas, trash, electric, cable, cell, credit cards, rent, etc. and your LES (pay stubs). If you are not a salaried employee - you will need to average your pay over the last year to help you find out your income. Once you gather them all together - find out what you can reduce/lower, get rid of, etc.
In one column - print income. In another column write expenditures.
Example:
Income: $4,000
Ayden $2,000
Parker $2,000
Expenditures: $1810
Rent $1200
Car payment $ 350
Gas (House) $ 25
Electric $ 150
Trash Disposal $ 35
Metro/parking $ 50
You get the idea - include groceries, gas for cars...if there is money left over - GREAT!!! If not...go through the house and start selling things you don't need or want that can get you $$$ in the door and use that money to pay off any debt to get the income above the expenditures! :)
Then when you get that done....find out if you can do it all on one income.
Pay any and all credit cards down with the other income. If you really want a home - put one mortgage payment a month in the bank for six months - that will be your down payment.
If you can't make it during that time frame - you won't be able to afford a mortgage (I know - Debbie Downer) - but it's the realistic way to go about it.
Hope this doesn't make you crazy!
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J.W. answers from St. Louis on December 03, 2011
There are so many ways to make a budget. Are you trying to just cut back to save? If that is the case add up everything you spend and on what for a three month period, more if you have time. That way you have a true average of what you spend on things like clothes, groceries, gas, going out. If you do it off the top of your head, like okay last week we went out once, multiply it by four you will be no where near your real average.
So then you start with what is the least necessity. Say going to the movies, if you go out twice a month, do you need to go twice? how much of that is food, do you need to buy that much, how much is going in the trash after the movie? do you let the kids play video games at the theater, how much is that?
Go item to item until you hit things like utilities, what is your water heater set on, thermostat, how many lights are left on when you aren't in the room. Where do you have your fridge set at.
Generally when you haven't had a budget you will find it is really easy to cut hundreds off your monthly spending without it even hurting. I thought I needed my daily latte at 4.56 until I figured out it was costing 182+ dollars a month. I don't even miss them plus I get to work earlier or sleep later by 10 minutes by cutting that out of my morning routine. :)
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M.C. answers from Washington DC on December 03, 2011
when you make your lists, you have to be sure to include every little thing:
-every Starbucks, McDs, 7-11 trip,
- every $1.70 for a soda, $1 for gum.
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C.S. answers from Las Vegas on December 03, 2011
Total income less expenses = disposable income. Use strong discretion from there.
Make lunches
Use coupons
Don't over buy children's clothes (easy to do)
Press your own shirts
Choose family night out carefully
Use a refillable bottle rather than purchasing bottled water
Buy water by the case for outings & last minute rather than at the convenience store
Reuse bags wherever possible
Laundry soap - big part of the budget - assess whether a cheaper brand will work
Use coins where possible and always accept your change back
Cook meals with a plan - if you make a pot of rice with roast beef, tomorrow make chicken & rice soup
Stick to it!!!!
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