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Help with Sick Child

I am needing some advice with my sons health. He is 3 years old, will be 4 in August. He has allergies to food, pets and outdoor irritants. He also has asthma. It seems like he is always sick. Either a virus, strep throat, ear infections pretty much the common things that children get - but it seems like he ALWAYS has something. Winter time is the worse. His asthma is under control with medication - we did have a rough winter though and he was on Prednisone 4 times from about Nov. - March. He sees an allergist and a dermatologist regularly, has had all his immunizations, and normally is a happy kid. I just dont understand why he gets sick 10X more than his sister. He had an awesome doc when he was younger, but due to certian circumstances I had to put them on state insurance and change doctors. I do not particularly care for his current doctor who seems to busy to spend any time with him. So I guess my question is - has anyone else been through this with their child? Will he eventually grow out of this? It is just so frustrating to see him not feeling well knowing that I can't do anything more to make him feel better. His sister who is 6 is hardly ever sick (maybe 2 times a year). Any advice or support would be helpful! Thanks

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WOW! Thank you to all of you who have responded or who still are. I have gotten alot of good advice. Unfortunantly my baby is still not feeling well. I am going to try the Just Juice products and seriously look into trading out all of my cleaning products. I will keep looking for a new doctor - There are not too many here in KC that are accepting anything but new borns right now. Thank you again for all the awesome responses. Hopefully he will grow out of this by the time he goes to kindergarten. Does anyone know of a Childrens' Chiropractor that accepts Missouri Medicaid?

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There is a Doctor in Saint Louis, MO his name is Dr. Scott Devereux ( pronounced like dev er o )
He does NAET i would call him and see who he recomends were you live. His # is ###-###-####.
Good Luck!

I went through the same thing with my children. My first child was never sick, but my second one had severe asthma and some allergies. Unfortunately, he was sick a lot. His asthma continued, but the other stuff lessened a lot as he got older. Since his immune system is compromised, we got really good at detecting infections, etc. and killing them. Sometimes if antibiotics worked, he would have to be on them for three weeks instead of ten days or they would come back. He is 29 now and still has asthma, still under control with meds, but any sinus infections can be a real mess!

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Oh My! Yes I have been through this...I have 3 boyes 13, 11 and 9. All 3 of them were dianosed with Asthma by 2 years old. Tubes were put into ears in all 3. My 13 year old had is touncils taken out in 4th grade and we have been on steriods for ever! It seemed like we couldn't leave the house without the nebulizer. The flair-ups were also during those months. All three have been hospitalized at one point for asthma attachs. I am happy to tell you we have not had any severe problems in years. We did have some allergy problems last month but we have that undercontrol. I was also that way when I was younger, they never called it Asthma back then :-) I was alergic to everything and had to sleep in a made tent with a humidifier along with going to the ER constantly. I still get allergy shots but have out grown all other symptoms. My allergist told me that alot of times kids do out grown them. Keep the faith! I know it is hard and Asthma is scary but there is a good chance he will out grow it when Mommy isn't going to be around all the time to protect him from those attachs. Good luck and take care!

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kids with asthma just get sick more. eliminate all allergens...aquariums, cats, birds, cigarette smoke. if anyone smokes, smoke outside in a smoking jacket. get his ears checked...does he have tubes? frequent infections that would warrant them? does he have a controller AND a reliever, like qvar daily and xoponex when he's needing a boost? what about singulair? these meds are GREAT for asthma kids, help out without jacking up the heart rate or causing big drops in immunity. prednisone causes decreased immunity if on it often. switch doctors if you aren't happy.

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Hi, E.. We have not seen as much of the illness in our family but have had our share in the past. My 9 year old daughter was diagnosed as having asthma four or five years ago and she would get much more sick than her brother and sister. She would also have terrible flare ups (especially when sleeping)where she could not breathe and we had to use the inhalers and the nebulizer. (sp?) She would get these terrible dog barking coughs that would last for days and keep her up nights and would then produce such mucus that she would start vomiting it up. My other children, on the other hand are never ill. In fact, my 12 year old daughter has not been to a doctor in 7 years. I was also having debilitating migraine headaches for years. Okay here is the "good news" part. Almost 3 years ago, I heard about a company that sold wellness products that didn't have the harsh chemicals and caustic toxins in them that the cleaning products in the traditional stores have. I converted my whole home. I got rid of the bleach and the laundry detergents, all of the cleaning products, haircare products, first aid products, aerosols, disinfectants, candles--everything that contained the poisonous chemicals (which honestly I didn't know were poison until I decided to take control of my daughter's health and do some major research). I replaced them with products that work better and give me peace of mind. Better than all that--my daughter has not had even 1 asthma flare up since. She never has to go to the doctor. In fact, recently I had to take her in because of a bump that had formed on her eyelid. The doctor "rebuked" me for not bringing my children to the doctor even for a wellness checkup. So, I promised to do at least that:) I love that fact that I have not had to give her the inhalers or the breathing treatments. It made me so sad to put things into her system that had so many known side effects and were not natural. E., many people don't realize the effects that chemicals have on people, especially people who already have allergies. Hope this helps. If I can be of further help, just contact me through my website.

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Have you talked to your doctor about getting his tonsils and adnoids out. I know that from experience. My son was 2 and had to have his out plus he had to have tubes in his ears. It made a remarkable difference. Since you are on assistance you really need to get it done while you have it. I had to do the same thing when he was that age. You need to tell the doctor that you want to see a specialist and have him refer your son. The specialist deals with this illness. My specialist told me that the reason he was sick with strep, etc. was because his tonsils were full of infection. Infection is always present in their tonsils and that make them sick more often. I am the mother of 3 boys, now 24,21, and 17. I have been married 26 years. Good luck to you.

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My son has allergies and asthma caused by the allergies. If I keep him on his allergy medicine regularly, he doesn't need as much asthma medicine. He does really well with Zyrtec for allergies and Flovent for asthma. Have you tried that medicine? I also make sure he takes showers before bed if he has been outside a lot and exposed to allergens, plus wash his bed linens a lot or pillow case to keep the allergens down. This seems to help with his overall health. I hope this helps alittle. A.

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I would recommend making sure your son takes his multivitamins plus extra vitamin C. Also, put him on a probiotic. (acidophilis) If your son is as sick as you say, he probably is on antibiotics a lot which destroys all the good bacteria in the body. I just wanted to note that sometimes being fully vaccinated can lead a child into a world of sicknesses. Just from research I've done and many mom's, chiropractors and doctors I've talked to. Good luck with your little one.

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I can't say that I've had experience with this, neither of my boys have allergies. However, I'd like to offer this bit of advice. Try seeking out a holistic practitioner...someone who will look at the nutritional and supplemental needs of your son. You'd be surprised how much a change in diet can improve one's health issues. Also, have you considered chiropractic care? I have heard wonderful things about seeing a chiropractor for alleries. This should all be done, of course, in conjunction with your regular doctor. And, by the way, if you don't like the doctor and you don't feel like you're getting quality care from him, find someone else. This is your child's health and you deserve to get the best care possible.

One other bit of advice I've heard to deal with allergies is to eat a spoonful of local honey every day. Just make sure that it's LOCAL honey...not just any old kind the store sells. It will be a little more expensive, but it will help more due to local pollination habits. Good luck!

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Keep an eye on the use of predisone. It can cause liver problems with extended use. I'm not sure if your son is old enough but we switched to albuterol for emergencies and singular for daily. It made a huge difference in breathing. But my son was older.
Unfortunately when school starts for him it may be worse. Hopefully right now he is building up anti bodies and when he starts school he will be great! :)

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