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Help with Low Milk Supply

Hi to all you mamas!
My son is 5 1/2 months and we have been breastfeeding from the start. At his 4 month check up, he had fallen completely off the growth chart (in other words, the 0%) and we were told to supplement after he nursed. I've been working with a lactation consultant and followed her advice. But I'm still not making enough. We bought a baby scale (specific to babies to its accurate to 1/2 oz) to do before and after nursing weighings. The strange thing is it shows that he is getting 3 oz from me which is enough to grow. But if we back off the supplement at all, he stops growing (I tried it for 3 days and he lost weight). So I think maybe I'm having drastic variations during the day as to how much milk I make (the lactation consultant has done 3 such weighings and showed 1 oz, then 2 oz, then another day 3 oz, then back down to 1 oz). Here is what I've tried so far:
*taking fenugreek, 3 caps, 3 times a day
*taking blessed thistle 3 caps, 3 times a day
*taking Brewers yeast, 2 TBS a day
*taking Red Raspberry leaf, 2 caps a day
*pumping 4 times per day
*currently nursing every 3 hours because I tried nursing every 1 1/2 hours for weeks and it didn't do anything, also tried every 2 hours but he seems more interested in nursing every 3
*eating more, running less
*drinking lots of water
*getting enough sleep, at least 8 hours
*tried a beer, and on another occasion, wine with no success
Let me just add that when my son showed the weight drop, I had just recently gone through getting a breast abcess surgically drained. I've had tons of blocked ducts (seriously, too many to count). I was going through a severe cold and was taking both an antihistimine and sudafed (both of which dry your milk up, or so I learned far too late). Plus the baby had just cut ten minutes of each nursing time. So I had a lot of things contributing. And yet I've not been able to get my supply back up after 3 weeks! My next thing is that I've ordered domperidone and I will be starting it as soon as it gets here.

Other than what I've listed, does anyone have any ideas or things that worked for them?

*Edited to add: I'm sorry ladies, I completely forgot to mention that we ARE supplementing with formula after daytime feedings. He is taking up to 20 oz extra per day. I realized it must sound like I was starving him! :)

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One of the first things they tell you is to be comfortable and relax. Try putting on some relaxing music. Could you be worring about the situation too much? Sometimes stress can dry you up too.

A.-
There is also some organic tea-I don't remember the exact name, Mother's milk. I found it at the HEB that I shop at on Slaughter.
Hope this helps.

Mel G

I had the same problem. I tried all the things that you are trying plus I was on Reglen. Nothing seemed to help me and it was very upsetting to me. I felt like it was my fault or that I was a bad mother (at least that is how the lactation consultant made me feel). I talked it over with my OB and she really put my mind at ease. She said that some women just have problems producing milk and that I had given him all that I could. It was hard to accept but I finally had to realize that he needed more than what I could give and now I have a VERY active and energetic 17 month old healthy boy. It really is a frustrating situation to be in. I wish you luck as you try to work through it...you really are doing all that you can.

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WOW! You have tried everything that I can think of. The only thing I might suggest is to try to cut out running all together. Coming from a fellow runner, I know this is hard. I tried this with my second baby, because with my first, I was running a lot and he was real little (around 5-10% on growth scale). He was about 5 months old when they start to get distracted and realize there is more to life than breastfeeding. anyway, i tried fenugreek and thistle and brewer's yeast and added a pumping time. I guess all this helped, as he stayed the same on the growth chart, which the pediatrician said was fine. We also started solids at about this time too. So, with my daughter, I started running after clearance and felt like my supply was going down around 2 months, so I quit running. I don't know if this helped or not, but she is now 11 months, and I never had to take any supplements. I also started running a little bit at around 9 months.
So, I must say you are doing a GREAT job and should be proud of your dedication, especially through flu season. Also, have you started him on solids. This may help. Baby food that you buy in stores is actually really low in calories, but if you make your own, you can add calories in lots of ways. Good luck and keep up the hard work!!! It is hard to stick with it.

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A.,

It sounds like you have just about done everything in your power....I really respect that!!! But, stress can also be a factor. You know if you have to just switch to formula he will grow up healthy and happy. It might just make you happy too.

Good luck,
DH

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stress has a lot to do with having and not having - it sounds to me like you are waaayyy tooo worried about it- God gave you the milk and your body's ability to produce it- there is nothing wrong with a follow up bottle for your son- instead of stressing... might I suggest that you take the time with your son to love love love and bond bond bond with him. Hold him close- sing to him, talk to him, shut out the world - just enjoy the time with him- your body will respond correctly- and even if you never make enough- after nursing on both sides then give him the bottle. I nursed four babies- My second son at six months had gone backwards in his weight- but he was developing fine - he was just a little guy- still is but he is catching up. I had a wonderful old school pediatrician that said not to worry - continue to nurse and just add in the supplemental bottles- she didn't push or harp or anything- I nursed him past his first birthday- funny thing was when he started eating baby food- the suplemental milk slowed down. I would nurse him and then feed him his food and then offer him to nurse again- by 8 mos- my supply had just kind of picked up on its own- you are strong and awesome and you can do this- relax and love on that baby and before you know it everything will work out just fine!! Praying for both of you!

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I agree with a lot of what has been said. It sounds like you are doing everything possible. That said, you also sound stressed and measuring makes everything more stressful. I am not saying that you don't need to measure but that you may want to focus on relaxation techniques. I always had to have a cup of hot peppermint tea to get me to relax before breastfeeding. I had the same problems as you are having with my 2nd and it was very stressful because I wanted it to work so badly and it was so wonderful with my first. Stress absolutely screws up everything. Get some classical music or nature music going, light some candles, get a snuggly blanket for yourself, visualize that milk flowing from all of the PERFECT ducts. As said by another mommie, visualization does not work immediately. I once used it for a weightloss and fitness goal and visualized my desired results for weeks as I rode my stationary bike. I was just about to reach my deadline when all of a sudden I dropped 3 pounds and hit my goal. I had been stuck for weeks thinking that nothing was happening. I also agree with the suggestion about pumping afterwards to make sure you are absolutely empty. My daughter was only 2 weeks early but she never did as well nursing as my son who was a week late so pumping was a big deal for us. BUT after all, even though she did lose a little weight and I was completely insanely stressed about it, she is now a beautiful, intelligent, funny 12 year old that loves to read and is happy in 4 Talented and gifted classes in school. I am not saying that to brag but to let you know that it will turn out okay. I was so stressed thinking I was starving her and not providing enough fat for her brain. Relax and all will be better. Best of Luck! Big Hugs! R.

Have you tried pumping after he was finished nursing . Thats what i did. I let my baby nurse and then i drank a big glass of water then i pumped for 15 minutes. I did this every time the baby nursed it took a few days but it worked for me, as well i took the herbals too. Good luck

I am also a nursing mom, I used to take a lot of herbs/vitamins before I became pregnant. I am leery of taking medicinal herbs when you are not sure how it will affect the baby, you know. I take a multi, calcium, spirullina , no medicinal stuff.

I have just one word of advice: RELAX. You seem to be very uptight and nervous it is hard to be relaxed if you are used to working and going full-tilt all day before baby, but that really would be best for now, to let your body heal and your baby will relax more too.

I also supplement my baby with formula and he is doing great. It doesn't have to pure and natural for him to thrive, some babies need a little more food than mom can produce sometimes.

A., I'm sorry, but have to agree with what Stephanie said. You can only do so much. And breastfeeding, while great for your baby, is not the be-all, end-all for the nutrition and health of him.

Don't look at supplementing with formula as some sort of failure or as being detrimental to his health. Failure to thrive is far more detrimental than that. I would say to be content that he is nursing as much as he does, offer him a formula supplement immediately after nursing and stop driving yourself mad looking for a nursing solution. You've done great to nurse thus far, and can continue as long as your supply lasts, but do stop insisting that this is the only way to nourish your baby, and making such demands of yourself.

Relax and enjoy him. Best wishes,
B.

One of the first things they tell you is to be comfortable and relax. Try putting on some relaxing music. Could you be worring about the situation too much? Sometimes stress can dry you up too.

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