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Help What Is NF-KB E M Nemo

I have a two year old boy and the Drs think he might have this NF-KB E M Nemo illness, he gets Pneumonia all the time and he has a very week immune system if any.Right now he is on 3 count 3 antibiotics and many other meds just to keep him out of the hospital.. He does see an immunoligest but they have no idea what is going on they just sent his blood to UCLA in Ca. to do more tests. I was wanting to know if any other moms have children with the same problems. My son gets sick very easy and a small cold could turn into an ICU stay. He is allergic to everything from feathers, trees to cotton. I am so frusterated because I like to give him a bath everyday but he has BAD dry skin to where when he itches he bleeds. I am asking for advise from moms who have might have children with the same problems(he has exema over his torso) There is only one Dr back east (or one hospital just for this)some where that will pay for us to come out there so he can be tested for this something something something syndrome. I just want to know if I am alone in this. I do know that one parent at my parents church whos child died at the age of 9 of this illness because they didnt find out what it was in time, He finally died of pneumonia.... Please help

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Thank you everyone for your advise. Over the weekend he got so bad he was hospitalised... I have done some research on NEMO and it talks about skin problems and it is interesting that since he has been on these 3 antibiotics his skin is as smooth as a babies butt. I am going to some of the websites that you sugested and I do believe that God is the only on that can heal him compleatly. Thank you for your prayers.. R.

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R.,

I have no clue about the syndrome. I wish I coudl help you there.
However the exema I can help with. I have a number of people who have relieved and eliminated problems with exema using Lotion Bars from Southwest Lifestyle. No perfume, no chemicals (anythign with propylene glycol, mineral oil, parabens, etc is going to make it WORSE. PERIOD). I had the worst skin in the world. Now even my 14 year old daughter comes up and runs her fingers on my hands and says "mom your hands look so healthy and young". Perfect strangers are sure i'm not old enouhg to have 8 kids and a grandchild.
I invite you to visit www.southwestlifestyle.com. Go to Body Care, Lotion Bars. My suggestion would be to start with the Unscented. The other alternative would be in the Special Care section for AntiBacterial cream. (Again...no junk) Safe to use on the whole body and very healing.
I would be delighted to talk with you in person about these. Feel free to message me here or call me at ###-###-####.
S.

R.~
May God bless you, your son & your family during these trials.
Love,
~D.

R.,
I am sorry that you and your son are going through this. Just a thought, but have you talked with anyone at the University of Arizona Medical Center to see if they know anything about what you are going through? I know a few people who have contacted them about uncommon issues and found excellent advice and care there. I hope that you find answers and resolution soon. God Bless you both.

Dear R.,

I do not know too much about it. A friend of mine has a son whose twin has Marfane's syndrome, but the son seems to be allergic to everything from food to dander to ...
I would suggest converting your home to non toxic cleaners and laundry detergent. My children's allergies (though not as drastic as your son's) have helped so much because of this one move I made. All cleaning products, all laundry detergent all soap and shampoos. We also went to a naturopath for my son and those medicines have helped along with his regular meds for his asthma.

Good luck, feel free to contact me about the household conversion.
C. W
www.MyHomeCottageBiz.com
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First of all I wanted to say Bless you and your son. I also wanted to suggest you try posting on a webmd forum since this seems to be a very particular medical syndrome and you may find more people that can respond to your questions. Best wishes!

Hi R., it sounds like your son has an immunlological problem, and although I know little about them, I would suggest writing or calling the hospital back east and ask if they have a parents support group. The parents that are actively going through this may be able to comfort you much more than what you are getting now. Prayers going your way and your sons way.
J.

Hi R.!
This may be a dumb suggestion but here goes....Have you ever seen the tv show The Doctors? They always have people on the show who have written in asking for help with medical problems they have been unable to find answers for elsewhere. Maybe you could send them an email?? You can go to the website thedoctorstv.com
Good luck & God Bless. I hope you find some help for you son.

First of all, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. As far as this illness, I searched on "Google" and "Webmd.com" to get some information. From what I could understand throught the medical jargon, this is very serious and on a cellular level. One of the advice responses used the same "plain English" definitions I was going to use, so I won't waste your time. I'm sorry that my best advice follows, but I know if it were my child, I would puruse it the following way:

Make the doctor(s) write down what they suspect it is, explain it in plain English until you understand, and make suggestions on the best course(s) of action, specialists, etc. Demand that your doctor(s) give you a place to begin your research. If they need time to get a place, give them some time, but stay on them for the information. In the meantime, begin searching the internet for any and all information you can find that MAY be relevant to your child's condition. You will begin to understand medical jargon in time, but until such time, print out two copies of the article(s) and information. Take your information to the doctor(s) and give them a copy. If they don't have time to read it and explain it in plain English right then, ask them when they can give you the explanation as you will be continuing to search and need to know which direction(s) to continue in. If the doctor(s) are not appreciative of your efforts, research a new doctor or team of doctors. Let these medical professionals know that you will be part of the team helping your child, so they had best be prepared to help you in your quest. Most importantly, you are your child's best hope. There are health care professional out there who will work together with parents for the best interest of the child. Unfortunately, it can take something close to a miracle to find them, and in a case like this, it is vital.

Most of all, remember to seek support for yourself. We all tend to give everything we've got to our kids and forget to take care of ourselves, mentally, emotionally, AND physically. If you have nothing left to give, who's going to be there for your child? The best advice I ever received was: "In the event of an emergency, put your oxygen mask on before helping your child." When asked why, the flight attendant responded, "If you pass out due to lack of oxygen, you can't very well put your child's mask on at all. Can you?" It's hard BUT required.

Good luck to you and yours. If you need someone to just listen, you know where to find me. I am more than happy to help in anyway I can.

Hugs!
T.

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