Help! My 6Yr Old Is Jealous of the 1Yr Old and Is Acting Out!!

Updated on September 22, 2008
B.H. asks from La Vergne, TN
23 answers

My husband and I have two beautiful children. A very active 6yr old girl and a happy 1yr old boy. We did not plan on having such a huge age difference. After 2 miscarriages, we decided not to try any more. About a year after deciding not to try again, we got pregnant again! we did not tell my daughter until I was about 6 months or so along because I was having some complications. When we told her, she was very excited. Only recently, since his 1st birthday, she has started really acting out. She gets mad and starts screaming and yelling, throwing things, and stomping her feet. She also talks ALOT. I mean ALL the TIME! And usually about nothing. I swear she talks to hear the sound of her own voice! She is not listening, and we have tried everything! We have done time out, grounding her from her toys, tv, I swear we have tried everything! We are at a loss what to do. I try very hard to make sure that we have 1:1 time, and take time to listen when she wants to tell me something. Just the other day, she drew a picture with 3 hearts, and wrote "Mom, Dad, Alyssa". When I pointed out that she forgot to put Zach on it, she said that she wanted to remind me that it used to be just the three of us. Any help you can give me would be greatly appreciated. I am almost at my wit's end!!

What can I do next?

  • Add yourAnswer own comment
  • Ask your own question Add Question
  • Join the Mamapedia community Mamapedia
  • as inappropriate
  • this with your friends

So What Happened?

Thank you so much for all of the great advice. I am sorry that it has taken me so long to post what had happened! We have started giving her "alone" time, for now, not much has changed, but we shall persevere, and hopefully things will improve.

Featured Answers

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

L.R.

answers from Austin on

I thought i'd mention this if you're interested. I just started reading Playful Parenting by Lawrence Cohen. It is great and I have already started appling some of the ideas and they have worked. I have a 2 yo who gets the fusses and tantrums when I spend time with my 9 mo.
I can already see how it has helped and i'm only a couple chapters into it, most of all I noticed because my husband said something to me. He knew I was reading the book but didn't know what it was about. He could see how my reactions and actions toward the kids have changed and helped defuse situations. The books idea is for all ages and I highly recommend reading it.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

A.A.

answers from Grand Rapids on

We did this to prevent jealousy when I was expecting my secound child. This was his baby and he was a big brother. We emphasized how important he would be as now he was no longer the baby, and how he could be helpful. This would be a good base to build on with a few adjustments I should work. Good Luck!

A.

More Answers

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

L.C.

answers from Nashville on

As a mom of 4 who goes through this from time to time, (and I grew up with a sister who was 9 yrs younger than myself) I've come up with the following conclustion.
Your daughter needs time alone with you and her dad. She misses having your full attention and is craving it. Just iike you and your husband need date nights to get back to the relationship you are continuing to build upon, she needs to know that she is just as precious to you as she was before the baby came. It's an adjustment to learn to share your parents, especially when no matter how hard you try to tell them this it only ends in trouble for her.
Try to make time to take her with you on errands or shopping trips. Make an unexpected stop at her favorite restraunt or park. Maybe you can plan a trip to an amusement park without the baby. The baby wouldn't remember the trip or ever know that he wasn't included. This phase she is going through is really more about her self worth and she needs your help re -establishing her value in the family. It really won't take long to fix this, but it is going to take work.
I'd also help her see that the baby belongs to her too. Occassionally allow her to chose which outfit he will wear. Let her choose some of his snacks or foods in the grocery store. It's the little things that add up and build a strong family.
Good luck and God Bless,
Lora

3 moms found this helpful

J.L.

answers from Clarksville on

Hi B.,

I'm sorry your daughter is feeling this way towards her little brother but it's okay. I would start by giving your daughter some extra attention, set limits & clear expectations, follow through with consequences and remember this will pass.

I think it's great that your daughter is drawing for you exactly what she is feeling. She's remembering a time when it was just the three of you. A time that was happier for her. This is no way means that she doesn't love her brother, she's just recalling a better time for her. Validate her feelings and let her know that you love her.

I remember reading once in a sibling rivalry book about a comparison of bringing a newborn baby home to a sibling and a husband bringing a new wife home to meet his wife. Imagine how you would feel if your husband came home one day with a new wife that was smaller, cuter, funnier, more fun to be with, etc. I know I wouldn't take well to a new wife sharing the household with me, not to mention all the attention that the new wife would get. That's similar to what your daughter is feeling. She was the only and now she's sharing the spot light with her little brother. Be gentle with her and reassure her that you love her.

Hugs,
J.

3 moms found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

T.C.

answers from Nashville on

There is a great book out there called The Room in my heart by
Beverly Evans
This a story about how God builds a new room in Mommy's heart for each person in her life-This is a GREAT book.

http://www.amazon.com/Room-My-Heart-Beverly-Evans/dp/1929...

I found mine at a Christian bookstore for around $10

Also instead of her thinking she has to compete for attention have you tried letting her pick out your son's clothes for the day or get a diaper, help with the bath. Tell her how much she can do that he can't do. We also do Daddy dates where my husband takes my oldest daughter out once a month and does something special.
I would also tell her how sad it makes you, daddy and Jesus that she does not put Zach into her family. Tell her what it means to be selfish. Ask her how she would feel if you did not include her in your picture. Then remind her that is how Zach feels. She has a very important job as a big sister. She has to teach Zach how to play with blocks, how to do puzzles, read books, fingerpaint, swing, slide, eat chicken nuggets, french fries-Whatever you can think of that Alyssa likes! And that she is the only one who can teach Zach to do those things. Also remind her that in a few months Zach will be big enough to be a playmate to Alyssa!

2 moms found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

S.D.

answers from Nashville on

My daughter is in a family of 3 brothers. She had been the youngest child for 8 years when her brother was born. She had a tough time with it too. Now we do things just the two of us and we call it Mommy KK Time. She will say to me, "I need some Mommy KK Time." We take a walk, go out to lunch, go shopping.

I have told her since the day the baby was born that she is his wonderful big sister. When she gets frustrated with him I say, "I know you are frustrated with him honey. But, that baby is crazy about you. You are his favorite!" I also tell her all the time that she is extra special because she is the only girl in our family.

Your daughter just needs to know that she is loved and special too. Punishing her for having normal natural jealousy will not help the situation. In her little head she is probably blaming her little brother for her being punished. You may actually be making the situation worse by punishing her.

She needs reassurance that you love her. She needs to know that nothing has really changed. You and her dad still love her as much as you always did. She showed you through the picture that she drew that she needs that from you.

Sometimes it helps to visually show a child what you are talking about. Love isn't like a bowl of candy that you run out of when you give it away. Love is like elastic that just keeps stetching with each new child that you add to your family. Show her a piece of elastic and show her how it stretches. Tell her that your love for your children stretches like the elastic. Help her to understand the concept that love grows with each child you have.

Now not only does she have your love and her dad's love, she also has her baby brother's love. Make it a cool thing to be a big sister. Praise her for what a great big sister she is. Pretty soon she will forget that she ever had those feelings about her little brother and she will start being a wonderful big sister to him.

One last thing. She may be at the talking all the time stage. Or she may be talking all the time because shes doesn't think you are listening. Try using reflective listening with her. She says, "Mom this is my favorite movie." And you say back to her, "Alyssa, why is this movie your favorite?" Reflect back to her what she just said to you and then ask her a question about it. You just validated that you are listeing to her and that what she says to you is important enough for you to ask her a question about it. Again, I think she is just trying to get affirmation that she is still the center of your universe. Give her that affirmation. She needs it.

1 mom found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

S.S.

answers from Charlotte on

Hi B., I have an almost 6 yr old son, and a 'just turned 1 yr old' daughter, and have had some of the same issues. Try telling your daughter how much she knows that she can teach her brother, and that it will be up to her to be the 'big sister' and always keep an eye on how/what her brother is doing. Make her feel needed and helpful by asking her to help do 'big girl' things like helping to fix dinner (cutting up 'extra' vegetables, stirring things, etc.) Remind her how much stuff she knows and gets to do that her brother doesn't know and can't do yet. And try to find out if there is something in particular that is really bothering her. For my son, he finally told me that he didn't think that I loved him as much as I did when it was just him, that some of my love for him I gave to my daughter. Once I explained about how much love I had for both of them and how special HE would be for always being my first and my only son (and my daughter would be my last child, and only daughter) he was much better. I think the biggest thing is to make your daughter feel important and helpful and needed. Good Luck!

1 mom found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

V.C.

answers from Wheeling on

Instead of disciplining her for 'acting out', try making a big fuss when she does something helpful. If kids can't get noticed for being good, they'll make sure they get noticed for SOMETHING! Play this to your own advantage! I know sometimes it's hard to find something to 'praise', but find something positive that she does and bring lots of attention to it. Should help almost immediately -- not only her behavior, but your own attitude! (I'm 50 w/4 grown kids and 3 little 'grands', and I still have to keep learning this lesson over and over! LOL)

God bless!

1 mom found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

A.S.

answers from Huntington on

My son just turned 5 and I have a 7month old daughter. He has his good and bad days with dealing with the new arrival. He absolutely loves her but he does act out now that she's here. Some days I say to my self "who is this kid" But, it has gotten better ever since he spends time with me and his dad with out our daughter. Like I'll take him to the movies or something like that for few hours once a week with out his sister. That seems to work really well, so you might try that if you haven't already. Try to be consistant with the punishment and give her the time she needs and you should see a diffirence, it might take awhile, but be patient. Good luck!

1 mom found this helpful
Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

E.C.

answers from New York on

I think both parents should spend "alone time' with the 6 yr old once a week to comfort her and make her feel secure. Doing things alone that she likes -like going to the movies or painting will make her feel special and give her a chance to talk about her feelings without baby distractions. It works!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

D.L.

answers from Seattle on

Hi B.,, I'm sorry that he she is acting out,, yes she is jealous,, and that can be fixed with time and love and patients,,, give her baby detail,, meaning,, getting things for the baby,, checking his pants for a surprise,, telling mommy when he it wet,, or the other, # 2,,,, getting and picking out clothes for the baby,, feeding him,, washing him with mommy at bath time,, letting her help out with him,, will help her a lot,, just include her an a lot of his daily activities,, try that,, D.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

M.P.

answers from Portland on

I didn't see your post earlier. I saw it tonight because MamaSource posted your "what happened."

I agree that alone time is important and should help your daughter feel more secure and loved.

I think that letting her express her feelings and telling her that whatever she is feeling is OK is just as important. My 8 yo granddaughter is jealous of her little brother, age 5, in part because he has speech difficulty and may be on the broad spectrum autism disorder. He naturally gets more attention than she does. And he's angry and often hits her. They've developed a hit back sort of routine. Their mother just tells them to knock it off and frequently defends her son by telling her daughter that she started it. I've been there and seen it the other way around or to be more mutual.

When my granddaughter and I are alone we talk about how angry both she and her brother are. I tell her it's OK to be angry but not to hit. suggest over and over for her to use words. Say, "I'm so very angry!" And she does tell me that but it doesn't work so well with her brother because he doesn't have understandable words to deal with his anger.

My granddaughter has always talked non-stop. I do think this is a way of getting attention but I think it's more about her having so many interests and ideas in her head and she needs to talk to process them. She asks a lot of questions and makes a lot adament statements. I see this as her way of feeling like she has some power in her life.

Back to your situation. Screaming and yelling is a way of expressing her anger. I'm a screamer even tho I've worked at stopping it for years and years. At my daughter's house she tells which ever child that is screaming that she doesn't want to hear it, that she knows that they're angry but they have to go to their room until they can be calm again. The child doesn't get punished for screaming. After the child has calmed down my daughter then talks about what had angered them so much and suggests that they can come to her before they get that angry. Unfortunately my daughter isn't able to follow thru on the last statement. She is a single mother working full time and trying to have an adult social life.

When I'm with them, I listen to their exchange and try to intervene before the anger gets so intense. Sometimes I just get each one playing by themselves. Most of the time I've given up on trying to mediate a solution. I do tell each child that I can see that they're angry; therefore it's time to do something else. If they continue to fight over a toy I put the toy up so that neither one plays with it.

My focus is reassuring both children that it's OK to feel angry, frustrated, sad etc. and I give them an opportunity to talk about it. I usually do this separately because my grandson is chronically frustrated because he can't clearly talk about it. With him I listen and even tho I don't understand what he's said I guess at how he's feeling and ask him if that's right. He either nods his head or shakes it. If he shakes it I guess another feeling. We either find out what's bugging him or he loses interest and goes back to playing by himself. I hold both children while we have this talk. With my granddaughter that means waiting until she is calm.

In summary, if one child is angry at the other I separate them, hopefully before the anger gets out of control. I redirct their activities or I send them to seperate rooms. When the anger results in hitting, kicking, throwing before I'm aware I physically step in between them. When it's in the car I pull over to the side and tell them we can't continue until things are back in control. I often hand each one of them something to do. I've learned that playing a CD by the Back Yardigans can keep them calmer. Sometimes my grandson points to the CD's and I put it on. He's learning another way to handle his anger. The goal is to accept their feelings and help them learn new ways of dealing with their anger.

Since the younger child is one you'll need to be more basic with him. Seperation and redirecting will most likely be all that you can do for him. You can try talking with your daughter when it's just the two of you and both of you are calm. Make it a friendly and compassionate conversation about your understanding her anger and finding ways to handle it differently.

There may be other reasons for her jealousy than his actual presence. My grandchildren have several issues. One is his inability to communicated effectively with words while his sister is a talker. Another is that he has a father with whom he visits weekly. Her father is in AZ. She sees that she has to do school work and even tho he's in preschool he doesn't. The two of them have entirely different lives even tho they live together. I think this would be the case with a 6 yo having a 1 yo brother. Talking about the differences helps. Praising her for all that she can do and expressing sympathy that her little brother isn't old enough yet to do them should help.

When we tell my granddaughter she is the big sister she gets angry and frequently says she doesn't want to be the big sister. Just last year, at age 6 and 7, she curled up on my lap and sucked on her finger just as if she were a baby. I'd rock her and tell her she was my baby girl and always would be. Her mother would tell her to act her age which always back fires. She is feeling overwhelmed by her age. She needs times when she can be "a little baby" free from the responsibilities of being a big sister.

I adopted my daughter when she was 7 and she went thru this phase of wanting to be like a baby even tho she was my only child. She had a little brother who was placed in a different home. This illustrates how important it is to accept however our children are feeling and allow them to act their feelings out whenever it's possible.

This also means that we are allowed our own feelings and must find ways of working them out with another adult. It's natural to get frustrated ourselves. I give myself time outs from time to time. And talk my feelings over with friends. I also tell my grandchildren when I'm frustrated and approaching anger which means I'll start yelling. My granddaughter is finally learning sometimes to stop her antics when I say this.

I'm learning many things as a grandmother that I wished I'd known as a Mom. This site is wonderful in teaching me new lessons. I hope that my insights in my situation will help you find a way that works for you.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

L.T.

answers from Chicago on

Hi, was in the same boat we sought therapy. It has really helped!!!!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

M.P.

answers from Charlotte on

make her think that it is her baby . and that she is responeable for helping take cae of the baby .one on one time is good but youmight need to get someone to watch the baby so mom and dad and six year old can go to the park or have anight or afternoon out the way it was before .maybe tow times a month . but only if she is good .

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

J.P.

answers from Los Angeles on

B.,
I'm sorry but I just saw this request and wanted to add my advise. My kids are all 5 years apart, not planned, that's just when God gave them to us. My first was the one to get jealous, and she use to pray for God to give us a baby, So the day we brought the new sister home she asked me: Who do you love more? My heart about broke in two. I told her I loved both of them but for diffrent reasons. I loved her because she looked like me, she had beautiful blond hair that was straight, blue eyes, sweet personality, she was my #1 best buddy, and we had fun together. I then pointed out that I loved her sister because she was new and cute and little and that I missed feeling her wiggling inside me. I kept this list a lot smaller because I wanted her to see that I loved her a lot, but told her that as time goes by I would love new things about her sister too. She was okay with this for a few days then she asked me if I loved daddy more then her and I said: that's a diffrent kind of love so, ya. My heart loves daddy alot because I married him to love me forever and ever, my heart loves you tones but also knows that one day you'll grow up and find someone else to love more then me, someone to love you forever and ever. So it's not that I love him more it's that I love him diffrently. I asked her if she loved me the same as daddy and then me as much as grandma, so that she would understand you can love others but diffrently. This seemed to work I did allow her to help with the baby alot, and tried to do alot of things just for her, like make cookies, or finger paint. Things babies can't do this gives you one on one and time to only pay attention to her.

It does pass, (not really) you just move on to a new problem. But try to listen more to what she is really saying or asking, sometimes when we speak the wrong words are coming out and it's not really what we mean it's more the frustration coming out. Example: How many times do we say things we don't really mean, and once there said the other person can't get past it because, (that's what you said). Even though it's not really what you ment to say.

When you see her get mad or start acting this way stop her and ask her: What can we do to make you feel better right now? Will the tickle monster work, and start tickling her, if that don't work then move on to the rolly polly monster (which is when you both lay on the floor you climb on top of her and start rolling to the other side of the room and back) or the kissing monster (where you pick her up and kiss her from head to toe and flip her over and kiss the back side back up to her head). This gives them a couple minutes to get loved and attention, and they usually forget why they were mad to begin with. And soon your little one will be waiting in line for his turn. Good Luck with this. Hope it helps! Remember it can always get worse so be greatful for the little things. Your Friend J. P.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

M.C.

answers from Stationed Overseas on

I'm sorry I have not kept up with mamasource lately so I hope you don't mind this late post.
I have 3 boys and never had this problem at all. I made my older child very much a part of everything that went on with "our" baby. from the very first tummy kick to changing diapers, bathing and feeding, the older child was right in the middle of it all. I continously told him what a great help he was with HIS baby brother and how wonderful he is and of course how much I love him and the new baby. He got to hold his baby brother and bathe and feed him (with assistance of course!). While the baby slept we did special activities that he got to pick. I'd also seek him out just to hug him and tell him that I loved him. Now as teenagers, they are very close, and the oldest still does a lot for his younger brothers. There is a big age gap between the 2 oldest and the 3rd boy but the 2 teens made every thing easy on me by helping out tremendously and continue to spoil their little brother.

Good luck and just know that things will be ok

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

L.D.

answers from New York on

My oldest had similar issues with number 2. He talked nonstop. Sometimes it would make me crazy. A counselor advised me to tell him: "what you have to say is very important to me, but right now, I can't listen to you because (whatever is making you so busy). Please hold that thought and tell me in a few minutes when I can really listen." I had to repeat it to make sure he heard me, and then he listened. Telling him that he was talking just to hear himself talk made him feel even worse. Validating him for wanting to be heard made him feel better. Just make sure you take the time to listen in a few minutes. Otherwise, she will see right through you.
I also put my son on "safety patrol". I gave him a special bucket to pick up things that were too small for his sister to play with. He loved doing it and felt included. I set up special areas for him to play that the baby could not reach. Is there a closet that you could make her a special space in? On simply the kitchen table with big kid crafts?
Alone time is good, but working out how to be together is just as important. I talked to my son about refueling his love tank (the 5 love languages of children is a great book - helps ou identify what it is that your child needs to feel loved and whole, for some, time is not it). He would tell me when his love tank felt empty and I would take the time to help him fill it up again before he had a huge meltdown.
Good Luck!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

V.C.

answers from Albuquerque on

Wow - sounds tough. Have you asked her directly what she's looking for? Like when she told you about the three hearts picture. You could validate her emotional communication by saying something like - Wow, it seems like you are really missing the time when it was just the three of us. What do you miss most about then? Or something to that effect.

Also, does she get enough time taking care of her brother? Maybe drawing her in as a helper with him would shift her feelings. I am an oldest child, and I LOVED taking care of my younger brothers. I felt important and "big", and my mom was really appreciative, so I felt I was getting good attention from her, too.

Just some thoughts for you - wishing you the best as you sort through this.

V.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

K.H.

answers from Dallas on

I just saw this because of the "so what happened post." I too am having this problem. My son is 5 and my daughter is 14 months. I recently got off school for the summer (I am a teacher) and instead of things being better because I am spending more time with the kids...his behavior has gotten worse. He taunts his sister--not hurting her, but makes her mad all the time. Then he doesn't understand when she doesn't want him to hug her, and says she doesn't love him. He is also very clingy wanting to sit in my lap and hug and kiss me a lot. We try to give him special time, giving him jobs, praising the good, telling him that he is good when he is. We have also tried earning and losing privileges. However, he doesn't seem to care. He seems to want more attention no matter what. I too had several miscarriages between my two children, so there is a 4 year gap. Maybe he just got used to getting all our attention all the time.
I just wanted you to know that you are not alone, and if you find something that works, let me know.

K.--About me--Teacher in Richardson, Mother of energetic 5 YO boy and busy 1 YO girl. Finishing my grad degree this summer. Happily married to a good guy and great Dad.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

C.W.

answers from Charlotte on

Hi B.,

My kids have the same age difference between them. My 6yr old daughter is very jealous of my son (1yr) and acts out too. I try to let her help with him - like babysit (let him stay in her room with her for a bit but checking on them often). This seems to help. I am also having one issue right now that i'm wondering might be an issues. She has started wetting her pants and i'm wondering if she is acting out for attention. Have you seen this happen also? I'm also at my witts end. You're in good company.

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

B.C.

answers from Joplin on

B.,
My little ones are very spaced as well, I have a 13 month old son a 7 yr old daughter and a 12 and a half yr old son. I never anticipated that the 7 yr old would take it as hard as she has, nor would I ever have guessed my oldest son would turn into a super helper!

My daughter talks all the time too, but she did that before the "new baby" so I think that is just a girl thing! : )

The things that have worked for me are having her "help" with certain chores and giving her small monetary rewards that she saves in her penny bank for a special treat she can pick out herself. Her chores are helping to pick up the living room toys and helping get diapers or toss diapers in the trash ( really simple little things but I giver her lots of praise and let her know what a good helper she is)

Especially this summer when she is home during my youngests nap time we have been reading together and putting stickers on a chart for every book we read.

I have tried to find her art projects that we could do together.

It seems as long as she knows she gets "special time" too the problems aren't as bad...I have noticed our worst instances are usually when visiting the grandparents who seem to give more attention to the "new baby" and if the baby is getting something and she isn't.

Take out baby pictures of your daughter and talk about all your fond memories of her when she was a baby.

Remind her of all the benefits to getting to be a big sister.

Good luck!!!
B. SAHM of 3 kids I wouldn't trade for the world

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

L.F.

answers from St. Louis on

Dear B. -- The one thing that is guaranteed to work every time is LOVE. It is very obvious that your daughter is feeling unloved, even though I am sure you DO love her. That is very obvious since you are looking for help! There is a wonderful book "out there" called the Five Languages of Love. Some children need different types of love, and this book helps you to find which kind can help your daughter most! Your daughter needs to know that you really HEAR what she is saying. Take the time to respond to her constant chatter in a way that lets her know that you do hear what she has to say! Then when she is constantly talking, ocassionally tell her that you need a quiet time for both of you. When quiet time is over, really listen to what she has to say, and remember that even though you may feel what she says is not important, she may feel that it is very important!Never forget that she is just a child!!

Smallavatar-fefd015f3e6a23a79637b7ec8e9ddaa6

M.S.

answers from Parkersburg on

im very sorry that you are going thrue this i kinda haad the same problem when i had my daughter .my son is now 9 and my daughter is now 2. what works the best for me is me and my husband take time out each weak and take turns spending alone time with the kids some times one on one and sometimes one with both kids and my son has eased up with his anger and jealousy good luck to you .hope this can help

For Updates and Special Promotions
Follow Us

Related Questions

Related Searches