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Help! "Morning Sickness" Is Taking over My Life.

I know that other people have been in this situation before. I just need some encouragement. So, I am 9-10 weeks pregnant. I'm on summer vacation from teaching. I wasn't sure if I was going to make it through the last couple of weeks of school before my morning sickness got so bad I couldn't stand it. Thankfully, I got through, but now, instead of having a summer with my 4 year old, I'm laying around feeling really weak and puny, struggling to keep food down. The doctor has prescribed two different meds for nausea, but one doesn't do anything for me and the other has side-effects. I was elated when the nausea went away with the 2nd medicine, but then as I continued to use it, my exhaustion was unbearable and I started getting sharp pains in my back that felt more like chest pain than a sore back. I'd rather just be nauseated than be hurting my body. Okay, so I'm not taking any medicine, but I am really DOWN with my sickness. I don't know how many more times I have the heart to say to my little boy, "Mommy just really doesn't feel good right now." He's getting tired of hearing it. Now, I was sick as could be with him for these weeks 8-14. I worked the whole time, though. I honestly don't remember how I did it. One of my biggest complaints is dizziness. I wasn't feeling dizzy until last week. That takes it to a new level of miserable. What should I do? My mom and my husband have been there for me like champions. I am so grateful for them, but I'm tired of being unable to function and play with my little boy. Is there a solution, or do I just have to wait it out?

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I was in the same position as you. I was very sick with my son, but managed full time school and work. This time, however, I was NON-FUNCTIONAL. The DIZZINESS was horrible. It was like I had severe motion sickness. I couldn't really eat much and lost weight. I tried everything from seabands to Zofran. The Zofran helped me not vomit as much, but I still felt horrible...plus it stopped up my bowel movements for the two weeks I took it. It didn't me feel better and I stopped taking it because it wasn't worth it. Preggie Pops did nothing for me. I did find that Ginger helped somewhat...Gingersnaps and REAL ginger tea.

I was miserable and I'm sorry to say it, but some people just have to wait it out. I am having a girl this time, so it explains why things have been different. I started feeling better by 14 weeks. Hang in there!!! Everyone tells you it will all be worth it in the end...and it will... but I will think LONG AND HARD about ever considering a #3. Good luck to you!

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Zofran didn't work for me. I vomited every day from the time I was 5 weeks pregnat until 3 days after I had my daughter. I even ended up in the hospital a few times. It sucked. I just tried different things...sometimes I could keep sweet tea down, other times nothing but mashed potatoes.
My "morning sickness" (mine was all day and at it's worst in the afternoon)didn't go away, but it did get better.
I know it must be hard for you to have to tell your four year old you can't play because you don't feel good. I wish I had more encouraging words for you. Just know that it will get better and it will go away.
I have heard lemon water & ginger snaps help. One thing that did help me a little was having pretzels or crackers on my night stand and eating a few before ever standing up in the morning.

Hi J.,
With my first pregnancy, I had HG (a very severe form of morning sickness) and lost 15 pounds by the time I was 9 weeks along. My midwife prescribed zofran and it worked wonders. (I was teaching at the time as well, and I don't know how I made it either!) You didn't say what pills you took, so maybe this is different. This pregnancy (I am 25 weeks along), I had minimal sickness and the only thing I did different was kept a regular exercise routine. I don't know if this helped, or if I just wasn't going to get sick this time around! Exercise does release endorphins so it might be worth while to try.
Good luck!
A.

I was in the same position as you. I was very sick with my son, but managed full time school and work. This time, however, I was NON-FUNCTIONAL. The DIZZINESS was horrible. It was like I had severe motion sickness. I couldn't really eat much and lost weight. I tried everything from seabands to Zofran. The Zofran helped me not vomit as much, but I still felt horrible...plus it stopped up my bowel movements for the two weeks I took it. It didn't me feel better and I stopped taking it because it wasn't worth it. Preggie Pops did nothing for me. I did find that Ginger helped somewhat...Gingersnaps and REAL ginger tea.

I was miserable and I'm sorry to say it, but some people just have to wait it out. I am having a girl this time, so it explains why things have been different. I started feeling better by 14 weeks. Hang in there!!! Everyone tells you it will all be worth it in the end...and it will... but I will think LONG AND HARD about ever considering a #3. Good luck to you!

I feel your pain. I chose not to take any medications because i didnt like the idea of unnatural substances in my body. what worked for me was a combination of saltines before getting out of bed, lime ginger ale, and lots of hard candy. its different for everybody but if you can find just the right combo you can find some relief. Also, just relax as much as you can, and try not to worry: it will get better. I didnt start getting over it untill 16 weeks... hang in there, and good luck!

Hi J.,
first of all not to terrify you, but have you had an ultrsound to see if it is a mutilple gestation. More than one baby higher hcg levels and increaesed nausea.second are you sure the side effects of back pain are related to the medication. I would like to no what drug it is. As an labor and delivery nurse i have never heard of an antinausea medication causing back pain. Have you tried to retake the drug? Also exhaustion could be from the fact that you are now pregnant and chasing another child when with your first pregnancy you were not. I just recently had baby number three and what helped me was lemons and or lemonade. Also eat before you feel to hungry. As far as the fatigue i suggest to take a nap when your son naps.do not lay around get up and get active.if all else fails speak with your md to see what else he/she recommends.

Girl, I feel your pain.

I had Hyperemisis Gravidarum with both of my pregnancies, even with a Reglan pump, I still vomitted.

I didn't have a choice, but to just ride it all out until the birth. ( I guess I did have a choice, but I didn't want to end my pregnancies, I love kids! I just realized that may have come out wrong when I said I didn't have a choice..I think you know what I mean right?)

Anyway, None of those all natural remedies worked for me, the only thing I could do, was wait until I felt good to eat. Or just eat what sounded good, even if it was healthy or not.

Only you can know what to do to make yourself feel better.

Also, having some help around does make a difference. Although they can't be there with you 24/7, a lot of days, I just had to wait it out. A lot of times, it was me and my 3 year old in the hospital while I got an IV of fluid for dehydration. (My hubby traveled a lot and some in-laws weren't very understanding)

I hope this helps, but do know that we all understand and have been there, done that.

Sorry, this is long, but severe morning sickness is very close to my heart.

Hi J. - I had morning sickness with both - the 1st one stopped at second trimester and then for some reason started back 3rd but only at night the whole time. My 2nd child I was sick all of the time - I wasn't allowed to take Pepcid AC only Zantac. I will tell you - I took Phenergan @ night and Zofran during the day and that helped alot. Good Luck to you!

J.,
I am so sorry that you're feeling so bad. There is nothing worse than throwing up all of the time and being exhausted on top of it. With both of my pregnancies I threw up the entire time, all the way until the end. I drank alot of ginger ale, ate saltines. The other thing that made it more tolerable was before I even moved in the morning I would take a zofran and eat a cracker. I would then just lay still for about 10-15 minutes. I know this sounds extreme but it did help. I also tried sucking on hard candies-lemon drops worked. I'm a nurse too and I've never heard of anti-nausea meds causing back pain. I would try the meds again. As far as your dizziness-are you standing up too fast? Are you drinking enough? Keeping down any food? All of these things could contribute to dizziness. I was also taking 2 different anti nausea meds. I would take reglan every 6 hours and zofran every 6 hours. I would just alternate them. Hopefully your nausea will end and you will be able to enjoy the rest of your pregnancy! I know it stinks but you can do it! Don't worry about your son. He's probably perfectly fine with just laying down in the bed with you watching a movie. That's what I did w/my dd last summer. She turned 4 and did very well w/me being on bedrest. It doesn't take away feeling guilty but...it is only a temporary situation and I promise, he won't be scarred for life :-} pm if you need to talk. M.

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