S.K. asks from Liberty, TX on August 31, 2008
Help! Is It Hormones????
I am 40 years old. I have always been pretty easy going but it seems like as I get older, I have moments when I just snap and can be really ugly to people or I get really angry over things that normally wouldn't bother me. It isn't everyday. I'm still pretty laid back most of the time but I'm afraid it is going to get worse. Could it be hormones? Has anyone else gone through this? What helped??
Thanks!
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P.B. answers from Tyler on August 31, 2008
I do this at times (33yo). I think the only thing that really helps is to just scream into a pillow and then get some chocolate (the GOOD kind like Silk or Dove).
While it does not really change anything, it just has a way of making you feel like you just got away with something. LOL
I hope it helps (or at least gives you a good laugh).
Blessings,
P. <><
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J.B. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
I had twins at the age of 41! I noticed the same thing when my kids were about 1 yrs. old. I shouldn't have been so upset when they touched something.......I asked my gynocologist for a medicine to help. He prescribed just what I needed. I've NEVER been depressed, just a bit up tight as you said. I call it my "happy" pill & look forward to taking them every day, even 2 yrs. later! Try it! J.
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L.W. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
Most likely hormones are part of the picture. If you are a busy Type-A personality and have worn yourself out over a long period of time, you may also be in the midst of adrenal burnout. This means your body's "fight or flight" responses have been over taxed and your throttle is stuck on wide open. In more medical terms, you could have a severe drop in the critical neurotransmitter levels, such as seratonin, that your body needs to stay healthy and in balance. After your body runs out of seratonin (the feel-good neurotransmitter) it goes to running on adreneline. When that's gone, you start living on cortisol (a stress hormone) At that point, you start really becoming symptomatic. This is a cause of clinical depression and makes you feel like you're exhausted with your finger in a light socket. Depending on how burned out you are, you may need help to restore these levels through supplimentation or meds to get you back on track for the long term. Now having said all that - don't freak over the word "depression". It doesn't necessarily mean there is a mental or emotional "bad thing" going on in your life and you aren't crazy. You can burn out doing all wonderful stuff too...just like eating too much ice cream will make you sick. To come full circle with this explaination, your thyroid controls the hormones that affect your body's neurotransmitter production. The stage of life you are in, by it's very nature, is a time which predisposes women to have difficulty in this area. Give yourself a break, find a doctor that can check your thyroid, your hormone levels and your adrenal function. Then you will have the info you need to address and treat the problem. Good news! The solutions are pretty simple and not wildly expensive, but you need to know specifically what to address or you will just cause more problems - which you don't need. Balance here is the key. Good luck! ...and take a break, mama.
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P.B. answers from Tyler on August 31, 2008
I do this at times (33yo). I think the only thing that really helps is to just scream into a pillow and then get some chocolate (the GOOD kind like Silk or Dove).
While it does not really change anything, it just has a way of making you feel like you just got away with something. LOL
I hope it helps (or at least gives you a good laugh).
Blessings,
P. <><
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D.S. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
Yes girlfriend- You probably dont take any time for yourself- You need to do that- even 1/2 hr a day- with a book- a cup of tea- just yourself I used to think it sounds selfish b/c I am all about giving time for my family- but its not - its healthy.I got caught in that- it could be a combination of things- but now I have the hot flashes and I am going to try this product from Soma Life. I have heard a lot about it and think it may help me out. Of course keep up with the vitamins and all and stay away from prescription drugs. I am going to consult with my friend Debbie to find out more about this product, maybe you can give her a buzz as well. She swears by it-Maybe you and I can compare notes later on-lol
but yes take time for yourself and know that its ok to do that. also- i learned to not answer right away - I take a few more minutes to think about the situation which helps me diffuse.
Good luck and feel free to email me-
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E.C. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
S.,
I wish I could be of more help, but I just wanted to write and tell you that you are not alone.
My PMS episodes have progressively gotten worse. Some months I am an absolute BEAR to be around. My kids know to stay away from me. How sad is that?! Some months, I am fine - other months though, WATCH OUT!
I have suspected some issues with hormones for quite a few years now. My bad behavior also seems to be accompanied by heart palpitations. I don't know exactly what it is, a hormonal imbalance, electrolyte imbalance, or a MENTAL imbalance :)! I feel crazy for one to two weeks out of the month.
I know people say this all the time, and when you hear it, you want to cram it down their throats, but I have found when I exercise regularly, none of this happens. In fact, I have just started exercising *again*, for about a month now, and the only PMS symptom I had was an urge for chocolate. Not much more than that. (Of course, my family might say something else...)
Anyway, I would agree 100% that hormones are to blame. You can talk to your doctor, but good luck getting them to listen on this one.
I think "hormones" should officially be changed to "horrormones".
E.
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L.S. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
Tell me about it. What you wrote sounds like me last week. I have also have horrible breakouts that I never had when I was a teenager. My periods have also gotten heavier than when I was younger. PMS is horrible with very wide mood swings that were not my usual when I was younger. When I have asked around, all the ladies older than me (I am 37..almost 38) have said it is my hormones changing. Other than that I can't think of what it could be. If you are really concerned go to the doctor for a well woman's visit. I plan on talking to my doc at mine this month. But I already know what he will tell me.......hormones. Nothing much to do but warn the hubby not to breathe to loud. Usually once my period starts, I feel like a balloon that has lost all its air. Drained, but no longer tearful, angry or irritated. Feel like my old self. But that week prior, I feel like I could scratch hybby's eyes out, bbq them and feed them to the dog, and then kick him in the shin.
Hope you find something to help. I will check back and see what others had to write.
Good luck,
L.
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C.A. answers from Dallas on September 09, 2008
S.,
Welcome to the joy of turning 40! I am 41 and I have premenopausal symptoms too. I am moody, have night sweats, HOT flashes, can't sleep, irritable at the drop of a pin somedays, cry for no reason, bloated, loss of appetite, etc. I have seen my doctor and they checked my hormone levels and they look ok but I had a partial hysterectomy so I am taking the guess that this is premenopause.
Some women I have talked to said it gets worse. OMG I don't see how it can get worse but I guess you have to go through it. I did try hormone replacement but it was not really that helpful. Somedays my symptoms are ok and somedays they are terrible.
I do find I try to take some quiet time just for me more often and I have started having a glass of wine a few times a week at night to help me sleep and relax.
I wish you the best of luck. I believe it can be hormones, I am not a doctor or an expert but from my experience... it really sounds like it is.
hope you feel better and remember to put YOU first.
C.
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P.F. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
Sounds like hormones, menopause or "peri-menopause" begins late 30's early 40's depending on your family history. But I know plenty of people who it turns out the issue is pregnancy? But baring that ordeal it sounds like menopause - it's tough, it really is, but if you are already aware of changes you can maybe learn what leads up to it and avoid it? good luck to you, this too will pass and the up side is that once it's over, life is good ageain!
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M.B. answers from Dallas on September 01, 2008
Yes, it is quite likely hormones. As women approach menopause (which can take 10-15 years to really reachtowards the late 30's/early 40's ), our hormone levels tend to go from low to high fairly dramatically, since the hormones balance one another. For example, if you have low progesterone (very, very common), then Estrogen is not balanced and that can put you on edge. Also, women do have testosterone and it can be high for us and cause the anger.
I don't at all recommend treating yourself with OTC hormone creams (or any other product that can impact hormones), without first having them measured and working with a medical professional. It is possible to get too much of a good thing (e.g., progesterone) and that can negatively impact your liver, as well as imbalancing other hormones. And, we are all different in terms of how our bodies handle the various hormones. For example, DHEA can get converted to estrogen or testosterone. For me, it goes straight to testosterone and it makes me angry like you would not believe. Here's a good overview of the hormonal pathways - it is fairly complex:
http://www.biodia.com/TechnicalCharts/SteroidalHormonecha...
You can get these tested on your own, however, and then take the results to a doctor:
http://www.canaryclub.org/content/view/277/97/
You have to register, but it is free. This was setup by an MD who was just seeing so many women that were having these issues and couldn't get a doctor to listen or test anything (most docs will tell you this is "normal" and "get used to it"). And, most mainstream doctors are clueless about the importance of using bio-identical hormones. Adding the synthetics is where you get into trouble (e.g., the correlation of the synthetic estrogens with heart disease).
The best DFW doctor I know that will treat with bio-identical hormones is Dr. Margaret Christensen:
www.christensencenter.com
She treats only women and having been and OB/GYN for years and being the mother of 4 kids and having been through perimenopause herself.
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