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HELP!!! I Have Head Lice, Omg!

I am SO grossed out! This has NEVER happened to me or my children but suddenly...BAM! I have no idea where or how I could have gotten it. The only thing I do know is that about a month ago I started itching and I chalked it up to having a dry scalp from all the hair product I use. Anyway, today there was no mistaking it...my 15 year old found a live one on me! ewwww! Here's the weird part: my husband has none, my older daughter has none, but I did find some on my younger daughter. Please help! For all this time my head has rested ALL OVER my house and so has my youngest daughter's. I don't have the faintest clue what to do first! And what do I do about all the pillows and sheets and couches, etc? Do I HAVE to throw out all my pillows? I did read that vacuuming is effective on furniture, mattresses, etc. and simply putting bedding and pillows in a hot dryer for 30 minutes does the trick. Anyone try this? Also, what should I do so that my husband and older daughter stay clear of this? I'm really at a loss so any advice or previous experience is GREATLY appreciated.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you all you wonderful moms! All your advice was so appreciated!

It was a looooooooong weekend! Thank goodness my mother had just come for a visit on Friday so she was able to gather all the bedding and pillows and crank out all the laundry while I was dealing with my younger daughter's hair. My older daughter also helped my mom and vacuumed all the mattresses, furniture and floors in the whole house. They were absolutely my saving grace! I ended up using the otc lice shampoo on my younger daughter. She was LOADED!!! When I rinsed out the shampoo, the dead ones just poured out like crazy! After that, I had to put vegetable oil in her hair because her hair is so thick and it was so tangled I couldn't get the comb through it. Combing through the eggs and nits was the biggest ordeal. It took more than 7 hours to get through her head! The eggs were just all through her hair: scalp, middle, ends! I pulled thousands, so these things had to be in her hair for quite some time. I do not know how she managed to go more than a month without scratching like crazy or even COMPLAINING about being itchy and bless her heart for sitting so still for so long while I got out all those eggs. By the end of the night I had still not done anything with my head and knew there was no time to do both the shampooing and combing of my hair so to preserve all the cleaning that had been done in the house, all I did was use the lice shampoo on my head (surprisingly no dead ones came out) and then, as an extra precaution, put the mayo in my hair, wrapped it in plastic wrap and then used a shower cap to sleep. How wonderful it was to not itch!!!! I don't know if the mayo had any effect, but all it did do was make my hair very dry, coarse and tangly so I rinsed it out and used the vegetable oil again so that I could get the comb through my hair. So, Sunday was spent combing out my hair and apparently I was loaded with eggs too since it took about 5 hours to get through my head.

Again, thank you all for taking the time to be so helpful and comforting. I'm going to copy all the responses to Word so I can keep them for future reference! God bless and have a wonderful week.

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It's really not so big a deal. My mom always said it's no sin to get lice, but it is a sin to keep them. No danger of that, right! LOL

Put stuffed animals, pillows, clothes, etc in the hottest dryer setting like you said or else close them in airtight (not drawstrings) garbage bags for 2 weeks.

Use a pesticide spray on bedding.

Shampoo each family member with Rid or an equivalent.

Spray combs and brushes or wash with boiling water or the same (pesticide) shampoo.

If you don't get them all the first time, repeat!

You'll live!

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There's a website that has tons of home remedies, and you can do a search for lice - I know I've seen remedies there, such as the mayo... it is the peoplespharmacy.com. Good luck!

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Hey N.,

I think the mayo thing is a great idea! I have heard it before on the show 'The Doctors' and since an RN on here suggested it as well, I would say it will work! Don't mind the nasty posts.....

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Glad it is going well for you. First my experience and then some follow up advice. I thought we had dodged the "lice bullet" after years of hearing about them going around pre-school, elementary school, neighbors' houses, etc., and then -- oh no -- our daughters picked them up at an overnight camp where all the kids slept with heads in the middle ... I panicked and was up til past midnight upon initial discover (our friends whose daughters passed on the lil critters called me to check, and sure enough -- we had them). I never used any otc products like Rid, etc. as I had some very good resources re non-toxic approaches to lice here in Davis, and also found additional good online resources. Also heard from others with lice experiences that RID doesn't really get rid of lice -- at least not the eggs/nits -- only the hatched nymphs and adults. And even some of the hatched ones seem to be developing some resistance, I hear.

What we did that worked: shampoo with mixture of shampoo and tree tea oil & eucalyptus and rosemary, then mayonnaise on hair for 1 hour or a bit more under plastic shower cap or plastic wrap. Then shampoo out hair, again with tree tea oil, and comb out afterward with nit comb. Tons come out. Then oil hair with mixture of olive or veg oil, tree tea oil, eucalyptus, rosemary and pennyroyal (latter 3 all essential oils) -- be careful re both the shampoo and oil mixture that you don't use too much essential oils -- can burn the scalp (test them on your arm first -- oil is 2 1/2 T olive oil and 1/2 teasp. ea. of essential oils. THEN NITPICK -- I bought small metal hair clips and looked through, nitpicked and then clipped their hair 1 inch at a time, so I knew exactly what hair I had looked at already. Took hours. Used scalding/boiling hot water to dip nit comb in after each use. Picked out nits by hand that weren't combed out. Then sent girls to bed with oil mixture and scarf on their heads. Next day, same - shampoo, oil, nitpick. We laundered all their clothes and linens, pillows into dryer for 45 min., vacuumed, put all stuffed animals in garbage bags for a week, etc. We got rid of them all with no recurrance. Other friends using RID had to redo, repick, etc. -- but they relied too much on the OTC treatment and didn't do enough picking in the hair.

The second time it happened -- a year later -- I did much less to the house, and just focussed on the heads (did the linens and pillows, that is all). I read that the live lice can't live off a human for more than a day -- so really we're most concerned about the eggs/nits. And since usually kids don't get it from others unless there is head to head or hat to head contact -- unlikely they will get them from furniture. (I got them from lying in bed reading to my daughter and helping her get to sleep -- heads together and hair entwined...) Second time we were clean fairly quickly. Still a number of hours nitpicking, but not nearly the panic, and no otc toxics. I have my little "lice kit" now that I pass on to friends and neighbors in need. I do recommend the lice meister nit comb -- it was much better than the combs I bought at the drug store, though I used 'em all. Another tip is if you have a good black light -- (I forget the formal name), nits will glow a bit in some hair. And I found sunlight helped me see them much better in my youngest's golden blonde/brown hair.

Finally -- a good preventive is coconut oil. It is sort of looks like the old crisco that our parents used to cook with but more watery -- slather it on their hair and work it in. Lice do NOT like it -- can't breathe or attach well, so seem to avoid heads with it. We used it for outbreaks in pre-school and classrooms or friends who had lice -- the girls just looked like they had wet heads all day -- and it smells great! Good luck!!

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Lice went rampant through our elementary school last year. I bought the shampoo/conditioner/leave-in conditioner from Fairy Tales Hair Care and I LOVE it! It smells so much better than the tea tree oil shampoos and I continue to use it because it just a great job on my girls hair (one is thin and straight, the other is thick and curly). The products are all natural and they also sell the removal kit. The website is www.fairytaleshaircare.com. Good luck!!

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I didn't read through all the answers you have but I wanted to let you know something I have found out between our family dealing with it and working at a day care when a outbreak from school kids kept us all on our toes.

The over the counter stuff works on killing the lice but not desolving the eggs and that is why it says to wait 10 days and use it again. Nit combs are about the only way you can get rid of those little eggs and be sure they are gone, but you have to go through a few times to make sure you aren't missing any. Stuffed animals, pillows and bedding should be washed in hot water, if they can be in the water. If they can't be washed, put them in large garbage bags and tie it shut really tight then put them away for 2 weeks. Once you go through the hair and get the nits out, use hair spray or hair gel on the hair all the time since lice like clean hair shafts to stick their eggs too and the hair spray and gel makes it harder the the eggs to stick. I went as far as getting a carpet cleaner with an upolistry attachment and cleaned all my furniture with hot soapy water, carpets and don't forget the car seats.

Good luck

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I hope you read this - or others do...I just got over a case myself. I went to a professional nit picker - yes, they are out there! You need to realized that just b/c you did on comb through you (nad your daughter) are NOT done yet. You need to continue to do a comb through every other day for 2 weeks! The only way to truly get rid of lice is to break their life cycle. I used Nix and got a bunch of dead bugs - went to the pro the next day and they found about 10 more live lice! They are becoming immune to the shampoos. There could have been some so tiny you didn't get them and they will continue to mature over the next few days and lay more eggs. This is how people get re-infected so often - they do one comb thru and think they are done.

Also, the pros said you only need to use a thick white conditioner to do the comb through (they like Pantene). All the other 'cures' do not really work in the long run - you have to comb, comb, comb for 2 weeks to break the life cycle.

Good luck!

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N., the otc stuff is taking a risk - every child is different, but there are accounts of permanent brain disorders caused from it. I would stick with the non toxic ideas!

If you know anyone using Melaleuca products - their oil (commonly referred to as Tea Tree Oil) is the trick. It with a hot wet towel wrapped around the head causes the nits to burst...easier than the mayo type ideas.

Melaleuca's Natural Shampoo has far more Melaleuca oil it in than the store shelf brands, and it is a great preventative for the rest of the family without doing anything weird. Plus - WalMart Tea Tree Oil is not the strength or pharmaceutical quality of Melaleuca's.

Lice hate the oil and Melaleuca has it in a water soluble formula (Sol U Mel) that can be sprayed on *anything*...couches, pillows, toys, carpeting. I have had personal experience of using all this to prevent and get rid of the critters.

JoyBoudreau
www.joyboudreau.com

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EEks i'm itchy...
ok my mom used to put alcohol on our heads and wrap it up in a towel or shower cap...i don't know how "healthy" that is but it worked lol..and i'm ok.
the lady I take my daughters to for haircuts recommended "Fairytales"hairproducts http://www.fairytaleshaircare.com/catalog/displayCatalog....
it all has rosemary and stuff and it deters them from your hair... she told me you don't need all the products. the leave in conditioner is enough. i have started using it for my girls (almost 2 & 4) it smells good... best of luck.

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N.,

Don't panic!! Call the doctor for the perscription head lice killer for you and your daughter. Next, do put anything you can in the dryer, pillows stuffed animals etc. Bed linens and what ever else can be washed, wash it in the hotest water the material can take. Dry on hottest setting it can take. Go to the store and look for the spray that you can spray on the couches, beds, rugs etc. Follow the directions. After all of this, I am sure you will be exhausted because you have to do this all at once. Don't start and leave it for the next day otherwise you have defeated your purpose.

Now, when you use the perscription shampoo on you and your daughter, rinse well then re- rinse with a mixture of 1/4 vinegar to 3/4 water. This will help loosen the eggs from your hair because you have to comb them out very carefully to make sure you get evey last one. Save the comb and recomb your hair for several days just in case you missed some eggs or nits as they call them. Be careful for at least 3-4 weeks, check everyone daily and see if you can find the source of where you got them from so you can avoid it in the future.

Good luck.

E.

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I had a child care center and here is what I told my parents. Don't put poison on your children I gave them info from the best website out there.

headlice.org

When my friends kids and mine had it we sat for hours after washing their hair and sectioned off hair and combed and picked out the bugs, my friend just pulled the whole hair out with the nit on it. I bought a light at Staples that has a magification lense and a light so I could see better. Every day, for hours we sat with one kid or another on a towel in our lap.

Head lice are at epidemic levels because people just don't check oftern enough and they all have home remedies that don't work. Tea tree oil can be purchased and just a few drops put in your shampoo. So each time you wash your hair you are putting an oil into it that lice don't like.

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