Hi F.. Now I feel better! Thought I was the only one going through this. The way I took care of this problem is I bought all three of them hook earrings that actually have a lock in the back so they don't fall out. I think they are either 10 or 14K, I don't remember. I got them from The Piercing Pagoda. I think they were $50 per pair, but they always have this promotion where if you buy for $50, they give you a future coupon for $25 off $50, so I bought one pair, then went back in about two weeks and got the other. I am having a playdate with some of the moms on Monday September 29, at Westland Mall. My kids will be there if you would like to see their earrings. Let me know!