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Help!-Need Gift Ideas Under $20 for Parents!

OK, so in my family, we have a very strict rule about giving Christmas gifts. We don't spend more than $20 on anyone but the kids and our spouses. The rule was created by my mother-in-law after one insane Christmas...it's kind of a long story, but anyway...
So for our parents this year, we decided to get them each a framed and matted 5x7 professional picture of the boys and personalized coffee mugs with an adorable candid picture of the boys. Our parents are avid coffee drinkers. I ordered the mugs last week, but when I received them two days ago, they were printed completely wrong; they look awful. I contacted the company about getting new ones, but they said before they would print and ship them, they would have to receive the originals back from me. This will not give me enough time to get them to our families before Christmas, so I've decided to just get a refund. I'm very unhappy with this company. Now, my dilemma is what to get our parents. My Mom, I have some decent ideas for, but my in-laws are seriously the hardest people to shop for, especially with such a tight price range. They already own EVERYTHING! My husband is no help at all. Christmas when he was a kid basically consisted of his parents asking him a month before what he wanted, them going and getting it with him and then him unwrapping it on Christmas day. He always knew what he was getting; there were no surprises in their house. Last year, we combined his mom's and dad's amount and got them a $40 gift card to a restaurant, as they like to have nights out together eating out and gambling. When I asked my mother-in-law in April if they'd enjoyed the restaurant we got the gift card to, she casually informed me that they hadn't gotten around to using it. I know for a fact that they had been out on their gambling trips at least six times since Christmas. Well that's about it. If anyone has a good idea, I would sincerely appreciate it! Thanks.

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What about some type of craft project with the kids hand prints? The oldest child would probably enjoy it, the 4 month old...you never know!

This way when they are through with it, they just may give it back to you down the road. Then YOU have a memory from their childhood. Most grandparents I know love to receive home made gifts from their grandkids.

Search the internet for easy craft ideads. Also, Crayola crayons have their own website that has some GREAT ideas.

Merry Christmas!

Best Wishes,

J. H.

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My sister has a at home business where she can make candy wrappers with pics on them. candy cakes, paint cans with candy or what ever you would like. she is 30 minutes from north wichita. www.mandyscandywrappers1.com

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Books. I haven't seen that mentioned. You can buy a good book for under $20 or get a gift certificate to a book store. I always say if they are hard to buy for...buy a book. Everybody reads or does puzzles. Good Luck and Merry Christmas!

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I actually got this idea from my sister-in-law, she told me about how she wants to get my parents a calendar from Office Depot and they fill in each month with photos that you bring them. There are 3 things that I really like about this: 1. It is relatively inexpensive (I think she said that they were around $8) 2. As long as you have your order in by Dec 23rd, they can have it back to you by that evening 3. It's personal and unique, you desing the months yourself and they put it together. I don't know all of the details yet, but I plan on doing this for my in-laws this weekend for their gift.

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What about some type of craft project with the kids hand prints? The oldest child would probably enjoy it, the 4 month old...you never know!

This way when they are through with it, they just may give it back to you down the road. Then YOU have a memory from their childhood. Most grandparents I know love to receive home made gifts from their grandkids.

Search the internet for easy craft ideads. Also, Crayola crayons have their own website that has some GREAT ideas.

Merry Christmas!

Best Wishes,

J. H.

2 moms found this helpful

My sister has a at home business where she can make candy wrappers with pics on them. candy cakes, paint cans with candy or what ever you would like. she is 30 minutes from north wichita. www.mandyscandywrappers1.com

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Gather favorite family photos and take them to Kinkos. They have great ideas, like printing up personalized family calendars. You may want to have one made for yourself while you're there!

Also, there are places in some malls that can use a computer to scan, enlarge, and print photos onto shirts, hats, aprons, etc. They sell the shirts, etc, but you might ask if you can bring in your own material to have the photo printed on. You may be able to find a phone number for each local mall's info desk to see if they have such a store and then you can call the store in advance to see what might be possible for what price.

My grandmother had one of the sweetest things I had ever seen. When she got married and was moving away from her sisters and girlfriends she knew she would miss them. She had each of them put their signature on a square of material. Then she embroidered the signatures, sewed the squares together, and made what she called her friendship quilt. She told me that whenever she felt lonely for her friends and sisters, she would wrap herself in the quilt. As she got older and had out-lived all of them, that quilt became very precious to her. You can also accomplish the same sort of idea with ink and handprints. This could work on anything from pillow cases to table cloths.

I'm not suggesting you try to make a quilt in less than a week, but it might be possible to get pictures or signatures scanned and printed on pillow covers that can be hugged or something grandparents can wrap themselves in while they sip their coffee.

There are also places in most malls where you can get things engraved on the spot. Anything from inkpens to table-top photo displayers are usually available.

If all else fails, one of my favorite things is movie theater gift cards. You can get gift cards for things like The Science Center as well. You can give gifts for events like this along with a note letting them know that their grandkids have giftcards to match in case Grandma and Grandpa choose to use the cards for time with their grandchildren.

Then there are always gift certificates to the place that serves their favorite coffee.

Good luck, these are all the ideas that popped up for me.

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Hi T.,
I don't know what company you used, but I ordered Picture Mugs from Walmart.com and had them shipped to my local stop (didn't cost to ship that way) and they had them in about 3 days. But if you really want to do something else. Your boys are the perfect age to do casts of their hands, either separate or apart, you can buy a kit or the supplies at all hobby/craft stores and my mother cried when I gave her the one of my oldest daughters foot..... (my mother has a thing with babies feet). And just a hint you will probably want to make one for yourself. But with the ages, it would be so cute to have your 2 1/2 year old hold the 4 month olds hand and make a little statue. It is super simple, and non-toxic. And the kind of gift that you really can't put a value on. For and idea of what I am talking about check out.... http://www.castingkeepsakes.com/ But every hobby store I have been in even some walmarts carry the kits.

Good Luck and Merry Christmas

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All I did for my dad and my MIL was 4 5x7 pictures (I also used a photo editing program to add cool stuff) and put them in frames. Then I got those frames that say "I LOVE MY ....." and I put a picture of my girls in there. My MIL has everything too so she is very hard to shop for. I dont know what company you went through, but I know walmart does that kind of stuff, they put pictures on all kinds of things, so you could try that. Oh also walmart has these little digital photo frames. I think they are around $15 to $20. You load the pics on there and they can carry it in their wallet/purse. You could also go to walmarts website and go under "photo" and they have a link for "gifts under $20" ..... and they also have it to where you can have it by christmas ! Hope that helps .... good luck !

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I'm not sure if this was one of the responses, but this year my husband and I chose to do calendars of our two kids for our parents. I picked the pictures that I wanted, changed the names to the months of the year plus one for the cover, and burned it to a disk. Office Max had it printed in 24 hours. They were $8.89 a piece, since I got two. That was the deal last week. They aren't the greatest quality, but they're good enough. My kids are my parent's only grandkids, so that was easy. My husband's parents have one more grandchild, but they see her everyday. They live in Michigan, so they never see my kids. I did add one of my niece with my kids for the month of her birthday. Otherwise it's all my kids.
Hope you found something that helped you :) Have a great Christmas!

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How about a $20.00 gift certificate to where they get their hair done. Can do a gift card like visa where they can use it anywhere for anything. I get mine at the mall. My mother asked for a gift card for Wal-marts this year, she can use it for food or gas. How about a gift Certificate at a grocery store? Give her some postage and box of cards like thinking of you, get well etc to use. I as a grandma would like any of the above BUT anything from the grandkids would be great. Home made project, a picture (one set of grandkids I haven't had a picture of in years unless I take the picture) Good luck!

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