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Has Anyone Gone Thru a Foreclosure? Losing My Home.

I just got word that we didn't qualify for a modification. been trying for quite awhile. I lost my job and Husband retired early because of a bad heart. We been living in our home for 13 years. we missed 2 months worth. we are broken hearted, but kind of relieved, well I am, tired of juggling bills, scraping money for the little things in life, tired of just struggling since 2009.

We have 30 dys to respond to the deny letter, then they will start to foreclose.. wondering if they'll give us a month or two to leave the property. We have animals to find homes for. all of them have been with the house since the beginning.

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I will send you the name and number of two people who might be able to help it is not cheap. they are two different kinds of help you decide which will work for you

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The ladies have some good advise here. I agree with Chelle. Foreclosure is a process. Even if you lose your home, there is also an eviction process which will give you more time as well. Don't move until you have to. I do property inspections for Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac and deal with those that are in the process of foreclosure. The banks move quickly on vacant homes. They have PLENTY of them to deal with. As long as you are in your home, things will move slower. I also agree that you should continue to appeal but the modification process that the banks have set up is somewhat of a joke. VERY few get approved. Only those that keep appealing will see ANY results. I have been doing this for two years now and I am still doing inspections on some of the same homes I was inspecting when I started. Most of the people know me when I show up...I even had a lady invite me in for cookies last Christmas!

Hang in there. Life does continue...it's better for us now!

M.

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I had a mortgage approved for way too much money that I couldn't afford and got a house that ended up being a money pit and I just couldn't do it anymore. We were broke, our marriage was failing and it was the best decision I made walking away. It doesn't happen over night. Like y'all they supposedly tried to help us but we didn't qualify and had to pay about 4000 just to get it back in good standings. Ummm I don't have that kind of money! It was 11 months before the house was bidded on. They didn't even clean it out till after that was done. I don't know how long we could've stayed there because I wanted to go but I know it could of been at least 6 more months. Im sorry this is happening to you and im praying for y'all. I know how it feels my dear. Keep looking up love :)

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have you tried to file for bankruptcy so you don't lose the house?

I'm sorry you weren't approved for the loan modification...sucks...

My best friend has been working with Wells Fargo for 18 months on her modification - she was told no - didn't take no for an answer and has continually gone back to them and has made progress...yeah - it's a long time - but they would rather work with you than have to do the foreclosure thing - as they end up losing more money that way...and we know mortgage companies are all about money....

I totally get that you are struggling...please go to the library and check out Dave Ramsey, Suze Orman or some other financial guru to help you get your stuff together...you CAN do this!!!

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It took my husband and I 4 times of appealing the modification request we made before they approved it. Four times! It was a huge struggle. Don't give up. Appeal it as many times as you can and readjust your income and outgoing bills for the modification app. I am so sorry you all have to go through this. My husband lost his job back in January and we have been struggling too. We have only one vehicle and we can't make the payment. No buses run this way and we have two small children. America is in a mess for sure. I hope things get better for you all. I feel for you having to get rid of your animals. Don't give up on the modification.
Here is a website that may help you all.
http://obamamortgagereliefplanqualifications.com/mortgage...

Seems like all Americans are going to end up in the streets. These stupid banks get so much money to help us, and then they are being stingy and making it hard for us to receive the help. Ugh...Wishing you best of luck!

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Foreclosure is a process. Just because they denied your modification, doesn't mean you'll have to move out over the next few months. Some people I know have remained in their home 18-24 months before the process was actually completed or resolved at the last minute. (That's 18-24 months w/o having to pay mortgage and $$$ you can use for bills and daily needs.)

Also, look at HAMP https://www.hmpadmin.com/portal/index.jsp. It's a government program that offers modifications if your mortage company is a participant of the program. You should also look at your state's forclosure process for your state. http://www.foreclosure.com/statelaw_IL.html. Any documents you receive from the court, be sure to go on your scheduled court date as they may be able to assist you any further.

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We JUST got a home loan mod - it took over a year! You may have to keep working at it. We finally hired an attorney. It cost $1500. But it finally got the bank to do something. We literally got approved days before our home was to go on the auction block!!!
Loan Modification Specialist
The Law Offices of Phillip Evans
442 W Esplanade Ave Ste 102
San Jacinto, CA 92583
www.rapidbk.com
The bank required us to work with a credit counseling agency, they were quite helpful. They discourage the attorney route though. But they can explain the whole process to you as well as your options. Springboard Nonprofit Consumer Credit Management, Inc. (800) 431-8456
You might be better off to negotiate a short sale instead of letting them foreclose.
If you foreclose, it will be months. You say you've got 30 days. At the end of 30, they'll file a notice of default, that will probably buy you 90 days. At the end of that, it will go up for auction, that will probably be 30-60 days. Depending upon who buys it, an investor or a home buyer will depend upon how quickly you have to vacate. These are pretty much minimums. I've known people to stay a year or more. And, if you wait out the whole process, they'll usually give you several thousand dollars in cash to vacate the property in a timely manner.
If you want to save the house, then pay what you can each month. If you don't then pay off outstanding bills and save for rental deposits.
Good luck and God Bless!!!!

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Let me guess: Bank of America. I've known three people to go through this.

Go to a real estate agent. They help with this.

A friend went to a lawyer. The lawyer said that this is very common right now, and for the most part, there is little a lawyer can do.

Do go to YouTube and look up a video of a couple who were wrongly accused of defaulting on their loan (they has paid cash for the house). They got a lawyer who got an order to take the bank's assets in order to pay for the lawyer fees. It was in Florida.

I also understand that you get to stay for 18 months after the foreclosure.

Best wishes to you. You are not alone in this struggle.

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If I were you I would keep trying. Don't give up but it sounds like you want out anyway.

Why don't you take your animals with you to your rental or where ever you are going??

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