I have been going througth the same thing. we don't have any real concversations at all. all he talks about is the bussiness and don't get me worng i pay attention to all that he says i listen to him. But when it comes to talking to him about like for example something that one of the boys has done, he doesn't do much about it i sometimes feel like a singel mom. Any ways if i want to share something with him he will listen for a minute or so and then he changes to subject back to what he was talking about before. Like last time before bed time i told him that i wanted to give him something nice well you know. And he acted like it was nothign to get excited about. And did really even acknoledge (sorry can't spell) me. I try and tell him about something that intrestes me cause i want to share it with him and what does he do not lsiten to me at all. He had done this so much that I know talk to other men cause at least they listen. One is a really close friend of mine. I had told my husband to at least pretend that he was paying attention to lie to me i don't care i just want his attention and affection which he is not giving me at all. It has been like this for some time now. And well because of all this i cheated on him. Yeah i know not the smartes thing to do but well i wanted attention and well i got it.
I want to work things out with my husband but he would not even go to councelign with me. By the way we have two kids 6 and 3 i am 26 and he is 44.
been together for 6 going on to 7 years and got married last year.
there has to be a way to fix this with him or else i don't know what i am going to do.