24 answers

Growing Pains

I have a beautiful 5 year old girl that wakes up at least 2 xs a week (often more) with extreme pains in her shins.This has been going on for over a year. Some weeks are worse than others.Then there are times when we can go 3 weeks without an episode. It's heartbreaking that I can't "fix it" for her but also starting to take a toll on me. The only thing that seems to help is firm rubbing from knee to ankle. Sometimes it takes over an hour for the pain to stop so she can fall back to sleep. Dad says he had growing pains as a kid and this rubbing is the only thing that helps. Also that she will just have to grow out of it. Have 2 older boys that never experienced this. Otherwise VERY healthy!! ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED!!!!

What can I do next?

Featured Answers

Hello C.,

My son had the same symptoms and he was Dx. with legg Perthes syndrome. I would take her to see her Dr. just to rule out any true problems.

1 mom found this helpful

I had these same pains when I was a little girl. I remember the pain very well. Kind of a deep aching pain. My mom used to throw towels in the dryer and get them really warm. Then she would wrap my legs really tight with them. It made them feel better long enough for me to be able to get to sleep. Good Luck. Hope this helps.

1 mom found this helpful

My baby brother (now 40) had growing pains like that. The doctor just said it was because he was growing so fast. At one point it looked like he had two knee caps.
The only comfort for him was rubbing as well. My older brother (we were 5 and 7 years older) and I would help rub his legs as he cried. He finally "out grew" this, but it was very heartbreaking.

1 mom found this helpful

More Answers

Sounds like your baby needs a little more calcium in her diet. Rather than drinking more milk, which actually leads to the problem you are describing, find a chiropractor or doctor nearby that carries Standard Process products. They have the BEST calcium on the market. It comes in tablets or powder that can be added to smoothies and other foods.

2 moms found this helpful

ok, this may not touch the pain, but is worth a shot. i am glad that you have been using massage. we all could stand to do this. bc we stand and walk/run all day the lactic acid settles in our shins and ankles. circulation is trying to carry it all out of the body by traveling back up the legs towards the heart. so, what you are doing is helpful bc it increases and helps the circulation. you might try making this part of your nightly bedtime routine while reading her a story. first massage her ankles (and feet for a short while) and then her shins and calves. you can try rubbing some arnica gel or cream in while you are doing this. arnica is a homeopathic that is great for mild injury, bruising and swelling. it is great with pain! i have used it for all my 5yo boys boo boos. we have very few bruises or prolonged injuries. it is readily available at any health food store. it can also be taken orally as well if that is helpful. after massage have her lay on her back on her bed or floor in front of the couch and then have her put her legs up at almost a 90 degree angle. they don't have to be straight up but elevation is the goal. this allows for all that junk that causes pain in our muscles and bones to flow out and should help with the problem. hopefully doing it before bed will have a two-fold affect, helping her to relax going to sleep easier and also sleep through the night. i will be praying that this helps. this is something that i used to recommend to all athletes and patients that i worked with when i was practicing massage therapy. sorry to be so long winded.

2 moms found this helpful

Extra calcium helps greatly. I experienced this from the time I was very young until well into adulthood and the rubbing helped, but it finally stopped when I learned that immediately drinking a large full glass of milk (sometimes two) would make it stop. If your daughter is not big on milk, try having her drink it over ice.

2 moms found this helpful

http://www.herbalremedies.com/unmedsal.html
above is a link where you can find a SALVE called UNKERS that you could rub on her shins.... you could even put a layer on her then let her take a good warm bath before bed, to relax the muscles! we use it for everything.... even colds! it has a wealth of uses. there are "look alikes" out there with this product as well- it should be in a white jar with blue letters. it is very reasonably priced and with all its uses become a "cure-all" in your house.

My family and my sisters family have been using this for years and we love it!! there is a list on the site also of all its uses!!
Also i would make sure she was drinking a lot of water!
good luck!

2 moms found this helpful

C.,

My son is 6 and has horrible growing pains for the last couple years. Massaging definitely helps, but so does putting a pillow between his shins when he sleeps. It keeps his legs warm and is a cushion for him. It is also something he can do himself: if his legs hurt in the middle of the night, he grabs his baseball pillow for his legs and is able to go back to sleep. If that doesn't work, I usually give him Tylenol Jr. Hope this helps because I know how heartbreaking this can be!

1 mom found this helpful

Hi C., I had this when I was a kid and my daughters have had it too. What I have done for them is just wrap the part that they tell me is hurting with an ace bandage.

When I was little and had this trouble I found the more I moved the worse it got (it seemed like it happened in the evenings after I had been running around and playing a lot). So I tell my kids to lay as still as they can until the pain goes away.

Also, I think the Hyland company that makes the homeopathic products like the colic tablets and teething tablets, bed wetting tablets or drops (can't remember which one it is), etc., I'm pretty sure they also make a product for growing pains also. You can find them in most any store now, in the drug section. They are all 100% natural so no worries there. I used to use the ones for teething on my kids when they had that problem and they worked really well.(We called them 'Happy Pills' HaHa!! Cause it made them and us much happier!)

Hope this provides a little help...good luck...let us know how it goes okay? :) D. R.

1 mom found this helpful

Hello C.,

My son had the same symptoms and he was Dx. with legg Perthes syndrome. I would take her to see her Dr. just to rule out any true problems.

1 mom found this helpful

I always had growing pains (or "leg aches, as I called them) as a kid, only mine were in my knees. They were especially bad when it was rainy weather, for some reason. What helped me was heat--my parents would put either Aspercreme or IcyHot on my knee when it hurt, or they would put the heating pad on it. Nowadays, you could get something like a rice sock that cools off on its own and doesn't have to be plugged in, if you didn't want to leave something like a heating pad in your little girl's bed. Over time, I did outgrow the leg aches, and I'm sure she will, too. Good luck!

1 mom found this helpful

Featured Mom-Owned Business

Compass Rose Music Together

Bolingbrook, IL

owner: Music Mama

Music and Movement Class for Mom & Baby

Take $15.00 off yor first semester's tuition by mentioning Mamapedia. Call for referral offers too.

Redeem/Print

View my website

Member Perk™

Required Fields

Our records show that we already have a Mamapedia or Mamasource account created for you under the email address you entered.

Please enter your Mamapedia or Mamasource password to continue signing in.

Required Fields

, you’re almost done...

Since this is the first time you are logging in to Mamapedia with Facebook Connect, please provide the following information so you can participate in the Mamapedia community.

As a member, you’ll receive optional email newsletters and community updates sent to you from Mamapedia, and your email address will never be shared with third parties.

By clicking "Continue to Mamapedia", I agree to the Mamapedia Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy.