J.L. asks from Hopkins, MN on November 09, 2009
Grocery Bill
For those of you with a family of four or more, how much do you spend monthly in groceries? I am especially interested in homes with teenagers. We have a teenager and a baby at our house, and my husband just told me he spent about $700 in groceries last month! This included trips to Costco, but for groceries. Formula and baby food are not included. I feel this is excessive and thought we were more in the line of $400-450 or so. Just curious if I am way off base.
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Thanks everyone! To answer a few questions, this amount included a few household items (dishwasher soap, etc.) but most of that and definitely toiletries are separate, and like I said, it did not include diapers or formula. It also did not include going out to eat, which we don't do much of. My husband does all of the grocery shopping, which is really nice for me, but he also buys some things that I probably wouldn't.
And those of you with this in your future...teenagers eat A LOT. My 16-year-old stepson moved in with us 6 months ago and there is definitely a difference!
We did figure out that October was a big month because we had our daughter's baptism, and we hosted a lunch at our house for our families (and also had my family in town that whole weekend). So that probably added about $100. I still think there is room for improvement and there are a few things we can do. We do plan our meals, but I think it would help to not just plan, but plan around what's on sale as some of you suggested. I'm also going to check out some of the coupon sites, and maybe give my husband a card with prices of some of our standard items on it, so he knows when he's finding a good deal.
Thanks so much to everyone for the great responses!
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M.D. answers from Minneapolis on November 12, 2009
I have a family of 5 (a 10 year old boy and 4 year old twins girls). I am the mom who buys the quick to fix suppers for my husband for nights when I am at work or at school. We spend between $500-$600 a month. I mainly shop at either Wal Mart, Super Target and Sams Club. When the girls were babies I spent more because of baby cereal and baby food (WIC paid for the formula).
H.K. answers from Omaha on November 10, 2009
Well, my kids are still little (almost 4, 2 and 3 months) and we are VERRY frugal and probably spend around 260 a month on groceries and toiletries and all. I do cloth diapers, meal plans based on sales, I price match and do coupons (some online if I don't have the sunday paper). I would love to have more of a $300-400 budget, but my husband and I have chosen to keep me home with the kids (and I LOVE it!) so there are things we need to sacrifice in order to do that, but it's worth it!
B.B. answers from Davenport on November 10, 2009
We are a family of 5 with three kids under 5. $700 sounds about right for what we spend too, even with trips to Aldi and not buying name brands.
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T.S. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2009
I looked through all the requests and expected someone to mention how to shop smart. I have recently took on using coupons and going to free sites to plan my shopping. I have learned how to get tons of FREE stuff. On average, every week I get at least 1-2 gallons of milk free and 3-4 (4 packs) of yogurt free and a lot of other stuff free or for only pennies. Check out hip2save.com or pocketyourdollars.com to get started. These are just like the paid sites but are free. You would be amazed at how little you spend if you work the deals. I have a family of 5 and my husband is laid off and I get enough stuff cheap or free that I also donate to families that are in need.
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S.K. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2009
J.,
You are right, it's unneccessary to spend that much. $400-450 is about right including formula. Our family includes 2 adults and the kids are age 8,7,4,2. I spend about $550 a month and we have a 3 month supply of food in our pantry / freezer in case of emergency, job loss, etc. that is consistently rotated and added to. I buy high quality whole foods - organic meat, dairy, and produce. I don't buy prepackaged convenience snack foods.
I taught a grocery shopping class for the ladies at my church and a few came up to me a couple months later and said they cut their bill by $200-300 by trying my suggestions. If you are interested in a copy of my notes from the class for ideas, feel free to email me.
Good luck,
S.
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T.W. answers from Minneapolis on November 10, 2009
I have a family of 5, my husband and I, a 16 year old son, an 11 year old son and a 7 year old daughter. Our 16 year old eats as much as my husband and I combined at dinner.
I agree with what another mom said, I include laundry soap, toilet paper etc... into my monthly bill.
I spend at least $1,000 a month on food. BUT, we eat 100% organic and I also buy only pasture-fed meats. I make everything from scratch and eat almost zero processed foods. Needeless to say, good and real food is expensive.
Because we spend so much on real food, we are a TON healthier and were were able to cut $600 per month out of our health care budget. Start thinking of your grocery budget and your health care budget as one and you'll see where cheap food gets you.
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B.B. answers from Davenport on November 10, 2009
We are a family of 5 with three kids under 5. $700 sounds about right for what we spend too, even with trips to Aldi and not buying name brands.
J.K. answers from Omaha on November 10, 2009
Hi! We do not have teens but we have 2 boys 10 and 6 and 2 girls 2 1/2 and 9 months. I grocery shop once a week for all of our household needs; diapers, toiletries, cleaning supplies, groceries, everything and on average I probably spend about $450-$550 a month, depending on what we need every week and my husband thinks that is excessive! I have to admit I am every cashiers nightmare; I coupon clip and price match, excessively! $700 does seem like a lot to me but again, the teens may make all the difference. Everyone tells me just wait, they will eat us out of house and home! I prefer not to take my husband to the grocery store because he buys 'frivolous' items and everything name brand, which I stay on the generic side. Sit down and come up with a budget and determine which items you can splurge on and which you can stay on the lower end with. Good Luck!
D.V. answers from Green Bay on November 10, 2009
We are a family of four; girls are seven and eight, and we spent $500 last month. We only eat red meat a couple times a month, so that's pretty much fruits, veggies, chicken and fish!! I can't believe how much groceries cost. We started buying in "bulk" and freezing things. Check the price per pound on the price sticker, it's sometimes amazing much more per pound a smaller package costs. You think you're saving by buying smaller, but the cost per pound is much higher! We also go to the store more often instead of letting fresh fruits and veggies go bad (less waste). And cut coupons! It can be a hassle, but I saved $25 this last time! These things allow us to splurge on a few things, like deli shaved turkey and cheeses. Yummy!!
T.L. answers from Minneapolis on November 09, 2009
Hi J.
I have a family of four my son is ten but out eats his dad most nights and we spend right around 400 a month in grocerys we do shop at wal-mart though so that may make a diffrence. I know my friend has the same size family and only spends about 250 a month but she never buys meat her husband hunts all the meat they eat.
K.K. answers from Milwaukee on November 10, 2009
I don't think that's unreasonable..sorry! You might try a book called "Miserly Moms." I found it very helpful for finding ways to trim our outgoing money in different ways...and not just on groceries.
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