K.E. asks from Eielson AFB, AK on August 06, 2007
Going into Labor?
My 2nd baby is not due until the 27th. However, at my last doctor's appointment she said I was dilated to a good 1, but that the baby was high and had not "dropped" into position yet. My question is how do I know when it's time to head to the hospital? I was induced with my 1st 5 days before my due date, so I'm not sure what I'm looking for. I have a new doctor this round and they will not induce until I am overdue. I am looking forward to just letting nature take its course, but I am not sure how I am supposed to know when the big day is here or if it is even close. I would really like to hang on until my mother in law gets into town on the 23rd because she will be able to watch our toddler. I have been having lots of Braxton Hicks contractions that are getting more painful as the days pass. I guess I am just looking for tips from moms that went into labor naturally about how long it took once you started to dilate and what to look for.
Also, my son only took 6 and a half hours to be born after they started the pitocin, so I am worried about not getting to the hospital on time. Is it true that your 2nd child come faster than the first?
So What Happened?™
Thanks everyone for your advice! I guess now we are just hanging out, waiting and praying our little one doesn't make to early of an arrival!
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M.M. answers from Spokane on August 06, 2007
You will lose your mucous plug (bloody show) when it is really the time. Even after that, you may labor for many hours until you are at a 10 and delivery is imminent.
My first I stayed at home for 10 hours after seeing the mucous plug (when I went to the bathroom) and still was only a 3+ at admittance. Pitocin induced labors do tend to be shorter so try to hang in there. If you are not in a rural area you should have plenty of time! Congrats! And apologies for this hideously hot weather. My second was born August 6th and I swear by bowls of ice water for the swollen feet:)
V.D. answers from Seattle on August 06, 2007
there are so many signs. but it's different for a lot of people. the last mom mentioned the mucos plug, but i didn't lose mine until my kids were actually being pushed out. my oldest was 4 1/2 hours from start to finish. i had never experienced labor before, and when it first started i wasn't sure. my doc said if you think its false, then take a HOT shower and if its false, the contractions should stop. well, when i did that, my water broke. my daughter was induced by my request because my son came so fast and i was dialated to a 4 and 90% at 8 1/2 months. she took about 8 hours, but they did not use pitocin. i wish i could tell you exactly what will happen, but truth is, when it starts, you'll know, trust me.
K.G. answers from Seattle on August 07, 2007
I too was induced with my first and wondered if I would know when with number 2. I would say as long as you are not a long way from the place you are delivering and have your stuff ready to go, be patient and trust that you will know.
I didn't have my stuff packed and then not only was I up in the middle of the night (about 10 days before my due date) with the real-deal contractions, I had to pack in between them and get my son to my mom's (just a few miles away). I still had plenty of time and was totally ready for the epidural apon arrival but I know that not everyone has that kind of time.
So, pack and have a plan and know that when you have to stop what you are doing due to the contraction (sleep, talking..)to concentrate on pain management, go. I would stop talking and pace in the early stages but I know that is different for everyone too.
Ultimately be prepared and trust the plan and yourself!
C.T. answers from Seattle on August 07, 2007
Trust me K. you will know. Also, be aware that if you have a lot of BH contractions it's not uncommon for you to have a quick labor and delivery.
For starters, your water may break. That's a good first clue.
Second you may loose your "plug" a red mucousy discharge. That's a good clue.
Third you'll be able to tell the difference btwn real contractions and BH contractions. If you lie down and take a nap and the contractions go away it's BH. If they don't you're in labor.
You'll probably still have plenty of time to get to the hospital. Do you have back up childcare for your son if MIL isn't in town yet? My DD (my only genetic child) was born 3w 5d early in 4h 32m.
They tell you not to go to the hospital until your contractions are 5 minutes apart. My first two were five minutes apart, so we headed straight there.
I hope you have an easy labor and delivery and are snuggling your healthy baby girl soon after MIL arrives.
B.M. answers from Seattle on August 07, 2007
K.-
I was induced with my first two and baby #3 came on her own. I remember waking up in the morning feeling strange. I was having what I thought were just Braxton-Hicks, but they were getting more regular and more painful. I started to time them and found they were 5 minutes apart. So I called the midwife and she said "call the hospital and get going!" 6 hours later, I had my baby girl! When you go into true labor, you'll probably know. All three of my labors were about the same length. It sounds like you were blessed with a short labor, too.
Good luck too you!
-B.-
D.J. answers from Spokane on August 07, 2007
Don't worry you will get to the hosptial in time!(unless you live in the boonies) I went past my due date had tons of braxton hicks, and was dilatedat 2cm for over a month (I never went to the hospital "thinking" it was time. One night I was rinsing the dishes and watching Greys Anatomy when "water" just started comin down my leg.After the show was over we went tothe hospital.Then I just sat there for 9 hours with NOTHING happening! The nurses told me later that I should've staid home till I had contractions that were timeable.So I guess what I'm saying is dont worry it will happen when its the right time and the hospital will be close enough! Good luck, congratulation's and blessed be. D.
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