M.W. asks from Anderson, IN on February 22, 2010
Gift for New Mom
My cousin and his 18yr old GF are expecing their first child in a couple weeks. I really want to get something useful, but supposedly they have everything the need from their shower. I know that I thought the same thing as a first time parent and was really shocked when the baby came and there was other stuff I needed. Mostly I didn't know about medicines, but they have those already from the aunt. Can you please give me suggestions of items a first time mom wouldn't think of? I am sending a gift, so I don't really want to give diapers.
So What Happened?™
Well, I'm not going to be able to make the trip to see the baby when it is born. I already have some 12mo clothes and bath towel & washcloths to take them when I do go up. For now I decided to order some books and have them sent directly there. The mom is an avid reader, and even dad is interested in baby & parenting books. I got "What a difference a Daddy makes" and "First time Mom" both are by my favorite parenting & relationship author Dr. Kevin Leman.
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J.H. answers from Lima on February 23, 2010
BebePapoose.com!! Awesome, Trendy Baby Carriers. They make the most unique gift & are great for fashionable moms on the go =)
J.W. answers from Columbus on February 23, 2010
Everyone always thinks of what the baby needs, but the parents also could use something as well. A gift card that will cover a dinner, that has carry out. It is nice to not have to cook periodically, but with a newborn going out is hard. And for the baby, knit sleep layettes that have elastic at the bottom. They are great for sleeping because there is easy access to the diaper in the middle of the night. Also some basics that are for several months down the road. The baby never stops needing something.
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D.R. answers from Cleveland on February 23, 2010
What I thought was great was my aunt bought us dinner the night we got home from the hospital and then gave us gift certificates for restaurants so I didn't have to cook. To me, that was the best!
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H.A. answers from Fort Wayne on February 23, 2010
I was in her shoes . . . 19 and prego. How about a gift-
certificate for a pedicure. I will never forget when I received
that gift. Also one of my favorite gifts was the name of my
baby spelled out in letters (a wall decoration). Another idea
Is the rods to hang up two rows (upper and lower) of clothes for
baby's closet.
D.S. answers from Columbus on February 23, 2010
J.H. answers from Lima on February 23, 2010
BebePapoose.com!! Awesome, Trendy Baby Carriers. They make the most unique gift & are great for fashionable moms on the go =)
K.M. answers from Kansas City on February 22, 2010
Great ideas so far! I'll add mine:
The little duck that tells whether or not the bath water is too hot and some other tub toys
I second the idea about BOOKS. You can't be too rich, too thin or have too many books. Goodnight Moon, Love You Forever, anything by Eric Carle
A really good diaper bag. I didn't appreciate this until someone gave me a diaper bag that was a backpack. Practical for me (it had a fold out changing pad) and manly enough for dh to carry
Have fun shopping!
A.R. answers from Cincinnati on February 23, 2010
I make these fleece blankets called "taggies". They are fleece blankets that have ribbons on each side for the baby to hold on to, or even put in their mouths. The ribbons are different textures for the baby to feel. The ones that I make are 18 inch squares with 7 ribbons on each side. I charge $20.00. Just something different. If you are interested, please send me an e-mail and I can get one to you. Thanks and have a great day!
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M.D. answers from San Francisco on February 22, 2010
I always send bigger size clothes, since you get so many newborn things. Another thing that i like to give the baby safe feeder (also for an older baby). You put food in the mesh bag and the baby holds it and feeds himself.
C.J. answers from Dallas on February 22, 2010
If you're thinking Practical:
Paci's
Bottle washers
Dishwasher Bottle Rack
Gripe Water
Teething tablets
Baby Lotion
Baby Bath
Fingernail Clippers
Non Practical
Photo gift certificate
everyone everywhere has JC Penney that takes decent photos for a reasonable price or you could certainly research another option (depending on your budget). Who doesn't love photos of their little bug?!?!
Best of luck to your cousin!
C.
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