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Four Month Old with Terrible Gas (And Getting Worse). Problems with Breastmilk?!

My 4.5 month old son has terrible gas/stomach problems and it is getting worse. Some background: He was born 1 month premature and started having stomach issues fairly early on. He had terrible reflux but we now have that managed with 2 mL of Prevacid twice a day. I gave up dairy in hopes that the stomach issue was due to a dairy intolerance. After it got worse (blood in stool), our GI recommended that I suspend breastfeeding for two weeks and use formula only (Neocate) to see if that helps. I really don't want to stop breastfeeding, nor do I want to risk his rejection of the breast after two weeks of bottle feeding. I am now cutting out all dairy, soy, eggs and peanuts from my diet (which is tough to do since I am vegetarian!). I am also avoiding all gas-producing foods like beans, onions and cabbage.

Has anyone had this experience with their baby having such breastmilk intolerance? Did you discover what in your diet was causing the problem? How long did it take until you saw some relief? It is so heartwrenching to see him in pain, with his big lower lip and tears. And his sleeping is terrible because he is constantly jerking around when his stomach starts up. He gets some relief when he passes the gas but then it just starts up again, all day and all night long. We do use mylicon, which seems to provide some relief but not much. He does get two bottles at night (a dreamfeed and a middle of the night bottle) which is usually breastmilk but occasionally (when I don't have enough pumped milk) formula. We have used both Alimentum and Neocate (both of which he really hates). We always burp him at least once after the bottles.

Any personal stories about how you dealt with this would be great, even if just for inspiration!

What can I do next?

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Try drinking fennel tea. My MIL swore by it, and when my baby was gassy, I'd drink some and it did seem to help her. I also started giving my baby Gripe Water before (or mixed into) each feeding--one of the main ingredients is fennel. It really helped...So sorry you guys are going through this! It WILL get better! Hang in there...

Oh, I'm sorry, that's so hard!

I'd suggest contacting La Leche League, like another Mom suggested.

My little one had blood in her stool when she was a baby. I cut out all dairy and it went away. The Dr. said we could try again in a month, and again there was blood in her stool. Then again after six months, and again the blood. So, I went dairy free for a while, and eventually gave her dairy when she was old enough and she seemed fine. Now (she's almost 3 yrs. old) she has constipation issues and the Dr. thinks it might be the dairy again. We control her constipation with a very small dose of medicine daily (it's like Miralax).

Anyway, when I cut out dairy I had to read EVERY label. It's the milk protein that they are allergic to, which is not the same thing as an intolerance. The intolerance is to lactose (I believe) but the allergy is to the milk protein, which is added to all kinds of food. It is in breads, sausages, probably lots of veggie processed foods, cookies, etc. I was very vigilant and she seemed to be fine. It wasn't easy, but I drank oat milk and rice milk (and got skinny, which I enjoyed since I was always kind of chubby before the pregnancy. ;)

I wish you lots of luck and hope you find a solution soon!

H.

just fyi. i would NOT switch to formula. it is highly unlikely to have a breast milk intolerance. breastmilk is the most easily digested. if the baby has problems now, imagine with formula!! my baby had the same problems. they grow out of it. with a lot of bouncing :)

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Have you talked to any lactation specialists or someone from the La Leche League? They might be really helpful in troubleshooting some of your issues and answering some questions about how what you eat does/doesn't affect your baby. This sounds down right awful for you and you deserve a gold star for all your efforts! Hang in there and keep looking for answers. I can't imagine how hard it all is, especially seeing that sad little lower lip!

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I am suspecting a poor latch. Do you ever hear a "clicking" sound when he nurses? Is your nipple ever flattened on one side? Many gas issues are actually latch issues.

I agree with Cecilia about other foods than can cause issues.

In all my years as a peer breastfeeding counselor, I did have ONE mom who actually had a baby that was having issues with the local water supply (she would drink it and the chlorine would pass into her milk and the baby would react). She switched to drinking distilled water and the problem resolved.

I do suspect sucking air while nursing however. I also counsel moms from across the country for free. Let me know if I can help in any way.

Best wishes!
K., Cape Cod Breastfeeding Moms / My Mamma's Milk

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caffiene causes a lot of gas in your milk. broccoli, caulifr, spinach, beans. try Gripe Water. its herbal.

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So sorry you and the little guy are having a hard time. Before you put too much more energy into super fine tuning your diet, I would strongly suggest seeing a certified lactation consultant. I did this after La Leche League, books, the web and my pediatrician(who is also a lactation consultant!) couldn't help me with a breastfeeding problem. It wasn't too expensive and really helped. LLL, your Dr or maybe the moms on here or Betkeley Parents Network can help you find a good one. Best of luck and, if you need to, contact me for the name of the lady I saw in Palo Alto.

I had the same problem with my first daughter. Ugh! I was suspicious that it was a cows milk protein intolerance but just to make sure, I cut out EVERYTHING! I ate steamed rice and overcooked zuccini with plain meat such as pork loin or chicken (with no seasoning) for a whole week. My milk production was not affected since I was eating plenty of carbs and protein. Within a couple days, she was a happy baby! And no more mucus in her stool (she hadn't gotten to the bloody stool stage yet). I slowly reintroduced different foods back into my diet starting with veggies and fruits. No problems there. Then I started adding in oats, corn, soy and wheat. I waited 3-4 days before trying a new food to see if the screaming baby returned. Lastly, I added in a little cows milk protein~the screaming baby returned and I had an exact idea of what the culprit was. I did not have any CMP, casein or whey in my diet nor was she able to tolerate it once she started table foods. My daughter's pediatric gastroenterologist once told me that it is normal to not be able to tolerate cows milk protein since we are the only mammal that drinks another mammals milk.....makes sense to me. So I guess my point is, don't give up the breast feeding....it is genetically perfect for him. Just modify your diet to see what the culprit might be.
I know that the reflux doesn't help matters either. Both of my girls have it. The oldest refluxes horribly if she does have any CMP so we still avoid it 95% of the time. If she doesn't have any CMP, she doesn't have to take any Prevacid and is reflux free!!!
I hope this helps a little....it will get better. Message me if you have any questions. Good luck!

Stop the breastfeeding and see if it works. If it does help what a wonderful thing! Not having breastmilk is not the end of the world-don't let anyone make you feel guilty about it. Reducing his suffering and improving his comfort is more important. Nutrition can come from other sources. If eating is not painful, then he will learn to eat better anyway.Not to mention your nutrition will no longer suffer. Have you tried Nutramigen (non milk based and hypoallergenic)? Worked well for my daughter who had some issues with breastmilk and milk formula (but not as bad as your child).
Soon after birth she started arching her back, crying and popped on and off the nipple/ bottle all through a feeding. She wanted to eat because she was hungry but eating was painful-such a dilemna for a little baby! Switched solely to Nutramigen with much improvement. She is 20 mo. old now and still won't touch a drop of milk in any way, shape or flavor no matter how much I try. She can tolerate cheese and yogurt. Try burping more frequently throughout the bottle, not just once afterwards-avoid any build up of air. Good luck.

I hate to ask this question, but what do his poops look like? Is he gaining weight? Have you thought about talking to an IBCLC (certified lactation consultant) in your area? I would really recommend talking to an IBCLC because she may be able to report to your doctor that your already seeing.

Hi there,
When I first had my little girl, some friends brought a chicken and broccolli casserole over. My little girl was real fussy and seemed uncomfortable - but it was easy for me to tell - her little fluffs smelled just like broccolli - I gave it up and she was fine. Think about what you eat consistently - maybe dark green leafies? broccolli? ice cream? and then try cutting one of those items out for a few days to see if there is any improvement. Best of luck.

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